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writes: Well... me and my boyfriend have been dating for 9 months... this is the longest relationship iv'e ever been in. We have been "taking breaks" thoughout this relaionship though. For the last couple weeks i have been feeling different about him. I feel like we arent talking the way we used to. I mean i still love him and i care for him deeply, but i dont know if i still want to stay comitted to him in a serious relationship. He has told me he would do anything to help this situation, but there is really nothing he can do. We used to be flirtsy with eachother, but now we are always being serious and not having any fun with eachother. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2006): You've both lost your sparkle and you don't think there's anything you can do. But try making a move on him and doing things together you haven't done before, it might work. If you don't feel like you want a comittment to him then just tell him you'd rather stay as close friends because you don't think a closer relationship is working. That leaves you free to get another boyfriend who you can be happier and have more fun with.
But, your boyfriend might not feel the same way that you do so try talking to him about it and see what he thinks x
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