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After my past life I can't face his sexual demands

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2628 days ago

5 January 2017 (F age 41-50 - I am 42 and have been through a lot. I have been rapped when I was younger and beat by my mom and almost every guy I have been with. I need help trying to figure out something. My boyfriend gets mad at me for not wanting to do a 3-some. I hate touching myself and I don't ... (95 words

He wants me to be his accountability partner!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2628 days ago

5 January 2017 (F age 30-35 - I write articles online and some commenters are allowed to message me on an anonymous mail for private conversations. My type of articles are centred around happenings in everyday life and the struggles faced by youths but I'm in no way an expert. I just voice out my opi... (123 words

I've fallen for my friend's ex! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2625 days ago

5 January 2017 (F age 22-25 - I have fallen in love with my friend's ex. What should I do? I have been crushing on him for just over a year now and can't stop thinking about him, they broke up about 2 and a half years ago and she is in a relationship with this new guy who she has been with for almost ... (154 words

I'm looking for feedback on my decision to break up with my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2628 days ago

5 January 2017 (F age 26-29 - Hello Everyone! I am truly at a crossroads in my life. I am 20, about to turn 21, graduating an entire year early from a pretty rigorous liberal arts college. Back in October I broke up with my 3-year, mainly long distance boyfriend, whom I met in high school. He freak... (795 words

My life looks pretty discouraging!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2627 days ago

5 January 2017 (F age 36-40 - I have just turned 30, and that has caused me to evaluate what I should or should not have acquired/achieved by this age. And my self analysis looks pretty discouraging: Dead-end part-time job with no health benefits ,and no PTO I have just graduated with a Bachelor's in a p... (294 words

The phone messages he's been receiving from her do bother me. But how do I raise the issue with my husband?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2625 days ago

5 January 2017 (F age 30-35 - Hello I am a woman in my late 20's who has been married for 2 years. I have a problem and don't know how to handle it. My husband back when we were first dating over 4 years ago had cheated on me with a woman he was friends with at a drunken party. They had kissed and touch... (294 words

Why is my ex boyfriend still so angry at me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2629 days ago

5 January 2017 (F age - why is my ex boyfriend still so angry at me? He broke off our relationship six months ago for no reason that I could see. When I asked him all he could say was that he wanted someone who was the same every day. Makes no sense as I am always in the same good mood every ... (72 words

Heartbroken, but I want to forgive him. What are my options? Found out my Bf has been cheating.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2628 days ago

5 January 2017 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 years. Lately he has been acting weird and always on Snapchat and never responds to my text but responds to me on Snapchat. One day he left his Snapchat logged in on my iPad and I became curious. I looked at the Snapchat a... (165 words

Should I be more angry or just let it go? My wife confessed that she gave oral briefly to a male stripper at a party

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 2609 days ago

5 January 2017 (M age 36-40 - Hi, my wife went to a girls party night recently where we both knew there would be male strippers. I was totally cool with it but she got carried away with the night and ended up giving a few seconds of oral to all but one of the strippers. She told me about it straight away... (224 words

Help, please? I don't want to hurt my friends, but we all like the same guy. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2625 days ago

5 January 2017 (F age 18-21 - Hi, I'm 13 and I'm in a bit of a love triangle... Well.. Love square. My two best friends like the same boy, and they have for ages now. And guess what? Now I'm in the picture, I like him too. And the thing is, he likes me. I feel bad for my friends because they kno... (130 words

He doesn't give me the attention I want.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2629 days ago

5 January 2017 (F age 22-25 - My boyfriend claims he loves me but yet is nonchalant about everything. He hardly call me. Not only me - he hardly call his mom. He is always saying he's not used to calling and if am angry he was tell me am stressing over little issues. I love him so much but I want attention. ... (61 words

Why are they discouraging me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2628 days ago

5 January 2017 (F age 22-25 - I'm 14 and taking an interest in guys, maybe even girls, and people are discouraging me. They say I should worry about my education instead and that I'm being too mature already? I don't get it. I do focus on my education. I have good grades. All I said was that I was simply... (178 words

His behavior has me asking if he is bisexual!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2544 days ago

5 January 2017 (F age 30-35 - Hey everyone, Thanks for taking the time to hear me out. I met my boyfriend in college almost 3 years ago. We've gotten along great and haven't had any serious issues...until now. I've just recently noticed that his behavior is a little odd and is prompting me to quest... (387 words

He proposed but there is no date set!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2629 days ago

5 January 2017 (F age 41-50 - I have been living with my boyfriend for the last 3.5 yrs. 2 yrs ago he proposed. Even thought it wasnt the most romantic proposal, it felt like the world to me. It was my own fairytale. He was my first love, high school sweetheart that guy that u break up over a stupid thing ... (813 words

Why do men insist on commenting about other women's looks?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2628 days ago

5 January 2017 (F age 41-50 - I was wondering if anyone could shed some light in this for me . A guy was seeing went out of his was to make a point to me how beautiful his ex wife was. I have also noticed before that men seem to do this when on dates sometimes . They seem to want to say how gorgeous she was ... (165 words

She's broken up with her girlfriend and I've always thought we could have something special together, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2628 days ago

5 January 2017 (F age 30-35 - Yesterday I bumped into an old friend, someone I haven't seen much of this past year, but someone I have always, since we first met, had very strong feelings for. In the entire time that I have known her she has always had a long-term girlfriend, But yesterday she said the ... (1014 words

He likes and comments on my social media but blanks when invited out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2628 days ago

5 January 2017 (M age 30-35 - Okay so I met this guy on social media but I don't get him.... seems we have a lot in common and when we've spoken convo flowed well. He follows me on two types of social media as I do him. Sometimes now he don't reply to conversations...... I've asked him to go for a drin... (164 words

How do I get my friend interested in the dating scene?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2512 days ago

5 January 2017 (M age 36-40 - Hi everyone, this is surely going to be a very long question and I'd appreciate any genuine answers as I'm doing this for a friend I care about. So my friend has had a pretty straight yet unusual growing up. Went to a boarding house for 6 years, strict Christian househ... (200 words

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