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Why would your boyfriend tell you to be a "good girl" before he leaves to go out of town?

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3 January 2016 (F age 36-40 - Why would your boyfriend tell you to be a "good girl" before he leaves to go out of town? What's that mean? And why say it?... (32 words

Why is it that every man I am with just wants to use me for sex?

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3 January 2016 (F age 30-35 - Hello, I am constantly being used for sex no matter how hard I try not to be. I thought I learned my lesson the first time, back in highschool when I had my first boyfriend. we did not have sex nor did we do anything below the waist, not even if feeling eachother up. He was a ... (1317 words

My married son is going away to meet up with a woman he is attracted to. Do I tell his wife?

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3 January 2016 (F age - Hello. Thank you for reading this. I am having a problem with my son and his wife and I could do with some honest advice. My son has been married for 3 years to his wife. Prior to the wedding they had dated for about 7 years. They now have two very young children. Any... (537 words

LDR boyfriend has been seeing his ex the 3 years we have been dating. Advice please?

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3 January 2016 (F age 36-40 - Have been in a relationship/known a man for 3 years. It's different to other relationships I've had and hasn't always been straightforward. Despite all that has happened, I do genuinely love him and feel a connection with him. My main issue is that throughout the 3 years he h... (744 words

My boyfriend is moving in with me next week and now I'm having all these doubts

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3 January 2016 (F age 36-40 - After a disastrous relationship before and subsequently staying single for the last 6 years, im now in secure relationship of a year but im scared and having trouble dealing with my emotions. Im naturally very independent and really enjoyed my time being single, I had a few fl... (230 words

My boyfriend left on a trip but he was not overly emotional during our "good bye" and I am wondering why?

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3 January 2016 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend is leaving on a family trip to Europe tonight. He'll be gone for two weeks. He was just over at my place spending an hour with me to say good bye because that's all the time he had. He is getting ready so he can soon get to the airport. Everything between u... (475 words

Without passion is it worth it?

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3 January 2016 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend told me that he doesn't love me passionately, but he did say loves me and wants to be with me. He said the reason he doesn't love me passionately is that he has doubts because we fight sometimes and he thinks that I'm overly sensitive and I have anger issue... (576 words

I don't want my boyfriend to give up

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3 January 2016 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend has just suddenly told me he doesnt know what he wants in life. We havent been together very long (8 months). He said he lets things get on top of him and he feels pressure from work, friends, me, his parents... I told him i'm happy to step back and just see each ... (168 words

Are we just friens after spending the night together?

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3 January 2016 (F age 30-35 - Me and this guy became friends a few months ago. Neither of us have ever showed interest in being more than friends verbally. He has made statements explicitly saying we are just friends. However lately when we hang out we end up cuddling, spending the night and spooning while ... (88 words

Jealousy is eating me up

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3 January 2016 (F age 22-25 - I have this girl, we've been close for nearly a year, very close for a few months and together for around 3 weeks now. It's all happened so fast but she has this other friend whose known her ages (I'm female by the way and bisexual, however I don't see myself with any other ... (219 words

I have trust issues but my boyfriend won't fight for me!

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3 January 2016 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend broke up with me because of my anxiety and trust issue problems. It's all spiralled out of control.. We've been together for 2 years and lived together until this morning when he told me to pack my bags and leave! I have trust issues from a past relationship and am ... (174 words

I want my boyfriend to touch my breasts. Is this wrong?

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3 January 2016 (F age 22-25 - okay so hi, my boyfriend and i have been dating for like 4 months now, we are in our teens. anyway, we love each other very much, i wanted to ask if it would be wrong to let him touch my breasts and not just like on top of the shirt, actually inside my bra ??? ... (60 words

I often get a bad feeling when something threatening may happen, should I act on it this time?

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3 January 2016 (M age 22-25 - So before I get to the question, I have to tell a story. I am currently a junior in high school. When I was in 8th grade, I had a very "unsteady" feeling in the air I breathed, but I said nothing. Only a few days later (within the same week) my school had a pretty scary bom... (306 words

I no longer love him but he won't go. What to do?

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3 January 2016 (F age 36-40 - I am a 31 year old woman, in a relationship with a man 20 years older than me. We have been together for 9 years after he left his then wife for me. Over the years I have resented him for numerous things: lack of commitment, his control issues, and that his family still don... (285 words

My boyfriend puts his friends ahead of me and its making me feel unimportant

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3 January 2016 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend is a relly nice guy and a good frend. He's 26 and I'm 23 and we been seeing each othr for 2y. He has lots of close frends who he sees alot, guys and girls. He's quiet a popular guy where as Im way more reservd with only a few close frends. I like most his frends ... (153 words

I don't trust my feelings for her

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3 January 2016 (M age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 2 months And before i did have feelings for her. Then 2 weeks ago i started thinking, do i really? And now its really bugging me. Some days I do feel love for her, and i question it so much. Inside i know i do want to care for her. Ins... (334 words

I became bored with him and we broke up. What should I do about the fact that I now miss my ex?

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3 January 2016 (F age 30-35 - I am not perfect by any means, but when I care someone I give that my all. I fell for my ex, believing he was my type of guy. He turned out not to be. I have goals/ambitions/interests and he had none of those. The guy I'm w/doesn't need to make 100k, but he needs to have ca... (253 words

Where would you suggest I look to find a woman willing to cuckold me and become pregnant by another man after she and I are married?

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3 January 2016 (M age - Have looked and having trouble finding, yet I KNOW they exist. I am a single male, seeking a female for a relationship and eventual marriage. I am mostly submissive and definitely a cuckold. Seeing my gf having sex with men is amazingly erotic. I am now seeking a female... (155 words

How do I just "grow a pair" and approach a girl who hasn't shown any interest in me?

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3 January 2016 (M age 26-29 - When going out, I often have girls giving me signals of interest. Then there are some really good looking ones that seem uninterested. I would love to ask out one of the latter ones. About three times I've been told by others that after I left, the beautiful "uninterested"on... (126 words

She punishes me for having emotions. when I tell her how I feel she rips into me. When is this ever accptable?

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3 January 2016 (F age 36-40 - I'm a gay female. I've been in an off and on again relationship with my ex for many years. We constantly have blowups and then get back together. It's very unhealthy. Part of the problem is I feel that she constantly punishes me for my feelings. I guess I'm hoping for s... (490 words

What do I do if they do divorce?

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3 January 2016 (F age 26-29 - So this question is more about the relationship with my parents. I have two amazing parents that love me and I love them, however my dad is an alcoholic. His drinking affects me and my mom quite a bit, as we are always worrying about his health and his safety as he is a ve... (718 words

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