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Is it over exposure that's causing him to not find me attractive anymore? He's looking elsewhere!

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Question - (28 April 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 April 2008)
A female United States age , anonymous writes:

Here's the thing, last week my boyfriend and I spent A LOT of time together, going places and being together and it felt good, EXCEPT for him it doesn't seem to count for anything!!!! He says he's not attracted to me (although he certainly was a few years ago! Said he'd wanted to marry me.) I don't know if it's over exposure or what, but I feel 100% taken for granted. He asks my advice on everything and says he adores me, but

he's been looking elsewhere as though I wasn't right in front of his face!

Pathetic on my part, but I don't know what to do!! I am so emotionally attached, I know people will say I should branch out on my own, etc., etc.,

but we are like married only he thinks he's a bachelor!!! Please help!

It's a torture.

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A male reader, Collaroy Australia +, writes (29 April 2008):

Collaroy agony auntHi,

its time to leave him to explore his studhood elsewhere, the guys blowing hot air and is a jerk.

Dump him. find someone else who will show you a little respect.

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A female reader, PreciousNY United States +, writes (28 April 2008):

How can you possibly love someone who would treat you so badly as if you don't have any feelings. You need to leave him.

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A female reader, duskyrowe United Kingdom +, writes (28 April 2008):

duskyrowe agony auntYour fella is an insensitive jerk........ Get rid of him.

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