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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I like this older woman but she would not ever tell me her exact age.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3965 days ago

15 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm curious about this woman, I'm 24, she's 40 odd - she don't look it, I didn't realise before I'd started hitting on her. She didn't stop me, we've been out a few times, we talk constantly but then she wouldn't tell me how old she exactly was. She said she was probably the ... (69 words)

I am almost completely flat-chested, my self-esteem is in the toilet and it's affecting my relationships.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3966 days ago

15 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, the title says it. I am basically the equivalent of a 32AA bra size, and even then my bras tend to slide around because nothing fills them up. I've always been a slim build and then recently put on some weight and I now weigh a comfortable 125 lb at 5'3 yet my breasts ... (289 words)

Part of me wants to stop seeing this manwhore, part of me wants to be with him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3966 days ago

15 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - help me...i just started seeing this guy and we havent done much just fooling around but i told him am not ready for sex and that we should take things slow...so yesterday a friend of his commented something about being a manwhore and when i askd him he said he will be honest ... (142 words)

I am overworked both at work and at home but my traditionalist mom doesn't understand.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3959 days ago

15 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Having a few problems here. The last couple of weeks I've been suffering from bad migraines and dizziness. Then last Wednesday I had a full scale panic attack before going to bed. Now this has only started happening recently the only other time I had similar but not as b... (513 words)

Is he trying to make me think that ruining our family was my biggest mistake ever?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3965 days ago

15 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - About two years ago I was going through Great Depression and I cheated on my husband twice and had a 6 week affair. We were in different locations at the time. I fell pregnant and had an abortion because he wanted me to. So I did. We moved into a new house afterwards because ... (346 words)

Would you dump a nice guy that makes too little money?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3964 days ago

15 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Im in my early thirties, I have to think about starting a family. I barely make any money and would prefer being a full time mom. I went out on one date with a nice guy that seems interested. He told me his job.... I think he makes very little money... I mean if we had had a ... (180 words)

Am I attracting the wrong type of guys because of my "cute innocent" vibe? How can I attract regular nice guys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3967 days ago

15 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Guys who hit on me are in most part a few years older (7 and over) or a few years younger... Don't get me wrong. I don't have an issue with dating guys with a few years of difference in age (i prefer 3 to 5 years older though), what's more important is if personalities and ... (526 words)

Do we try for closure and go our seperate ways?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3967 days ago

15 June 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello Everyone, Hope everyone is well? So a couple of weeks ago I asked for some advice. {Moderator note: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-accept-i-cant-be-with.html} The responses I got were nice... really nice. I decided to act upon the responses and I ... (574 words)

We want kids, but I'm terrified of pregnancy

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3966 days ago

15 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner and I are in our late twenties and our relationship is perfect except one thing .. the absence of a child. We both desperately want to start a family, he wants nothing more to be a father and we would start trying immediately if it wasnt for the fact that I am a... (251 words)

We are so great together, except that his son doesn't accept the relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3950 days ago

15 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 36 years old female and seeing a man 58. We started this semi-affair 5 years ago. He ended things abruptly about 2 years in saying one of his five sons felt really uncomfortable with it. (the middle of the 5 and only one who doesnt live on his own) This was truly... (575 words)

Erection difficulties at 19?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3965 days ago

15 June 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone. This is more of a health question than a relationship question but could anyone help? I have been with my boyfriend about 5 months now, everything is great, except we've had a few er problems in the bedroom. He always gets an erection easily but as soon as we're ... (183 words)

Do I take the hint or risk looking like a fool again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3966 days ago

15 June 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - So I met a girl I like who works in a bakers, I've been chatting and lightly flirting with her for months, and she's always smiling etc. I asked her out a month back, she said yeah, and I gave her my mobile number ( didn't get hers. She hadn't txt so I left it,any who she k... (200 words)

What could I do about losing my virginity this way? any way of making it easier?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3958 days ago

15 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - hello, im very conflicted about something that most people dont really pay mind, but to me is a big deal. you see i am still a virgin at 23, and a big part of that was because when i was younger and way more innocent i made the choice of not being a sleazy bag like a lot o... (582 words)

My husband doesn't put in any effort in our marriage and it's taking it's toll on me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3967 days ago

15 June 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I don't know what to do. The situation with me and my husband that I am taking care of absolutely everything regarding our lives. We have business, that I run. All the paperwork, all customer relations, accounting, everything's my responsibility. When I try to get him just a ... (1024 words)

Has she finished our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3966 days ago

15 June 2013 (M) age 36-40 - Over 24 hours ago, I tried to contact my gf four times. Each of those were failures. I called her twice. The first time it rang then went straight to voicemail. The second time it didn't even ring, it went straight to vm. I texted her twice and been over a day without a ... (307 words)

Sex is different with my wife after our brief seperation

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3965 days ago

15 June 2013 (M)

age - After a short seperation my wife and I recently got back together again. we've been marrried 30 years. I've was worried she made have had an affair while we were seperated. after having sex with her for the first time in over a year I thought she would be much tighter in her ... (84 words)

I ditched friendship with my ex for my current GF & school. Was it wise?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3967 days ago

15 June 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a biochemistry student with effectively no free time. Every day is goes 7am to 1am that night. School, lab, more school, gym, school, etc. I work so hard because I deeply want to be a scientist and do research...which requires near perfect grades. My exgirlfriend has... (593 words)

I'm 20 and Sex doesn't turn me on like it should.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3967 days ago

15 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - As the title says, Im having a problem. Ive been in a relashionship for a while now and I just dont seem to crave my boyfriend. He does everything for my attention, he's gentle with me, loving. But sex for me doesnt seem to be like I expect it to be. I lost my virginity ... (279 words)

Sex has become a chore for my husband and it's destroying me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3967 days ago

15 June 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, all. I’d like some advice about my husband. We’ve been together 2 years, and the problem is, he has a real issue with sex. At first, I thought it was sweet and that he was trying to be nice, but I have come to realise that it isn’t that. We used to see each ot... (508 words)

Is he into me or not. Should I ask?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3965 days ago

15 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - There is a guy I flirt with at work all the time. At first I found him annoying, but now I think he's adorable. The day at work before my two week vacation (which I'm still on) we were talking a lot. I thought we were getting somewhere and figured we'd /text talk while I was ... (178 words)

My cousin is a now a different person because of this girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3967 days ago

15 June 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, basically my cousin whos like a brother to me and I have always been rather close. However since hes got with his recent gf hes strayed away from everyone, ALOT. Also away from his religion. Hes had gfs before and has refrained from sex unless they were serious, he always ... (334 words)

I promised my sister I would take care of her family, but this isn't what I bargained for

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3967 days ago

15 June 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Few years ago my sick sister made me promise that i would take care of her family if anything happened to her,at the time i didnt really think she would die so young,so the family arranged for me to marry her widower and raise her 4 kids,it was really weird at first but I told ... (373 words)