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writes:One of my best friends, has joined a dating website, hes meet this girl throught it they been going out for about 2 weeks she was the one who clicked on him, and they exchanged numbers, by that evening she had asked him out and he said yes, she lives in ireland, and we live in london, so they havent meet, just spoke on the computer,and over the phones with photos of each other,the thing is she seems really up for him, and he does her but he does jump to fast into relationships and always endes up getting hurt, im not sure what to make of her she seems really dirty and he loves it,but where they meet on a dating website there could be many more men, but he wont listen to that, he doesnt no what shes up to and her the same as him The first time there going to meet is in march when she comes down,The other thing about him is, hes still in contact with his ex they speak on the phone everyday, bought eachother xmas presents and still sleep with each other, when they do see eachother there is still a conection between them like flirting messing with each other, its funny sometimes to see it, he does care for her but we all think its more then that especially when hes now got this irish girl, and that since hes been going with this, hes sleept with his ex twice but he says that they are just friendsIs he dating this girl to make him realise that he does still like this ex Thats what im thinking recently, i just dont want him to get hurt cuz like i say he does jump into relationships, but im not sure if a long distance relationship will workanyadvice
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (26 December 2008):
From the sounds of it this will not work out but really it's just as likely that the Irish girl will get hurt as your friend.
He's just as likely to cheat on her with his ex as she is with him.
Just keep telling him to keep it a little casual with her and not lead her on and then you just have to step back and let him make his own mistakes.
Good Luck!! xx
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