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Archived questions from: 22 January, 2016 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I broke up with boyfriend because he still doesn't want to marry for several years

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3010 days ago

22 January 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Tonight,I broke up with my bf of 1 year. It's been a lovely year,ups and downs of course. We love and care about each other,But tonight I expressed to him that I wish to get married soon as my parents are traditional; we are 8 years apart,he is 20 and I am 28! He expressed that ... (81 words)

My Bf and I, both 14, kiss a lot. Should I be worried about the recent way he's behaving when we kiss?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3009 days ago

22 January 2016 (F)

age 22-25 - my boyfriend and me have been in what i would say is a serious relationship for about 6 months. We are the same age and have got to the point where we kiss a lot, for a long time. recently, whilst kissing he's been pulling me a lot closer than usual and touching places he neve... (74 words)

Why is he still keeping in touch? Even though we are no longer having sexual relations?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3008 days ago

22 January 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - I did a bad thing. I was in a a relationship when I met a guy through a mutual friends. We exchanged phone numbers and started texting. After going out as friends for drinks, we ended up sleeping together. After that, we have done a few more times and continue texting and ... (279 words)

How can my parents call truce when around me, then restart their fighting as soon as they depart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3010 days ago

22 January 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - So, I suffered a hairline ankle fracture. I called my momma. She makes the 4 hour drive down to my campus. She picks up my dad. They are divorced. I hear them arguing outside my door. But then, they stop instantly when I finally get to the door. My dad is almost in tears about ... (140 words)

Do you believe in destiny? That you were meant to meet a certain person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3010 days ago

22 January 2016 (F) age 51-59 - I am curious about what everybody thinks. Was I meant to meet my BF of three years? Was it fate? Destined? We could have crossed paths twice before finally meeting the third time. The first time about 20 years ago at my work place where he had a mutual friend in a co-w... (172 words)

I like a guy that I'm also friends with his ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2986 days ago

22 January 2016 (F)

age 22-25 - I've been friends with this guy that I really like for ages, but I'm also friends with his ex and the three of us are in the same class, what should I do?... (33 words)

Did how I act merit her emotional outburst?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3010 days ago

22 January 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys. I posted on here a few days ago and got some really good responses. I'd like to maybe get a new perspective after these past few days because now I feel a bit crazy. I had a regular friends with benefits and I thought things were going okay. We hung out, watche... (495 words)

My husband left me for another woman. When does the shock go away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3010 days ago

22 January 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband of 7 years has left me for another woman and I'm very upset and not sure how I can handle this. My husband had been acting strange the last month or so and I've been worried, but when I ask him what's wrong he would always say he's fine and that there wasn't any... (368 words)

Could the teacher have us arrested because we kissed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3000 days ago

22 January 2016 (M)

age 22-25 - A teacher caught me and my friend kissing at school. It wasnt the first time we kissed, we have known each other since we were little. We started kissing early last year but we always did it at each others home in our rooms. The teacher gave us such a lecture about the fact ... (123 words)

Have you ever had feelings for a guy who works at a store?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3008 days ago

22 January 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so I've been going to a store for months. I used to go there, buy my stuff and then head to my home. The past few months I've been having feelings for the guy who works there. Maybe because of the way he talks to me, but really im suddenly having feelings for him. Hee ... (195 words)

I gave my crush my phone number, he never called but gets jealous??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3009 days ago

22 January 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - why would he act this way....i gave my crush my number figuring he wasnt flirting with me for nothing nor asking me what am i going to cook for him, well he didnt call and almost two weeks go by so i went to the store yesterday and he was there, and he gave me a horrible ... (109 words)

I've come to absolutely detest my husband's mother and his family because of her behavior towards me

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3009 days ago

22 January 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - I got married almost a year ago to a wonderful man. Trouble is, I’ve absolutely come to detest his mother and his family. I met my husband at my place of work; we had a fairy-tale romance and finally a dream wedding. When my husband used to take me to meet his parents, ... (1148 words)

Can't turn back the clock on what I saw

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3006 days ago

22 January 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi Aunties A few weeks ago I walked in on my boy friend masturbating in my bedroom. He has a key to my apartment, and I let him sleep there during the day when he works nights and I am at work. At the time it happened, he didn’t know that I saw him, and I was very careful ... (470 words)

Fighting for something that will never happen

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3011 days ago

22 January 2016 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay, so I've been trying to go along this by myself lately but I have asked around but my damn heart keeps pointing me to wrong direction it seems. I'll cut this huge timeline/story but I've gone out with my ex for 1 year and 8 months but I broke up with her because I di... (975 words)

Should I break confidentiality to protect a relative?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3008 days ago

22 January 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - This is sort of an ethical dilemma. I volunteered at a transitional home for women most of whom were recovering drug addicts who had child service cases. One lady there, who I will call Shelly, opened up about her story and how she grew up in a wonderful loving family and went ... (943 words)

Second thoughts on my long distance love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3011 days ago

22 January 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been in a LDR for 2 years now. We see each other every month or so. When I first dated him, I knew that our lifestyles and careers were quite different. I work for a well known tech' company as an operations manager. I make six figures. I live by myself, ... (391 words)

Is my friend telling the truth? Is it possible for a man to not be able to fall in love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3009 days ago

22 January 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Before you read this, I wanted you all to know that I have no intention of doing anything with this man. I am looking to get advice from people who are kind enough to give it. I have lost guy friends due to them having feelings for me and so when one my married guy frie... (406 words)

He can't stay hard, says I'm too wet and yet he wants a threesome???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3011 days ago

22 January 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid I'm dating a guy for about a month, we did hit off well and he was nice and everything. Fast forward we had tried to have sex a week back, he told me I'm too wet and when he was able to do it, he couldn't hold his erection, tried after sometime and this time we cam... (260 words)

The idea of my boyfriend watching porn makes me never want him to be home alone

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3011 days ago

22 January 2016 (F) age 30-35 - Hello looking for some advice. Me and my boyfriend have been together 4 years and i love him! The one problem is in the first year of our relationship i found out he watched porn .. at the time i wasent that bothered and gotover it but fot some reason latly its all i think ... (160 words)