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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I get myself back on track, I used to do all this stuff but now I'm losing the will?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3978 days ago

3 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I guess this doesn't seem too bad but I've been with my bf now for 5 years, we got together at 15 and he now lives with me (we are both 20 now) Well I waited a year until I was ready to have sex with my boyfriend as I didn't want to rush things, so for that first year ... (241 words)

I'm in panic mode and wondering what I can do to turn this around!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3979 days ago

3 June 2013 (F)

age - I am in panic mode, I met a man on line whom I love greatly. We have been spending each weekend together, he has spent time with my son and myself and I have met his family, but unfortunately I keep having insecurity issues because he is a huge flirt and has all girlfriends ... (255 words)

Do some guys not like well-educated girls?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3977 days ago

3 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm currently at quite a good university studying a rigorous subject, and as I don't know any guys from my uni I'd really like to go out with I've started dating those from outside uni. I don't make a big deal out of my education, or like to argue for no reason, but I ha... (425 words)

How can he just move on? How do I stop being jealous of how happy he is?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3979 days ago

3 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I used to be a serial dater, one serious relationship right after the next. And after a breakup that took me almost a year to recover from, I realized I needed time to myself, to evaluate and just really take care of myself. To learn and work on my weaknesses, discover what I ... (1203 words)

My boyfriend of 6 years has been sexting a married woman!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3979 days ago

3 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my bf for 6 years. I have found out he's sexting a married woman. He did some work at her house a couple of months ago and a short while after he started messaging her. She responded and they seemed intimate. He texted intimate stuff to her more than the other ... (222 words)

Unwanted feelings of jealousy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3979 days ago

3 June 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Recently i was at a party, where i noticed a girl flirting with me. Now, i am in a happy and good relationship, so ignored it all, thinking all the time to ignore cause i love my girlfriend very much. After some time i saw her hooking up with another guy. And somehow i felt ... (107 words)

Are my feelings for my sensei unprofessional?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3979 days ago

3 June 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - This is real awkward but im not sure. I go to this dojo where i live and i train with a guy sensei. He's really nice and great with everyone and i cant help liking him. Not just like student-teacher but like best friends. He's pretty much the only person i can trust :) But... (171 words)

When is it time to tell him I don't want sex before marriage?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3979 days ago

3 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I have been dating this guy for a month and a half now..we really like each other but may be things with us just happened too soon cuz there was soo much chemistry and sparks! There is one thing about me that I need him to know 'I don't believe in sex before ma... (101 words)

I'm so frustrated and angry with him and myself for letting me waste my time, energy and heart on someone who is not going to reciprocate. How do I let go of these feelings/

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3980 days ago

3 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years about 6 weeks ago. Last weekend I saw him again and things got emotional and we ended up sleeping together. I told him that I still loved him and would like to go to counseling to work things out, and see if we could be together again. ... (244 words)

Is dating him worth the challenge?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3980 days ago

3 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm getting to know this guy, and we are getting along well. I like the fact that he is mature and romantic. But I feel that maybe things might not work out, since he is a divirced dad that has full custody of his 3 year old and I'm 19 and he is 28. I really don't mind because ... (75 words)

My husband seems to be too flirty with his male friend. Am I being totally crazy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3980 days ago

3 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advice, I need to know if I am overreacting. Me and my husband have been married for a year and have a 1 year old. My husband has this male friend, my husband self employed and this friend sets up work for him. This friend has a girlfriend but the amount of t... (185 words)

Should I tell him about my older sister? Or is it too soon?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3980 days ago

3 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for a month now,we are exclusive and it was love for him from the very start and he has expressed quite a number of times both thru words and actions how he feels for me,I haven't told him those three 'magic words' yet,I know I will,cuz I haven't ... (168 words)

I had sex with one person, but I think I want to wait until I'm married now.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3978 days ago

3 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My original plan that I had for myself my whole life was to wait until I was married to have sex (not for religious reasons, I'm just traditional). I'll try to make a long story short: last year I met a guy and fell in love quick. I thought we had the best summer together, I ... (293 words)

Do you think this widow would take it well if I ask her out for a drink or a pizza?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3980 days ago

3 June 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - There is a widow of 2 years that i really like. We are friends and sometimes my stupidity make me over-do things with her. But i try to make her laugh and try to be as casual as possible and i think she responds well frankly. I really don't know how her mind works and i ... (133 words)

I'm ready to have sex. How do I tell my parents?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3980 days ago

3 June 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 17 and I am a virgin. Well my parents have always been very conservative on matters of sex. I used to wear a purity ring (my parents kind of pressured me into vowing abstinence). I was on vacation and lost my ring while swimming in the ocean. I got back home and told my ... (317 words)

Is it rude to ask someone about a scar?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3978 days ago

3 June 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Is it rude to ask about a scar? I've had a tummy tuck and lost 20ilbs. after. I am happy with my physique now and enjoy wearing bikinis. I had a friend ask me the other day about a 1inch scar from the surgery. I just mentioned I had surgery--period. I thought it was a bit ... (58 words)

B/f called parents during a drunken fight we were having. Now they want him to dump me only knowing his side of the story!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3980 days ago

3 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are college students at different universities and have been dating for about two years. We decided to get an apartment for the summer together, which is kind of far from friends and family due to our summer jobs. We found that adjusting to living together ... (500 words)

I love my wife but am sexually frustrated!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3978 days ago

3 June 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Been married for 09 years. Living in a conservative society, but independent. Sex doesn't feel great anymore. Used to be crazy like rabbits first year into marriage, but faded with time to the extent now i'm thinking about an extramarital affair just to fulfill my sexual ... (200 words)

First relationship advice after first date.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3980 days ago

3 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I met a guy online about a month ago. We've talked and texted on and off during this time. We finally went out for lunch today and went for a walk in the park. We talked and got to know each other and everything seemed to be great. I am really attracted to him. But I don't know ... (231 words)

I'm pregnant by my boss who is still very much married. I'm lost!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3975 days ago

3 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Pregnant, depressed, alone, and ruined my own life... guess it will be two lives ruined soon. I was dating a guy going through a divorce, he was funny, charming, passionate, I adored being around him. He was also my boss. That was a weird factor. I was supposed to discuss the ... (254 words)

My girlfriend gives excuses not to have sex and I'm running out of ideas!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3819 days ago

3 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - So my girlfriend and I have been together for three years and I can honestly say that we are in love. However in the recent few months our relationship has changed... We have stopped having sex.. My girlfriend no longer wishes to have sex with me. When we first got together... (461 words)

My irrational fear of getting pregnant is stopping me from meeting guys.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3980 days ago

3 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, i'm sure this seems like a really stupid question but i just need some calming advice. I'm 22, still a virgin and only kissed a couple of guys. I dont have a problem with any of this however my problem is i have an irrational fear of getting pregnant, which stops me ... (111 words)

Our moral values don't match because my girlfriend has no compassion towards suffering.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3977 days ago

3 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I had a conversation with my girlfriend today about how I was upset about other people getting unfairly hurt due to no fault of their own, people being homeless and such and she told me that people who care about others are stupid and that people should only care about "their ... (204 words)