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Archived questions from: 20 September, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

He's too immature and inconsiderate! Should I end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - Hello, I have a problem. I have been going out with my boyfriend for just over 7 months. I never really thought I loved him. He never seemed too bothered with spending time together on our own. 4 months ago I cheated on him. We only kissed but I fe...

I always do all the talking. Does she not find me interesting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

20 September 2009 (M) - hey how is everyone i need some more help if you dont mind every time my girlfriend and i talk on the phone she has nothing to say, I'm always talking most of the time its quite and i say i love you to her to brake the silence and because i mean it ...

I'm falling in love with my friend's boyfriend... what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - Hi my names jemma. My other best friend has got a boyfriend and so have I, we have been with our boyfriends for the same amount of time, 7 months, But here's the thing, im falling out of love with my boy friend, and im falling in love with her bo...

What are your opinions on sex before marriage?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - Hey all. I don't believe in sex before marriage, or so I think. I'm 17 and never really been in a relationship with anyone so it isn't something that's really bothering me. I've been brought up as a Christian and I agree with no sex before marriage...

Why are men so hard to understand!!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - I've been seeing this boy for around 2 months. I'm 17, he's 22 and he has a 4 year old son. He's happy with how things are between us and doesn't want to change it while I can't stand waiting for something that might not even happen! Because of this ...

Yikes!!! Am I pregnant? Please help.

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20 September 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm 16 but I'm really worried. I had sex with my ex boyfriend and we used a condom but I've missed my period, I'm 28 days late and I'm really scared because I've had this funny feeling in my stomach and sometimes I feel like I'm about to come ...

My hormones way out...Why??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - For the last fortnight I feel that my hormones have been out of sync. I am the type of girl that needs to be brought out of her shell in the bedroom with my boyfriend of 6 months but these last few weeks I have been wild and horny a lot, so not like ...

I'm having to lie to my parents, how do I get around this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - This Friday my boyfriend wants me to stay round his, he has the house to himself so his parents don't know. The problem is my parents won't let me sleep round his so I have to make up an excuse I've already said my friend is having a sleepover and ...

Opinions needed, I just don't know what to do...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - Ok so this is what happend This girl and I were friends and this guy she had liked and sort of seen for a while and her sister's best friend got together. I kinda told the sister's best friend some stuff that she said that she wouldn't say to ...

How do I tell all five lads, that they may or may not be the father to my baby?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - What do I do? I know it sounds bad, so please don't judge me, or leave nasty comments! Well 8 and a half months ago I slept with 5 lads in a period of two weeks, and now im due a little boy any time soon, but all the lads know im pregnant an...

How can I show my long distance girlfriend of 2 months that I love her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

20 September 2009 (M) - Okay how can I show my long distance girlfriend of 2 months that I love her? She said I'm not allowed to send her antyhing because she's not a materialistic person and there's more to dating than gifts. So any ideas?...

I still like him...could he like me too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - okay so i went out with this kid lets name him joe but me and him only went out for 2days becus one of my " bestfriends " at the time told me i should break up with him and i did . but me and him still talked like bf gf calling eachother babe and ...

How can I keep her from blocking me and get her to trust me?

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20 September 2009 (M) - Well here it goes. Im sorry this will be long, ill make it as painless to read as possible. i feel bad for asking, because i never have time to respond to questions anymore but you guys have been the best when it comes to this stuff so im just going ...

How can you dry hump?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - Hola, Hello, I wanted to know how you can dry hump? I looked it up online and it's not very descriptive "Rubbing privates against eachother" and I wanted to know how to do it like the bestest way... does anyone know if theres a video that shows the ...

I have Asperger's and I'm dating a lesbian. Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

20 September 2009 (M) - Okay, so a couple weeks ago, I met this girl while I was having an anexity attack, and it turned out she had those kinds of issues too. We swapped each others phone numbers, and constantly chatted through text messaging. She seemed really nice, so I ...

I feel guilty for leading him astray. Should I tell?

