A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I'm a female and I need serious help about this guy...We dated for nearly 2 years when everything went bad.Another girl interfered, they dated for a month or so, then broke up because he wanted to be with me.Yet, we still had problems because the girl kept talking to him, and still had clear intentions of wanting to be with him.He would be oblivious to it, and thats when I would get really mad, because they would be talking to eachother all the time.This went on for 8 months.We are trying to work things out again.She and him stopped talking.She deleted him from myspace.Yet, he made a band myspace (a one person band) and she added that.And now I'm worried that they'll begin to talk again.Am I being really stupid?I really hate this girl.I don't know how to not be obsessed.I get really worried when he talks to girls on the computer.Or texts girls, etc.I also don't like when he has girls go to his house.I need advice.
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reader, 48years  +, writes (25 December 2008):
 If a guy really likes you, he will not want to see you upset nor to hurt you. Be proud that others like your guy, but that he PREFERS you. Mention that in the presence of others-it may get back to her. Also, as much as you are obsessed with hating her, she is equally obsessed with you. Who's got the guy here?
The correct answer is no one. He is his own person.
...and he chose YOU. (Don't create a problem where one doesn't exist)
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reader, C.Xavier  +, writes (24 December 2008):
Hi there,
Mate, 16 is the worst age, everything seems to be more confusing, I mean I remember my 16 and that age range was a complete mess. My advice mate? Simply stop taking to this gal, stop messaging her and if you can stop looking at her better. In a couple of years you realize that she was not an important part of your life.
Cheers mate...I´ll say happy holidays but I am not christian..so good karma then.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2008): Lollll, thanks.
I mean, its still a bit off, but its okay =].
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2008): Hey - I titled this and I will rename it, per your request. I hope the next one is more to your liking!!
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2008): And by the way I can't say I like the title they gave to my post.
That "Girl who friended him on Myspace" messed up our relationship.
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female
reader, bella12 +, writes (24 December 2008):
you should be calm and coool
you said youve been with this guy for what 2 years and he keeps coming back to YOU.
you have problems but problems makes relationships stronger.
as long as he doesnt touch any of the girls your okay
but bringing them over really crosses the line.
you should flirt too and seee how he feels about he might not like it all
\because guys tend to do things and think the girl wont get mad nor mind
and just let it be but when the girl cheats you know the guy goes insane,,,you should maybe try it out....and if he says something thats when you speak your mind and no your not obbsessed.
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