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What do you think he's trying to tell me?

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Question - (19 December 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 27 December 2008)
A female United Kingdom age , anonymous writes:

hi ..l just met someone online and we r gettin along so good so far

then when l told him l will be leavin myspace then he replied back to me sayin tht ( u cant leave me and l need you ) !!! now what is he tryin to tell me ??? does he like me or more than tht is he in love with me or what ???

l dont knw can u help me out here thanks

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2008):

it sounds like your the one who is infatuated and building up hopes. you would be better with a guy you know in the real world.he will only display what you want him to be online.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2008):

He`s tryin to tell you that he`s incredibly lonely and sounds very desperate. You are aged 40plus,can you not spot desperation?

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A female reader, hannah76 United Kingdom +, writes (19 December 2008):

hannah76 agony auntHello,

Yes, as per deejuliet, he is teasing and having fun and saying......"don't go...please don't leave" It's friendly fun at the moment with teasing!!! xxxx

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A female reader, deejuliet United States +, writes (19 December 2008):

deejuliet agony auntI have a hard time believing that you are really 41-50 as your post says as I would think that someone of that age would have the maturity and life experience to know that someone saying not to leave myspace because "I need you" means that that person is in love with you, particualarly if you have only recently met online. What this person means is that he is enjoying chatting with you and wants to continue to do so. Perhaps he has been venting with you or you have been giving him support in a particular situation that has made him feel really good from the contact and he wants it to continue. Do not pretend that he could possibly be in love with you at this point. Love takes actual time spent together and lots of it. You dont fall in love from a couple of online 'conversations'. You may be intrigued or interested or feel that there is potential there for more, but you are not in love.

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