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writes: Does he still love me?My bf says he loves me, but lately it just seems like he says it to keep me around rather than actually meaning it :( he meets up with girls and constantly flirts, but says i cant meet up with my guy friends and he gets jelaous saying that i can have any guy i want.. but when i tell him how unfair that is and how i feel about him seeing these girls he says i dont understand him! that he needs more female friends.. and his words "dont worry sweetheart, i dont.. really find her attractive" or"shes not... that hot" and 'really'..and.. 'that' makes it sound worse they all think hes is YUMMY! aaaah help..i hate this feeling.. we argue all the time because of silly things, and i wrote him a love letter.. telling him how much i love him all he said in return was "hope this is enuf at this moment, ur the one who makes me happy" does he love me or not? im tired of playing games plz help? xoxox
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks everybody for you help!
this really helped as i can see he isnt worth it!
and he is immature and not what he seemed at first.
i will see who i want and like you said if he complains
i will finish it, because he is only hurting me by telling me lies - the only woman he should want to be around is me
:) ill keep you posted on this :)
take care xoxoxox
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2006): Just move on this isn't going to make you feel good. Your confidence and self esteem will take a knock and then it will be all down hill. I would get out before he finishes with you.
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reader, LISAG +, writes (21 November 2006):
 Well flirting often comes from feeling totally insecure, but I do have to err on the side of being negative here. I don't reckon you'll bring yourself to finish it, the only other thing you can do is turn this round on him. I can't believe you say he dosen't LET YOU ??? meet up with your guy friends ?????? Start doing this right now against his wishes, if he threatens to finish it just because you're not "obeying" him - then there's your answer in actions. Play all men at their own game, it makes them stop and think. If you can't be bothered to play games, (which actually I believe can keep a relationship alive, mysterious and exciting in early stages & later ones in fact!) then get rid of him as he's going to possibly hurt you. Read this book "why men love bitches" by Sherry Argov. You'll notice the difference in your boyfriend the minute YOU start acting differently towards him. Read the book, it is brilliant and although hard to stick to all the principles all the time, you will find it is of amazing benefit - every woman should have this book!
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reader, Irish49  + ♥, writes (20 November 2006):
 You have an immature bf who does not want to commit, dear. He's young and he wants to enjoy flirting with girls and having fun, at your expense. It's obvious you both have totally different relationship values and both of you are not compatible. When a guy loves a girl, he'll do anything to show he loves her and is committed to only her. A guy who loves would never want to purposely hurt or cause deep pain to the girl he is devoted to. I am sorry to say his, his actions, his words, behaviours are not of a guy who is loving you back. Do the best thing and try hard to let him go. In time you will love again but you will have learned a life lesson about love and cherishment...you will learn to always hold out for the one guy that will love you back, in the way you so richly deserve. Good luck sweety.
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reader, Fizzyface  +, writes (20 November 2006):
 ok ok 1st things 1st! CALM DOWN. like you say "really" and "that" dont make it sound better and the reason it sounds worse is because he DOES fancy/like these other women. Im sorry to tell you but you are wasting your time and im 100% positive about it as ive been there myself. so be the 1st one to make the move and get rid off him and find someone who will truley love you and make you happy! Forget about him and move on as sticking around will not do you any good. I sure hope this helps x
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