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anonymous
writes:I am in a non-committed relationship. We have a child but that's about it. I may as well be on my own. He is a good dad to the child but does not consider my needs or talk about a future.I met with an old flame about 7 months ago, had a few dates up until mid Dec. We have know each other for over 20 yrs. He wished me Happy New Year by text and we have not spoken for weeks. He knows that I am in some sort of a relationship and not happy. I am not chasing the ex. I am confused as to why he has just backed of all of a sudden. when we do see each other, he is all over me. I made the move and called him after our last date in December but refused to call him again to appear as if I am chasing him. He knows I do not like talking on the phone. He told me he is having financial problems and just changed jobs so he has a lot on.Any ideas as to why he is blowing cold?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (18 January 2016):
 First off if you are in a unhappy relationship well then get out off it. It is not okay to cheat on your partner just because he is not treating you well, it is still wrong. If you are not getting anything from the relationship, well then leave him, you can both still be great parents apart.
Your ex to me doesn't seem like he is interested. He uses you for his ego nothing more.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (18 January 2016):
 I think he told you why. After new years it's a time when many businesses close and people are waiting or negotiating new deals. He is worried about money so is not in a mood to pursue a relationship. You are still in a relationship so he's careful not to get in too deep. You know that you and baby daddy are not going anywhere but in his mind, anything can happen. There's no guarantee that you would break up with him.
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