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writes:When I was 18 ( and a Senior in High School) I met this cool guy ( 17, and a Junior) we became fast friends .. . he called my everyday and hanging out led us 2 hook up 3 times. When I graduated he called me for a month straight , but I never answered . The problem is I was getting ready to start school, my home situation was a bit complicated , and I had grown attached to him ,simply put I loved him. I never thought he liked me I just always assumed that we were really good friends that just happended to sleep with eachother 3 diffrent times. Im realistic in my thinking most of the times I figured if he didnt ask how I felt he didnt care and most guys that I know who sleep with girls dont usually consider them girlfriend material. So I thought I was doing the right thing by walking away from him .. fast forward 4yrs ( this happended in 2004) I contacting him on MySpace, I never really got over him .. we had a mutual friend and I always asked him how he was doing. Well I sent him an note with my e-mail address and he replied 2 days later and gave me his # . For the past month we have been talking ( at times) and texting back and forth we have even sent pics.. problem is he says things can never be the same ( although I never asked for them 2 b) and ? why I cam eback. Honestly I dont know ,but I didnt come back 2 complicate things . One minute he's hot the next he's cold. He want to Atlanta , and asked me to send him a pic ,but when he came back he went on and on about how I just appeared after 3 yrs .. and how I never cared about his feelings .. he kept saying its in the past and he doesnt care but if he didnt care y bring it up and keep bringing it up ??? So last friday, I tell him I use 2 have feelings for him .. he asked me y I never said anything and I told him it was because he was messing with so many girls . . and he told me he use 2 ''kinda'' like me but nothing could ever b the same.. he just kept saying now we'll never know what could have happended. Then Monday, he sends me a text saying hi and I was shocked and he asked me how does that look me doing that after you told me how you felt bout me ?? WAt ??? I thought he wanted me out his life ??? So i text him 2 days later and he's all cold again not responding. And friday .. I made a mistake and told him I still loved him .. he laughed out loud ( through text) huh ?? wats that about????? Wats going on ?? Is he still hurt by the way I left ?? Does he really want me out his life ?? And if he did y answer my texts and send pics?? Im 22 now .. he's 21 wats going on??Sorry its long
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (27 April 2008):
 I believe he's acting in a very immature way. I don't believe in "love games". Maybe he was hurt when you left, but it's so stupid of him to "get even". I think you should not communicate with him again. You would give him a chance to keep on playing cruel games with you.
This guy is sending you mixed signals, but I'm afraid it's not because he doesn't know what to do, but, instead, because he wants to keep you all messed up.
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reader, salvation  +, writes (27 April 2008):
it sounds like he is still hurt by what happened i think he really had feelings for you and because you just kinda stoped he never got any closur you need to have a real talk with him about the situation if nothing else atleast you two can be friends
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