A
male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I am a gay guy. I met this guy about an year ago. He is 21 and I am 35. He used to hang out with the girls of his age a lot,and I have seen him talking with the girls without his shirt. He goes to the gym and stays in shape, and although he makes a show and tell with the girls , my gut tells me he is gay. Then one day I look at him and he smiled at me in a certain way. I meet him in town on and off and he asked me when I am getting married. I didn't answer. On FB he told me that he wants to be a good friend and to "try him out". After a long silence yesterday he sends an invite for "Whose got a secret crush on you" app on FB. I thanked for the invite. He then sends me a msg saying he didn't send it on purpose. He apologized if it annoyed me. I ask him not be silly, and said I didn't know what to say, thanked him and said "big hug". He replied with one line saying, "oh dats great".I am older but I like him. A lot. What do I do?? Does he like me?? Is he messing with me?? Pretty messed up right now....
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reader, LususNaturae  +, writes (20 March 2013):
why not tell him how you feel... about your fears and wants, perhaps he is feeling the same and as a younger guy just doesn't know how to put it into words...
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