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Archived questions from: 28 January, 2017 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My girlfriend is in hospital and her family are keeping me in the dark

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2633 days ago

28 January 2017 (M)

age 36-40 - I have no idea what to do to deal with this situation. I have been with my girlfriend since 2011, she was 18 at the time we started. We have had a great relationship, typical ups and downs, but all in all great. Her family has never warmed up to me and has consistently tre... (467 words)

When will he tell me he loves me, I don't want to say it first this time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2645 days ago

28 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - When can I expect my boyfriend to tell me he loves me? What are some signs that will indicate that he feels that way? (even if not saying it) I'm well on my way to falling in love with him, but don't want to say it first this time. I have said it first many times and it d... (66 words)

I don't want to have a relationship with him but I'd like him as a friend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

28 January 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my ex (who i've known my entire life) split up a year ago because he started to treat me bad and was showing signs of unfaithfulness. However, a year on me and him were supposedly over the relationship and he requested that we be friends. We met up just for a general ... (283 words)

I feel I am just not good enough for anything, its affecting my life and future!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

28 January 2017 (F)

age 22-25 - How do I get over this overwhelming feeling that I'm just not good enough? I'm going to be 18 this year and I'm just sick of always feeling this way about everything. 1) I'm the middle child in my family, and this may sound really cliqué but it's true what they say about th... (500 words)

I don't know how to relax and be content in the moment.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

28 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating a great guy for a few months now. In the first few weeks, we had 2 minor communication mishaps, but it's generally been smooth sailing. My friends and family like him, and his like me. It's the first healthy relationship I've had in a while, and it's also th... (252 words)

I need help to face my fears so I can ask her out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

28 January 2017 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey ppl, I need some advice. I'll try to keep it short. I like a girl. I have a bad case of social anxiety. I think she used to like me too but think I've waited too long and she's loosing/lost interest.I get to see her once a week. Most times I give her an awkward smile an... (158 words)

I'm having doubts about his ability to stay faithful

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

28 January 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for about 8/9 months now. He is 29 and I'm 31. He is into sex a lot and has a really high sex drive. He needs to have sex everyday plus masturbate once a day on top of that. I am not always up for sex everyday, sometimes I'm just quite tired. He ... (301 words)

LDR boyfriend is dragging his feet about us moving in together

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

28 January 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a long distance relationship and have been for almost four years.My finance live 88 miles away so I see him every weekend. The problem is he is dragging his feet for us to live together and I have become extremely resentful.He says we can buy a house near where I live ... (174 words)

Is my boyfriend not attracted to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

28 January 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - So I have been with my bf for a year now. He's such a caring, supportive and generous guy. During our first weeks of relationship, he initiates sex more often but not the great even but these days,he doesn't anymore. Sometimes, he even has a hard time erecting. He hasn't ... (158 words)

He has told me he no longer loves me ... but we have been happier than ever.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2642 days ago

28 January 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - I am having some troubles with my fiancé. I am 22 years old and we have been together for four years now, we also live together and have a mortgage on our own house. Over the pst few months he keeps saying things like "I need some space" and "I want to have fun", which I ha... (480 words)

I'm a sex addict and now my boyfriend is angry and withholding sex from me

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

28 January 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all. Im stuck in a situation that is difficult for me to talk about due to embarrassment. Im a sex addict and have been dating the same man for going on 5 years now. At first, our sex life was incredible. I thanked god for sending me a man that could finally keep up with my ... (511 words)

Affair with my best friend but I have a partner of 18 years and a one year old that we had after years of trying. What do I do now?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2638 days ago

28 January 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my partner for 18 years I do love him and we have a one year old which we tried for years to have. But for the last 3 year I have been having an affair with my best friend who's showed me so much love , a lot more love than I seem to get at home. He now won't see ... (138 words)

I kissed Max on the cheek and Mark thinks I cheated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2642 days ago

28 January 2017 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, me and this boy have known each other for around 3 years now. Lets say his name is mark, me and mark have been quite good mates. The other day he asked me to be his girlfriend and I said yes. I told him not to tell anyone we were together because I thought my best friend ... (241 words)

Why is he checking on his ex flings FB page after she unfriended him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2642 days ago

28 January 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - Something happened a few months ago with my husband and an "ex-fling" of his. I was there when the incident occurred and it was just a bit of drunk stupidity on his part, which we are both fine with in our relationship - it was a private message social media incident and it has ... (280 words)

Could my bf's avoidance of my compliments suggest he is cheating?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2633 days ago

28 January 2017 (F) age 41-50 - I have been suspecting my bf has been unfaithful recently. Just sense a change. When having a text conversation this evening, I went on about how lucky I am to have him. What a good guy he is and how I am glad he is not like other men. I said he makes me so happy and I know... (265 words)

I know we can solve any problems but he just acts distant!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2645 days ago

28 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I really need some male opinion on this, I was friends with this guy 3 years ago we started having sex without admitting that we were in a relationship which was what we both wanted at that time ( though it seemed like we had feelings for each other), we had some sex prob... (271 words)

How come I am not heartbroken?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2642 days ago

28 January 2017 (M)

age 26-29 - I had a huge crush on a girl for about 5 years. I went to school with her in high school, but now that I'm out I haven't spoken to her in person just over text. Recently I found out she just got a boyfriend, at first I thought I'd be all heart broken and sob for weeks, but I'm ... (80 words)

He is much older but I want to have sex with him

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2642 days ago

28 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - I knew a guy at work. I'm 22 he is 41. A very sexy man. Do u think he will have something with me after sex. We decided to be friends with benefits. He is in a relationship with a 31 years old . We planned to have sex this weekend. Do you think is a good idea? I feel afraid t... (89 words)