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writes: I'm a 15 yr old girl, and this guy I like (he's 18) asked me for my phone number so I gave it to him. The next day we kissed. The day after we kissed this guy (21) that I have liked for ages asked me to meet up with him because I hadn't seen him for ages... That night we kissed. I don't know what guy to go out with because I like them both. My friends and mother thinks I should go out with Carl (18) but they don't know I have feelings for Stuart (21) and that we kissed!! Please tell me what I should do!! Reply to this Question |
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reader, emeraldeyz +, writes (18 October 2005):
Well you need to decide firstly who likes you more and which one could you see yourself being with for a long time. You should always have a close bond as a friend with a guy, so find out who is the better friend. That way you will know that you can trust him and that he will be honest with you. Ive always had a thing for looks before personality and trust me looks isnt the way to go forward if you want a long term relationship. If you are so deeply possessed by both then weigh up their good and bad sides, see which one has the higher rating.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2005): Ok from the last letter I asked for help on, I didn't fill you in on most of the problems. The guy who is 21 said he will wait until I am 16 to take things further and I have known him for longer than the 18 yr old and (18) he wants to rush into things!!
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reader, myteamum +, writes (11 August 2005):
Hi sweety, First of all you are only 15 years old so i hope that neither of these men have taken things any further.As for which one to choose that is a decission only you can make.Just remember whilst you may think that you like one or both of them you are having hormones from hell just now so how can you be truely sure that either is the right choice.I know it sounds silly to you probably but once upon a time not too many years ago i used to have the same problem but in the end i didn`t stay with any of them.You most ptobably won`t either so don`t strees so much just now.And by the way just one more cautionary note if they truely have any feelings for you at all then with you only being 15 they will wait for you as long as is necessary too.I hope that this might help you out a bit.Take care enjoy your life don`t stress out over guys and be careful.
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