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Archived questions from: 17 January, 2016 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I ever recover from this broken marriage?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3019 days ago

17 January 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid Members, My husband has left me for someone else and I am really struggling. My question is will I ever get over this, honestly? Or will it affect me long term. This happened a few months ago. I have two young children and I am struggling. I feel sick... (282 words)

Severe depression and anxiety after worst breakup

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3018 days ago

17 January 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I split up about 2 months ago. Mainly because I felt I was putting more effort in than him. He's 30 and I'm 28. I refused to see him for 5 weeks as I believed the distance would do us good and give us time to figure things out. He was messaging me asking me where ... (245 words)

I'm really not sure that I want my "best friend" to be my maid of honour! She really hasn't been much of a friend the last several years

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3020 days ago

17 January 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - My mum and her best friend from school had a child in the same year (me and my best friend) so we was always together and obviously over the years became best friends we went to same schools did everything together blah blah.. Im getting married this year and we always s... (688 words)

I'm scared to come out and say I am gay

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3021 days ago

17 January 2016 (F) age 30-35 - I am very confused about who I am. Give you a history, I grew up going to Church and had beliefs installed in me, I then strayed from the Church around 18 and started going to Gay night clubs and have loads of Gay friends, during that period I did dable with women. Then I w... (313 words)

Why is my ex blowing cold?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3020 days ago

17 January 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a non-committed relationship. We have a child but that's about it. I may as well be on my own. He is a good dad to the child but does not consider my needs or talk about a future. I met with an old flame about 7 months ago, had a few dates up until mid Dec. We have... (208 words)

Should I put up with his roving eye?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3020 days ago

17 January 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing an older guy (35) for the last 7 or 8 months. We have told each other we love each other and are pretty serious about a future together. But lately I have started getting really bugged to the point of p***d off at his endless staring at other women. He will go ... (475 words)

He's married but he still calls me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3020 days ago

17 January 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - I was seeing this guy for about 2 years to come to find out his married the horrible part is he met me two weeks after he got married and I didn't find out until my co-worker noticed him on Facebook which I don't have a account but how can a man thinks it's ok just to do this ... (152 words)

do my feelings indicate actual gender identity issues?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3020 days ago

17 January 2016 (M) age 30-35 - Hi, I ticked male as my gender because there was no option to ignore and it said gender not sex, however I appear female and was born with female sex organs. So, basically I am "female" and refer to myself as a girl in most contexts, but deep down I feel as though I might be... (665 words)

She told me she was bad news and would eventuallly hurt me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3021 days ago

17 January 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello helpful people I have been seeing a girl for around 3 months now, the relationship started as a friendly but also sexual relationship, iv grown to really like this girl, and enjoy spending time with her. She really likes me to, here comes the but, 2015 was a hard year ... (369 words)

Why not? I always make sure he's satisfied, so why doesn't he satisfy me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3021 days ago

17 January 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid. This is a bit of an awkward one, me and my boyfriend have been together 3 years now in the begining we used to always have sex and he used to go down on me. However now im lucky if it even happens on my birthday! ive tried talking to him about it and he'll feel b... (143 words)

How to handle this? What other important past information has my husband hidden from me?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3017 days ago

17 January 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for 2 years dated 4 years prior to that. Tonight, I just found out my husband has been married 3 times prior to our relationship. I knew of one marriage, but he has never openly disclosed these other 2 marriages to me at any time. I just so... (189 words)

I want to stop. How should I stop going after someone who ignores me like this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3021 days ago

17 January 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid I am dating someone for past 3 weeks, earlier he seemed to be ok, wanted to talk to me all the time, we connected well. Had sex previous week and after that he is ignoring me, my calls, when I ask says he is busy over work, and today is sat, still no response fo... (179 words)