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writes:Ok, i need some help here. I don't know what to do. I have been with my GF for some time now and I really like her. The thing is that I don't know if she's flirting with other guys though. I really trust her and don't think she would do that. But one time I went on her page to write something to her that she told me and then I went to one of the messages, I intended to go into mine but accidentally went into another. The thing is that it was this one guy who I know likes her, and keeps telling her all these things, and I know because of then. He keeps telling her how she's really pretty and sometimes she tells him, or sometimes not directly though, on the messages that he's cute too or things like that. I have not said anything about it to her but I don't know what to do about that. Should I just stay quiet and avoid a possible argument or should I bring it up to her and talk about it? I really need help from you guys.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (30 September 2009):
Well, maybe ask her how she's feeling with the relatoinship in general, see if she's happy. Listen to what she has to say.
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reader, Sugarmuffin +, writes (30 September 2009):
 I know you are probably scared that if you bring this up and it proves to be no big deal, then you'll look like a tit and you risk a row, but sometimes darling I'm afraid rows are needed to say what you need to. Just drop it into general conversation. I'm sure if she was in your shoes she'd feel the same babe. You need to tell her how you feel trust me, otherwise you never will and then one day everything will come out at once in one big row and it will end; pluss this girl needs to know that she cannot just use you and that you like her too much to be walked on. (: good luck
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