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Archived questions from: 14 September, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Dreamed I had sex with a stranger

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - i had a dream that i had sex with someone that i didnt even know. what is that dream trying to tell me? is that normal?...

My girlfriends still in "friend mode"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5347 days ago

14 September 2009 (M) - I'm in a relationship and some help. Here's how it started i asked her if she liked me more than a friend and she said no, Well she already knew i liked her. Well the next day came and she told me she loved me. A day after saying she didn't like me. ...

Arguing with my friend is leaving us hurt!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5347 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - Right, this is going to sound INCREDIBLY boring and immature, and this situation is something I don't normally find myself in however, recently I have been intangled into a very immature situation. Since about April I've been talking to a fri...

Should I keep him or walk away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - Well people are gonna think im a right bitch i just have to tell someone, im 17 years old, and having an afair with a man who has a gf and little boy! i feel really sick about it but i didnt know until about a week ago, i really liked this man but ...

I'm so confused about my sexuality!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2788 days ago

14 September 2009 (M) - I'm a bit confused lately. I'm split between the two orientations so for the moment I'm calling myself Bisexual. The point is, I think I am gay, but I don't want to be. I'm not being a homophobe or anything, but I just never envisioned mysel...

Is she just stressed or cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

14 September 2009 (M) - Here's the thing.I am 18,my girlfriend is 16 going on 17.We usually have a great sex life and do it whenever we can.However,lately,since she has started college,our sex life (and me for that matter) seem to be the last thing on her mind.It used to ...

How can I clear my head over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5347 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - Hey im driving myself mad here and i hate myself for it. Im not joking yes i know im probably over reacting but i seriously cant carry on like this, ive tried to get over this guy but it just aint happening, hes one of m best friends and i never ...

14 year old needs help leaving an abusive relationship

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - I'm in a abusive relationship and want to get out but i don't know how. I'm 14 and my bf is 18 i have been with him for a year now and have been beaten up 7 times i haven't told anybody about him or what he does and i cant because of a age ...

How do I get her to start talking to me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

14 September 2009 (M) - At the end of the school year last year, i was talking to this girl that was pretty much in all my classes. Things were going well and we were thinking about dating over summer. I hung out with her on a friday and hooked up with her, and that ...

I broke up with him and I want him back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5348 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfiend have broken up after going out for a couple of months. We weren't in love but I could of fallen for him. The start of the relationship was brilliant i felt safe and that it would work and I would be very happy. He was caring and ...

Advise please on if I'm being "unreasonable"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - Hi I'm looking for some insight into whether Im being stupid or not....my boyfriend of three years has decided that when i go to univesity next year he will split up with me. this is extremely summarised because it is a long and complicated problem ...

Does anyone else have this gift?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - Dearr cupid.. ok basicalyy, im 14 years old and i am, ovcourse, a girl (: i thought my life was a averagee life. As any 14 year old girl lead.. I used to have a really bad childhood. i got bullyed, and i lived in a really rough neighbourhood, so ...

Did I completely kill our friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - Hi Well...theres this guy i've been crushing on for MONTHS. He said from the beginning that he cant see anything happening. But I continued to like him. Then it turned sour today. This is an extract from our MSN conversation: [HIM] said: I ...

I'm to weak to brake up with her what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

14 September 2009 (M) - Hi. I have a humungus problem i need help with. I´ve been together with a girl for the last two years. However, we became together when I was in the height of my puberty, so I aimed for the first and the best. (If you dont understand, I mean that ...

Pregnant, cheated on b/f and now not sure who is the father

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - Hi , im a pregnant teen and like most teen moms out there , i have many problems with my boyfriend. The main problem is , we dont know for sure if he's the father. I admit i cheated on him and i own up to what i did , but we both find it hard to ...

Smiles, eye contact -- does she like me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

14 September 2009 (M) - Hi, I wanted to know if this girl likes me. We're in the same classes and its only been the third day of the course. She doesn't talk to me, but when she looks at me she always smiles, and I usually catch her looking at me out of the corner of my ...

Is there a more subtle way to get the conversation going than just walking right up to him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - How do I talk to this guy i don't know in the year above? we don't share any classes but we walk home the same way from school. I'm a bit shy so I don't want to just walk up to him and say hi, so is there a more subtle way to get conversation ...

How can I prepare mentally for first time sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

14 September 2009 (M) - Im 14, almost 15 and my gf is 13, almost 14 (her bday is 3 days before mine) I havn't been on this site for a while because i havnt had much going on that i couldnt talk to my friends about. But i have recently gotten back togather with me ...

How do I get over him but keep him as my best friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - Hello, aunties! I've had feelings for a guy for what's now approaching 3 years. 34 months. We dated for nearly 5 months. I genuinely believe I've loved him for 9 months. (Though I do understand that my perspective is very limited, as I am only in ...

Guy I dated just txt me a month after not talking to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, im just really confused about this guy i went out with a few times, just wanted some advice. So this guy ive known since highschool started talking to me on facebook. We talked for a few weeks and he asked me out for dinner. So i wen...

We flirt when she's not around, and he likes me too!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - hi. i like my bffs boyfriend. WE always flirt when shes not around. i really like him and he says he likes me to...what should i do!!!!!...

How do I get more control in this relationship? Don't tell me to leave him, I love him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

14 September 2009 (?) - im 15 about to be 16 and my bf is 18 turning 19 in a few months. i really do love him. we have been through hell and back twice together. but even since the beginning of our relationship we have brought out the absolute worst in each other. im a ...

Was this conversation a compliment in disguise?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

14 September 2009 (?) - so i was talking to my step brother and his friends and they were saying what they liked in a girl. some of the things they mentioned were pretty eyes (big with nice makeup), pouty lips and always use chapstick because it makes them soft, don't ...