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writes: i broke up with my girlfriend and i still love her but dont want to because she dont love me and im finding it hard to move on. can someone help me please?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanx for ya support peeps i really appreciate this thanx
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2006): get back to her life is to short.she will love in time.if you love her you will what for her.call her!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2006): It's always hard at first when break ups happen. Have you got any hobbies? Always try and find something to do. I borrowed my son's dog and nearly walked the legs of it. People stop you to see the dog, talk to you and you get home feeling a lot brighter. I also used to play loads of music, dance about and went out with a few close and special friends who helped me to get over it. It's like a bereavement time, you have to go through it to get to the other side, but you are a stronger person once you come through it all.
Don't feel alone though, we are all here for you to get in touch with, any time, just drop me a line. Take care x
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2006): well... admiting what needs to be done is the first step and your well on ur way to gettin over her... i think your best bet is to go out with a group of your guy mates down the town or where ever it is you guys go... and have a fun night out... forget her while your gone and take that opertunitie to reflect back on what has happened and then u can realise hey... im single and if she hurt me like this why the hell am i still attached to her... she obviously had moved on... i hoped that helped you...( i know its abit confusing but my point is in there)
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reader, JackalGaz  +, writes (10 November 2006):
 im in the same situation at the moment so it would be interesting to find out if there are any right or wrong ways to get over someone. I was with my fiancee for 4 years 7 months and she ended it because in the last year i was focusing to much time on the computer to graduate from university. 2 weeks after the split she is a completely different person and is already in a sexual relationship with a so called friend. I to just simply cannot stop the feelings for this girl and i need too in order to let go and accept that my future lies without this person. Im sure if i did have any advice from the feelings im going through right now is do not shut people away, friends and family are crucial in this situation and try to keep your mind occupied. Every day is easier to accept but do not beat yourself up about it, i did it for a week and it just wasn't helping me to concentrate on keeping my life on the straight and narrow. What works for me is music, plenty of upbeat feel good songs to perk you up during the day otherwise when im bored at work she will be their eating at me inside. Im however speaking from the same point of view so it would be interesting to see what others have to say. Im here to talk if you need me.
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