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20 September 2009 (F) - i'm 14 nearly 15 and i've been talking to this guy i've known for about 6 months we get along really well and i like him and he's said that he really likes me the problem is that he's 20 and i've said to him i'm 17 the proiblem here is that i'm...

How do I go about living in New Zealand?

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20 September 2009 (F) - Hi there, i need some help, i would like to go live in new zealand. Now i'm not exactl sure what the law says at present, i have heard a few weird things about work permits i have been on a few new zealand goverment sites but its not giving me what ...

The thought of losing him makes me shudder. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5341 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - When i was younger there was a boy i was always close to, we grew up together and was always best mates, we went out when i was like 10 (he was 4yrs older) but our parents stopped us. A few yrs later when i was 14 we went out again, but it was hard ...

Can you give me some suggestions on how to speak to a boy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - hey :) i am 15 years old i am a female in an all girls school. My frineds say i am stunnin,buubly,outgoign,funny,georgeou but there is just one thing ! i have never had a boyfreind i know its probably the stupidust (dont know how to sp...

My boyfriends best female friend hates me, but he never sticks up for me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

20 September 2009 (?) - sorry this is so long but here goes: me and my bf have been together for about 2 months now. he is a senior (18) and im a sophomore (15). we went to six flags together last night. he used his best friends season pass and parking pass so he ...

Another guy kissed me and I liked it...but I have another bf! Help!

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20 September 2009 (F) - Hi! Well, i went to a party yesterday in a forest with a couple of friends and i met many new people. But one was a boy i never met before and he is a year older than me. We talked for a while and then we went for a walk and he stopped me and kissed ...

He gives me pleasure but doesn't seem to want it from me! What's happening?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for 7 months now and i hope its true when he tells me lovely things. yesterday he told me that hes fallen for me, and hes not the sort of boy who likes saying i love you etc. But there is one problem... whenever we do ...

Hormones are way Out...Why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5342 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - For the last fortnight i feel that my hormones have been out of sync. I am the type of girl that needs to be brought of her shell in the bedroom with my boyf of 6 months but these last few weeks I have been wild and horny alot, so not like me. M...

How do I communicate with this girl and get to know her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5344 days ago

20 September 2009 (M) - well to start off..i know this girl that i really like before..she was my batchmate from highschool and at the same level until graduating to 2007 but we never really had any communication i mean were not even classmates due to the fact that our ...

I want to take a step back but how do I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5344 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - I have a boyfriend. The dearest thing to my life. He shares my standards, respects me, loves my family, and puts me first over anything and everything. We never really fight, but we are really serious and we back out at random times. I'm younger ...

Why didn't he like me? He likes her instead.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - Ok i have this problem, ALL my friends who are girls see that this boy "bob" likes me right, he is my best guy mate and i really like him. But my other close guy mate has told me that "bob" likes my friend "emily" , she has told me she doesnt want ...

I want my boyfriend back, it's making me depressed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - my and my boyfriend just broke up and i really want him back but he wont give me a chance....i am completely in love wit him and i just cant let him go. shortly after we broke up he kissed me but after that he started to hate me and i have no idea ...

Too early to tell if I'm pregnant and I don't want to have an abortion!

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20 September 2009 (F) - okay, im 15 and just started having sex with my boyfriend. im really happy with him and we always use protection but there has been a few times when he's done it without just for a few seconds. he didnt finish it or anything but ive heard you can ...

Experienced Mothers: Can you help a pregnant teen with some questions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - hi people. I'm a new parent to be, ill be 18 in a month exactly, I know im young but thats not why I'm here, to be told that. So, I was wondering if anyone has had similiar symptoms as I have, Im in my first trimester and ive lost my appetite...

How do I get the boy of my dreams without embarrassing myself?

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20 September 2009 (F) - Ok it would be great if someone could help me :) First i'll tell you a lil bit about me cos it will make it easier to explain, i'm in year 11 and i'm pretty shy.. especially around boys, i havn't had a proper long term relationship and really l...