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His reaction made me feel guilty. Should I have gone there when he asked me to come over ?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 54 days ago

1 January 2017 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend called on a Sunday as soon as he woke up, which was the same time I woke up. He asked me "come over, I'll change the oil in your car", and since I just woke up and haven't walked my little dogs for a couple days because of the cold weather I felt guilty and prom... (241 words

I find myself attracted to another person. I would never cheat. But what does this feeling say about my current relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 52 days ago

1 January 2017 (F age 26-29 - I have been in a relationship for nine years. I love him. But recently I have found myself somewhat attracted to someone else. I would never cheat, ever. But is this something that is normal? It's just a crush but does that mean I don't feel enough for this relationshi... (60 words

Why cant my wife say sorry?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 49 days ago

1 January 2017 (M age 36-40 - I have been noticing for a few years now that my wife never can bring herself up to say sorry! I am much more of a perfectionist than her. She has messed up a lot of things in the past - like check writing (once she added $1195 and 25 to enter $2120 and entered the sa... (538 words

Can this become my best option? I want to cut my entire family off from my life completely

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 52 days ago

1 January 2017 (F age 22-25 - I want to cut my entire family off from my life completely. I come from a very large polygamous family but we're so divided that every part of the whole is like on its own niche. I don't talk to my step neither do they talk to me. I only keep contact with my full blo... (412 words

Wedding is booked. But groom has cold feet. He's 40 and is fearful of commitment. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 51 days ago

1 January 2017 (F age 30-35 - Hi We are due to get married in just a few weeks time. A number of days ago, my fiancee has said to me he has cold feet about the wedding and is overcome with nervousness and fear about the day itself, growing up and getting married. We are both in our late thirties are are... (451 words

I'm 25 and feel like my best years are behind me. Am I going to be ok?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 54 days ago

1 January 2017 (M age 26-29 - I'm 26 no job, no degree and have no sexual/relationship experience. I know that I could live to 50 and beyond but it feels like my best years are behind me. I can't help but feel like once you destroy your youth opportunities your life is irreversibly destroyed going forth. In ... (162 words

Is it possible I haven't found anyone who could excite me and hence I've now lost interest?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 55 days ago

1 January 2017 (F age 22-25 - hi there!! A happy new year to everyone I want to know if anyone has gone through the phase I am going though right now. So it has been over a year I broke up from a bad relationship that was long term. Since my focus is on my career and other plans, I am not dating n... (233 words

Am I wasting my time with him? Should I say something to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 52 days ago

1 January 2017 (F age 36-40 - I have a friend who claims he wants to be more than friends We once went on a date 2 years ago but for some reason ill never know he chickened out meeting up again . Fast forward to now he says hes sorted his head out and knows what he wants . Spinning the lines he wants t... (244 words

Boyfriend kissed another guy while drunk as a 'joke'. Are my thoughts on this incident justifyable or am I being too uptight about this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 53 days ago

1 January 2017 (F age 22-25 - Hello all, Yesterday my bf of 6 years told me he'd kissed a guy he knew, while drunk, full on the mouth during a concert a few months back. It happened in a joking context, he added. Because of this context, he does not see a problem with it. I do somehow and i'd like some vi... (212 words

Will he freak when he finds I'm a virgin?

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1 January 2017 (F age 22-25 - Guys... what do you think if you get with someone who's a virgin? Ive met this guy and things are going well but he keeps turning things sexual. And well I've never done anything and still a virgin. I'm afraid when I tell him. He will freak out? Just wondered what all yo... (67 words

My husband made 160 phone calls in one month to his female coworker! Advice?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 49 days ago

1 January 2017 (F age 36-40 - Geez - where to begin? Suffice it to say that about a year ago I began a downward spiral into depression. (The triggering event was horrific, but unrelated to my marriage). Anyway, I am definitely not myself, anymore, nor do I adequately fulfill the needs of my spouse. I ... (701 words

Is there still a chance for us ? Maybe it has been way long over and I just didn't want to accept it? What can I say?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 55 days ago

1 January 2017 (F age 18-21 - I've only known my boyfriend for eight months and we've been dating for sixth months but it has been an on and off relationship. The first few weeks or month was everything I ever wanted to be in a relationship where my boyfriend would take me out to dinner once in a while, o... (1075 words

Waiting for a proposal for 3 years and then the ring was not to my taste. Am I worrying about things that matter in this situation?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 49 days ago

1 January 2017 (F age 30-35 - Iv been waiting over 3 and a half years for a proposal for a wedding After much nagging about marriage I got a proposal with a 219 pound argos ring when he earns over 20 000 per annum which shows no saving as he bought even this on a per monthly basis. I told my dad I wasn't ... (125 words

Would you tolerate a man calling you extremely derogatory, filthy name during arguments?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 48 days ago

1 January 2017 (F age 41-50 - Would you talk with a man who calls you a c....t during arguments ? He seems to think this is acceptable and rarely apologises . Even if he does , it happens again the very next time we argue . I've had enough and my confidence is completely shot . These are not the only ... (89 words

My jobless, lazy boyfriend is using me for money. He thinks what's mine is also his

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 54 days ago

1 January 2017 (F age 18-21 - Okay so my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year, he has been living with me and my family for about 8 months, for the past 6 months he has been unemployed and living off of me completely. Recently I was fortunate enough to come into a sum of money and frankly I'm ... (153 words

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