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writes:Hello :DI appreciate it if it is hard to answer this question, but I am extremely curious. Last night I dreamt I was inlove with my crush, and he was my boyfriend (along with other random stuff happening, e.g us going on a giant bouncy castle.) I actually thought we were going out in real life, and I was so happy. Then I realised that we weren't, and so I was going to tell him that it is a dream and that we weren't really going out,but that I would like to. Then somebody shot him, it was horrible! (This is happened in the dream by the way) In real life, we dont hang out much, but we talk on msn alot, and we always talk about our problems (I am an extremely trustworthy person) So yeah, could you please tell me what this means? Thankyou in advanced :)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (30 September 2009):
I think you're worried that if you don't take the chance to get to know this guy and ask him out, you'll lose him. so ask him out and see what happens!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2009): It means you are very aware of your feelings for him (maybe sounds weird to you, but not all people are aware of how they feel for others), and aware of the situation. You are also scared what will happen if you tell him. You are afraid he'll turn away from you and never talk to you again, or that something bad will happen that you have no control over. The dream shows you that as for now you are in control of the situation. Because he does not know your feelings. If you tell him the truth, you lose that control. You will be unable to control what happens next. So it's a chance you have to take, but you should tell him, because you really want to. And if you dont, you'll always wonder...
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reader, Fatherly Advice  + ♥, writes (30 September 2009):
 You are happy with your relationship with your crush. You feel that to go forward with the relationship would be an honor and an achievement for you. But, you are worried that pushing the issue with him will end your current relationship.
Dreams are your minds way of helping you to cope with complex issues. They help to bring out things that you may be hiding from your self. It is a good idea to keep a notebook by your bed and write as many details about your dreams as you can when you wake up. There are dream interpretation sites online like dreammoods.com that can help you for free. I find dream interpretation fascinating and quite a bit of fun. It is best not to take it too seriously. Many dreams are not important. I usually only get serious about dreams that disturb me or that reoccur.
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reader, eml2041 +, writes (30 September 2009):
Like the other post said you obviously have very strong feelings for him. You said you talk on MSN alot and that he shares things with you, is he sharing about other girls. If so the getting shot thing may be you being afraid that he is going to meet someone else and would then be taken away from you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2009): Hey, I don't know loads about dreams and there is no real evidence for what they really are and why we have them, although we have come to think that there is, as people love making money off selling books about dreams.
However I am studying psychology and most rescently Freud's theories on dreams and their meanings. If you knew that you were dreaming in your dream, then that is called lucid dreaming and if you have those kind of dreams regularly you are very lucky, because most people don't.
Freud believes that all human behaviour can be attributed to either sex or agression. But I remain skeptical about that as I think humans are more then just basic animal instincts. Apparently, when you dream about someone dying in your dreams it is the end of something, it doesn't mean that any one is going to die.
I'm sure this crush of yours has been on your mind alot and as you say you would like to get together, so it's your unconcious telling you that you really do like him.
Aside from all this dream meanings rubbish, you obviously liek him, so what's the hold up? Take this dream as advice to act on your feelings, or is it that for some reason you can't? Perhaps something is stopping you? Forbidden romance will play on your unconcious more. - good luck
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