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writes: I am 19 years old and lately a friend of mine has been hinting to me about having sex together. I really like her and find her attractive but she is 25 years old and I am worried because I have had little sexual experience and I don't want to make a fool of myself or be disappointing to her. As a result of my insecurity I keep shying away from her advances and I'm worried that I may miss this opportunity altogether.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2005): Dont worry about how you perform. If she is a good friend then i daresay she is aware that you have not had much experience. She may be exicted about the prospect of teaching you a thing or two. Have fun
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (15 August 2005):
 If she continues hinting, I don't think that she's worried about your lack of experience. Why not take her up on the next offer, saying "Well, I'd love to. I'm still learning, but I don't mind practicing as often as needed!"
Have a bit of a sense of humour about things. You're only 19; you're not expected to be Don Juan. If she thinks you're attractive and wants to get you into bed, take it as the compliment that it is. Then, just be open to experimentation. Talk to her about what she likes to do and what you like. Be ready to try out new things with her.
Sex doesn't always have to be about a 'formula' or a 'technique'; sometimes it's just fun to have a willing and fun-loving partner to explore new ideas with.
Go on!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2005): You should not be embarrassed by this. I think that as an adult sex should be an open subject with someone you are interested in. When people have sex they need to communicate with eachother as to what the other person likes or need. Keep in mind that sex is about satisfying both of your needs. You should really be honest and open with her about your inexperience. I am sure that she will not mind. I personally would rather someone be honest with me. She might just show you a side of your sexual life that you didnt know you had. I say go for it but be honest!!!
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