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writes:Well I know this might seem daft but I went out on Sunday with a friend, call her *T* and we went out as we do, met up with some other people, walked into town, hung out for a bit and stuff, had a good night, and then we walked back up to T's and I waited at the bus stop to go home, it was about half 11 ish, this car pulled up at the side of me, T was still stood with me but she was on the phone, well this car pulled up and it had 3 really really really fit guys in it! They were gorgeous, they pulled up and said to me, what number bus you waiting for? So I said (use the number 1) I said, 1 and the driver said to me (let's use the number 2) ohh the number one's not running tonight they've sent us, the number two as a substitute, so I laughed, and we got chatting, me and these three guys. T was still on the phone, the passenger shouted over to her "oi whats ya name?" and she shouted back (her name) *T* he was shouting, you gonna sit on ma face? gonna come and sit on ma face? It was quite funny but she got all embarrassed and walked off and left me, I think it's because I was laughing.. Anyway, these guys were like well come on then you gonna get in and we'll give you a lift home? I'd been at the bus stop for like an hour and no bus came, and I would be on my own in the dark seen as she'd walked off, so I got in the car with them, I was a bit scared but knew they wouldn't do anything, I ended up getting 2 numbers, 2 kisses, 3 cigs and a can of beer out of them hah! and they dropped me off at the top of my street. The driver got out of the car with me and started telling me I was fit and stuff, telling me he liked me, and that's when I got his number, he was telling me to go behind this mini house shed thing with him and pay hinm for the ride home. I knew he was only joking and stuff though and we didn't do owt, but I really wish I had! I regret not doing owt with him, he keeps texting me asked me to meet up with him and I really wanna, I wanna sleep with him and I dunno why, he's so gorgeous! I really like him and I just dunno what to do?! Please help me.
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reader, HonningKanin  +, writes (8 October 2008):
 Count yourself lucky this was not a sob story. It had all the hallmarks of a really terrible end.You were alone, got into a car with not one, not two, but three men you didn't know who handed you a beverage. On top of that your friend had walked off on you so you had no one to know where you were. I am sorry, but that fails my safety test. I congratulate you though you had a good time, but this could have ended far far worse.As for regreting not sleeping with him I think it is because you were on a such a buzz that night that it seems like the thing left undone. I would say however that it was probably best you didn't sleep with him straight away as you and he may be able to start a relationship based on respect moreso than just the physical. If he is texting you and if you like him and quiet obvious he likes you, why are you not jumping on the opportunity to get to know him better? I not like he doesn't know where you live.
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