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Archived questions from: 8 September, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

I'm not sure how to masturbate

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - i want to finger myself but dont know how to do it the right way help plz...

50/50 ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 3 weeks. we're both a little quirky and get along so well. we're best friends, and we love eachother so much. well at least that is what i thought. we made a mistake but it was on both of our parts ...

Sex is always painful

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5355 days ago

8 September 2009 (?) - soo i lost my virginity about 8 months ago. it didnt hurt too much but i didnt feel any kind of pleasure at all. not from any kind of sex we had. and i had sex with the same guy about 20 times after that until we broke up and didnt feel any sort ...

Why won't my boyfriend take me might being pregant seriously?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

8 September 2009 (?) - ok so this is hard and its really bothering me. im 15 and my boyfriend is 18. we have only been together for about 3 months but we have sex almost every day. a lot of the time its as much as 3 times in the same day. no exaggeration. he refuses ...

Should I say yes to date this boy ?

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8 September 2009 (?) - I really fancy this boy and he likes me. The problem is one of my friends fancies him too. I have only known this friend for 6 weeks and she isn't one of my best friends. She told me she really likes this boy and she flirts with him so much. He...

Trying to have sex for the first time and it's not working to well

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - Ok so few days ago i tried to have sex with my boyfriend for the first time and we just couldn't...at first i bled little, the next day same, then in the next 3 days i started to bleed more and it was hurting a lot.I noticed that my hymen was ...

How to go about finding out if he is interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5354 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - I have liked this guy for almost 3 years but in the past few months my feelings for him have become much stronger. We get on well. My friends were always aware of my feelings for this guy but I told two of them how my feelings had changed. One of ...

Heart broken even though I never had him

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8 September 2009 (F) - I feel kinda silly about this whole situation but here goes. I had this MAHOOSIVE crush on this guy who lives in my dorm and everyone knew mainly because I was so exstatically happy and in love 24/7. He's sweet, cute, funny, caring, amazing, sens...

Should I confront him about my suspicions or am I just overreacting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

8 September 2009 (?) - Lately my boyfriend has been really moody and becoming more and more aggressive towards me. He says things like "I just want to fight you sometimes" and "do you always have to ask questions? you're so f*ing dumb." a friend pointed out to me that ...

Help!!! I want to end my relationship with him but find it so difficult to do so... help!

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8 September 2009 (F) - I really want to end my relationship with my current boyfriend, but there are so many reasons why it is becoming more and more difficult to do so. Firstly, his mum terrifies me - she apparently tried to run over his last girlfriend, and attacked...

I need some help sorting out this friendship...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - Hey I need some help sorting out this friendship...to make it work like it should be. Well we've been friends for nearly 2 years at first we were great but then things got weird. I dont quite understand but I feel im being treated very diffe...

How do I get this girl to notice me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

8 September 2009 (M) - there is a girl i like a lot and i mean a lot i cannot stop thinking about her. she doesn't know me but i see her almost everyday. i just want to tell her how i feel but i know i can't because she already has a boyfriend and i hate him so much. ...

My pregnant partner and I keep rowing. Could it be down to her hormones?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

8 September 2009 (M) - Good morning, Me and my partner are expecting a baby in 7 months time. We are going through a rocky patch at the moment, maybe its her hormones I'm not sure. We nearly broke up last night because things are getting in our way. She thinks e...

Adults: Were you really in love as a teenager?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - I am fifteen years old and I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for ten months. We have been in a long distant relationship for seven out of those ten months. Sometimes I feel like I love him so much it's unbearable, and I miss him s...

I don't think my girlfriend is ready to commit to this relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

8 September 2009 (M) - Hello everyone, me and my girlfriend have been going out for 10 months and its been the best 10 months of my life. I am 18 years old and she is 17. The problem is, for the past 5 weeks she has been burying underlying problematic thoughts in her ...

If my teacher broke up with his girlfriend would I have a chance with him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - My last year teacher got involved with a senior girl two years ago and they've been dating since, but for the last year they've been kind of on and off. I really have a huge crush on him. He did get into trouble for dating a student but he got to an ...

I get close to orgasm, but feel pain and make him stop

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

8 September 2009 (?) - Alright so this is a rather embarassing topic. My boyfriend and I have had sex about 5 or 6 times. I have never orgasmed. I know this in itself is a pretty normal thing but I am feeling pain the closer I come to a climax. It feels like this ...

Broke up with the guy who was my best friend. I can't sleep!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - Hi! My best friend also happens to be my exbf. I have deeper feelings for him than I could ever imagine, especially being in high school. We broke up 4 months ago and I'm still a mess over it. I've dated a few guys since, but I couldn't get very emo...

Is he lying so I won't think there's another girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5355 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - well......my BF Jon dumped me becuz he was getting ready to go bac to skool and he said it would b to hard to focus on his school work and it didnt make since to me cuz i've been in skool for 3 to 4 weeks now and my grade on papers r fine and hes a ...

Is thinking of preteen boys ok when I masterbate and am I gay or straight

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

8 September 2009 (M) - when i masterbate, is it ok for me to think of preteen boys. i dont know if im straight or gay because sometimes i like to think of girls and sometimes i think of boys. im 14 and i need to know what i am and whats wrong and rite...

How do I get back on track and get these stupid thoughts out of my head?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5356 days ago

8 September 2009 (M) - Hey, Well I broke up with my GF about 1 month ago. It was mutual, but we just felt we loved each other, but was not in love with each other. We were dating for neraly 2 yeras... We still see each other regularly, every 1-2 days I gues...

Is this just a nice way of him breaking up with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend wants to break up for now. Here is the deal. We went to the same college for one semester and it was amazing. We did everything together. Then I transfered to a school about 2 hours away and the first semester was hard but it work...

Do I stay or do I leave? I'm so confused...

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8 September 2009 (F) - Hi All, Well im a young sixteen year old girl. I have (well, had) in my opinion a pretty amazing boyfriend. We broke up the end of July because of a few problems. He's done some things that I was not happy with, It wasnt the fact that he did thos...

We met last week, and now suddenly she's single?

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8 September 2009 (M) - Hey everyone! Thanks for the reply from a 'male reader'. This follows... http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-she-didnt-say-im-meeting-my-boyfriend.html I've just heard that she's broken up with her bf, I'm not being up my own,or for 1sec...

His ex is causing us to drift further apart... Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5323 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - I've been in absolute love with one of my best mates for bout 2 years now!!! We never went out but we often had a kiss here and there or whatever but I know he feels stronger bout me and i feel the same about him but how can i get him to realise to ...