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Fell in love on-line, now heart broken, how do I move on?

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Question - (17 December 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 20 December 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, *oflcopter writes:

I know this is going to sound sad and pathetic, but I really need help. On Myspace there's this thing called Roleplaying(they probably have it on other sites like it too), it's where you use someone else's (famous or not) pictures and talk with kids/teens from all over the world. Well I met a guy there, who shall remain nameless, and I feel in love with him. In rp(roleplaying) and real life, I think. We dated(on roleplaying) for about 5 months, and during that time I just fell more and more in love with him. But I ended up breaking up with him because things started to get awkward, and when he got on it didn't feel like I was talking to him. So we parted, and he stopped logging on. He gets on everyone once and a while and says "I'll get on when I can. I miss you so much, I love you." And things along that matter. It's been a little more than a month since the last time I talked to him, and I miss him so much. I actually started crying during school. I even cried myself to sleep for days. I just miss him so much. I don't know what to do with myself anymore. I've tried moving on, I really really have, but I can't. I still love him and my heart is broken. I feel so helpless and weak, and forgotten.

Oh, and before any of you say "It's not safe to be talking to people you don't know, they could be old and perverted" blah blah blah, I've met him before. He lives near me, in Syracuse. We met at the state fair while we were still dating...

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A female reader, roflcopter United States +, writes (20 December 2008):

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I want to tell him, but I'm kind of embarrassed... And I haven't even talked to him for over a month. I still have really strong feelings for him.

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A female reader, roflcopter United States +, writes (20 December 2008):

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I want to tell him, but I'm kind of embarrassed... And I haven't even talked to him for over a month. I still have really strong feelings for him.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2008):

Basicaly you have got to know him online even tho u have met him in person, and youv fallen for his "real self" and not his self that is projected outwards in public/in person. What i suggest is talking to him and telling him how you feel and meeting up in person to see if the spark continues in the phsyical nature. Goodluck with your journey!

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