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writes:i want my bf back but idk how long or if that will happen and i dont want to wait around for him to realize what he let go and what we had. do u ever really get over ur first true love?our break up ended bad and we havent talked since, iv emailed him but he didnt respond. idk what i did wrong and it sucks to be ignored. what should i do?is it that he is possibly just really confused right now? [Moderator note: the next paragraph is added from another question by the same poster.].....just the other day, i have been really sick. ends up i have mono and jaundice and possible liver problems. i might be put into the hospital and i really want to tell him this.....thing is, hes been ignoring me. i emailed him 2 times and nothing back. i want to tell him this so maybe he will realize what he lost. i really love him and want him back so maybe if he knows that im really sick he will feel something other than the though guy act hes playing.[Back with the original question:] truth is i miss him so much and it kills me that we're not together. id do anything to have our relationship back, but he wont even talk to me!when will he talk!?! and is he thinking about me? after all, we were together for a year and we're each others firsts for pretty much everything...
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reader, heartbreaker54 +, writes (30 September 2009):
as tough as this may sound, don't contact him. it may take sometime for him to realize what he's missing. you should focus on yourself, and wait about a month to see if he comes around. if he doesn't, he most likely doesn't want to work things out that badly. think about it this way, if he desperately wanted to work things out with you he would be calling or texting you right now. the more you reach out to him and he doesn't reply the more it will hurt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2009): would you really want someone to be with you just because your sick? I mean think about it., your only here cause Im sick.... Not cause you want to be but because deep down your feeling guilty and would feel worse if I died (god forbid) ...
sick or not sick I want someone to be with me for me.. not for the sickness... and out of guilt.
let him be and work on getting better. If you try to guilt trip him, which is what your talking about. You may not like what you get... then getting over mono may seem small in comparison to a crushed heart (instead of broken).... I am just sayin i would be pissed if someone tried that with me.
good luck and I hope you feel better both in heart and soul.
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reader, Confuzzled012 +, writes (30 September 2009):
 You can't tell him you're sick to make him talk to you. That's just a petty thing to do, to guilt him into it. If he came back after that, he wouldn't be sincere and it wouldn't be because he wanted to. You jsut can't do that to a person.
If he comes back to you the great, then you can tell him and he'll want to be there for him. But until then, you shold find a friend or family member for support.
Mono is very curable, people get it all the time. The liver damage is probably a result of the jaundice and can be serious but is also cured. My point: It's not likely at all that you have a terminal disease or illness but if it turns out you do, then it might be reasonable to tell him so that you can get in your goodbye. But if not, it's nothing that gives you the right to spread drama into his life and guilt him in to talking to you again.
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