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writes: Things are a bit rocky with my boyfriend. Since March we've split up twice but always got back together after a few weeks. When we are together we get on really well and i love him to bits but we always argue about the same thing - he always puts my friends down. Either they're boring, too wild, mean, or (if men) fancy me. It really winds me up. There are some of his friends that i don't like but never say anything cuz i respect he is friends with them. On one occasion i made a comment about his friend he got angry with me. When i question him about it he says he likes them?! I keep telling myself that maybe he's insecure and maybe by doing this is making his esteem greater...but it fustrates me so much. Should i keep talking to him and hope he chages or give up and see him as a lost cause?
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reader, Sally R. Cinnamon +, writes (24 November 2006):
 Have you told him (calmly, outside an argument) how you feel?
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