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41-50,
*etting married
writes:I am bored with my husband to be. I am also pregnant with his second child. I feel that I am going to marry him because I don't have a choice. Sure I love him but was never in love with him. He does not touch me, we don't even make out at all. He loves me more than anything but I don't feel that from him. We don't have much in common and he bores me, he is not motivated or driven. I feel that I want to date other people after the baby is born. What should I do
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reader, xapathyxrebornx  +, writes (22 March 2008):
 Maybe you could sit down with him adn talk to him on how you feel and before you marry. If things dont spice up (remember take into consideration your pregnant so it wont fully) but like try being engaged longer and tell him adn if things dont spice up after so long say its off as you dont want to hurt him but need more fulfil ment in your like and he had been informed of that so many months ago =]good luck message me if you wanna talk Xx
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reader, starfairy +, writes (22 March 2008):
 You don't sound happy with this guy at all...If you marry him, you will never be fulfilled, and it's likely you will end up having an affair or breaking up.
You should break free while you can, obviously keep him in your's and the baby's lives, but you need to be happy. It sounds like you need stimulation and a bit of excitement.
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