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writes:This girl i've never met, but we text/email often, seen pics of her, etc. I want to meet her but dunno how to say it. It'll be so awkward. How do i go about it? And what can we do? She does live an hour away so goin for coffee isn't worth it. Lol
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (16 December 2008):
You could go out for lunch. It doesnt have to be anything overly exciting to make it worth it.
As for how to tell her that you would like to meet her, you could just say that you have really enjoyed talking to her and would love to catch up in person. and then see how she responds then you can suggest what you tow could do, or she may even have an idea herself! I bet you see has been just waiting for you to ask her to meet up, so dont be afraid to ask :) If she didnt like you, then she woudlnt have put in the effort to contact you all this time.
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reader, Divanesse  +, writes (16 December 2008):
Hello,
I suggest that you just simply text, "Do you want to meet up sometime?" She will know that you are interested in meeting her. Just be prepared, in case, that she says no. In other words, don't exclude the possibility of no for an answer. Who knows, maybe she is just as curious as you and waiting for the guy to make the first move. If she is around your age, she is probably of rejection as well. Try it, it can't hurt and if she does say no. You can still text and maybe she will change her mind being that you have a strong personality and didn't shy away from her the first time around. Sincerely, Eve.
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (16 December 2008):
 If she is happy to spend time e.mailing and texting you then she will be happy to spend time talking to you face to face.
If you don't think that she's worth the investment of a couple of hours of travel time then perhaps you should forget it now.
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reader, kurayami3nobara +, writes (16 December 2008):
Just say you want to meet her, silly. xD An hour is nothing! My girlfriend lives in Louisiana, you should be grateful yours is so close. I'd buy tickets to an event with lots of people, maybe go out on a 'group date' with some of her friends and some of yours to lessen the tension. Hang out. See if it's 'worth the hour-long drive' to see her. If you two click, I think you can definitely make it work. Just don't lead her on if you're not serious... !
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reader, This_face  +, writes (16 December 2008):
The question you should think about is whether or not she knows you like her and want to meet her. If she does, suggest you could meet up and maybe get something to eat and see a movie or do something around town. Is there a concert or something in the place she is from? Just discuss it with her and see how she feels. You could always ask her for some ideas and get her to show the town to you or whatever. As to it being too far, would spending the day be worth it enough? Or would you need a place to stay? If you'd need a place to stay maybe get a motel room so it's not so expensive but then you're not intruding on her space or forcing her to have you stay at her place. You guys could just meet up and do activities or maybe hang out with her friends and get a lot of in person talking going on. Good luck, I hope you have fun!
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