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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How should I approach asking this cute girl out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2630 days ago

21 September 2016 (F)

age 22-25 - There's a girl in class that I've got feelings for. She's super cute and we talk a lot, as we share many interests. I know that she is bisexual, as I've asked a while back. But she is extremley shy... It's easy for me to talk to her usually, but not to tell her how I feel. I ... (73 words)

I can't get over him (he seems interested too). But he's in a long distance relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2773 days ago

21 September 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - (Sorry for the very very lengthy explanation, there is a quick summary at the end if you want to skip the novella) A while back a guy started in my office and I was immediately interested. We started as friends but I knew he'd never like me because I weighed 126kg (277lbs)... (1430 words)

My husband called me uptight and its really bothering me. I want to discuss his actions but don't know how

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2773 days ago

21 September 2016 (F) age 41-50 - I don't know what to think of the fact that my husband called me uptight. It wouldn't have been such a big deal had he not said that I was like that all the time and that it bothered him that he had to keep his true nature in control. I don't want to defend myself and try t... (319 words)

Am I insecure? Or just a fool for wanting to be loved?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2773 days ago

21 September 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm finally trying to keep the strength of avoiding contact with someone who Never clearly took me serious in the 1st place it hurts soo bad..we've driven past eachother twice and both occasions he pretends to be on his phone or put his head down like he didn't see me should I ... (77 words)

I'm having doubts that my fiance loves me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2772 days ago

21 September 2016 (M)

age 51-59 - I feel as though my fiancée is not in love with me anymore because our whole relationship has changed. We use to make love with no problem but now it seems like a complete drain for her. I do everything for her with all my love in heart but I am having terrible doubts now! What ... (59 words)

My boyfriend makes purchases with my credit and doesn't pay them off

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2772 days ago

21 September 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello. Last year my bf bought an iphone. He didnt have the money to buy it so he borrowed my credit card and he is making the payments. I realized he hasnt pay the full amount and it has been a year already but he makes monthly payments. Yesterday he bought the new iphone ... (398 words)

Should I just block this guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2774 days ago

21 September 2016 (F) - I am in my 40s and did ask a question previously on here about this man who I had seen at our local coffee shop. The background I used to see him at my local pub but not to talk to many years ago and then he ended up moving to the same village that I moved to (its a small ... (496 words)

What can I do to make my Bf chase me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2774 days ago

21 September 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - As short as possible: my boyfriend of two months seems to be too relaxed in our relationship. What can i do to make him chase me again? I need him to start working for this relationship because i feel like he doesn't take me seriously anymore.... (48 words)

Broke up with friends. What was my former friend trying to say? should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2774 days ago

21 September 2016 (F) age 26-29 - I had friends who i just broke up with because they were beginning to be close friends with someone I know very well. She can't be trusted. I explained to them why i don't trust her and since we live in the same commune i know her better than they know her(they only see her at ... (278 words)

Could his actions when near me mean anything at all? Psychologically? Or am I being delusional?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2774 days ago

21 September 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - So Today In class during a lab, the guy i am badly crushing on was standing right next to me. We attend all classes together, he almost all the time stands very quietly, but when he was standing next to me, he was moving a lot and cracking his fingers and other parts of... (90 words)

What do I do? I love him, but I don't feel loved in return

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2774 days ago

21 September 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now he had a bad childhood which has affected his adult life the problem is he doesn't know how to show love or deal with normal things in a relationship. He is nearly 30 yr old but acts like a teenager He still goes out with his mat... (234 words)

Help! Calling all people with nipple piercings. What are outcomes to consider if I get this done?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2772 days ago

21 September 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone! i am thinking of getting my nipples pierced, just wondered if anyone had any experience of this? I like how it looks a lot but as always there's some real horror stories on the internet (picture of holes in boobs after getting an abscess due to a nipple piercin... (235 words)

Since the breakup of what I thought was a perfect LD relationship I can't stop thinking about him. How do I cope with this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2773 days ago

21 September 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I feel like I need a reality check and I don't have many people in my life to ask for advice or open up to. I was broken up with 2 months ago by the person I loved. The relationship ended solely because of distance and the fact that his job is too time consuming to see... (323 words)

Will he come crawling back again, soon, to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2774 days ago

21 September 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I have gone my separate ways from my on off boyfriend again. We don't live together, and he has recently started back to college as a mature student and he told me hes very stressed out and has loads going on around his head and has family issues, he said all this after I... (293 words)

Am I expecting too much for my friend to care?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2773 days ago

21 September 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it wrong to want a friend to ask how you are if you've been in hospital? I always ask! Friend or colleague, family etc its nice to be asked, makes you feel like someone cares even a little If you got home from an over night hospital stay your good friend knew about (... (149 words)

He only has time to date once a week. Should I take it or leave it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2774 days ago

21 September 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello am a 48 year old woman, met a guy a couple of times from a dating site, we get along really good, we both want a relationship, our profile said, my guestion is he told me that he only has time for one day a week, we both work the same ours, but he goes to the gym to work ... (122 words)

I want my sister back in my life but how?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2773 days ago

21 September 2016 (M)

age 26-29 - I (18,M) was playing basketball with my sister's (28,F) boyfriend CJ (25,M) a few days ago, and I was really starting to get frustrated because he's like 6 foot 4 and I'm 5 foot 4 so it was a blowout. He was talking a lot of trash and tried to dunk on me, so I pushed him ... (301 words)

Male coworker blows hot and cold

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2774 days ago

21 September 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm wondering about this situation. Explanation is a bit long so bear with me. I have a new coworker who is in the cubicle next to mine. He is probably 5 or so years younger than me. He is best friends with another coworker (female), which is how he got the job. Let's call him ... (455 words)

Am I overreacting after boyfriend canceled plans?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2775 days ago

21 September 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 42; my boyfriend is 64--but we have a lot in common: musical interests, nightlife, movies, books, politics, travel, etc. We get along pretty well and have been dating for about four years. However, I don't feel like a priority. I know the saying about kids always coming... (844 words)

Am I stupid for wanting a ring when everything is so perfect?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2774 days ago

21 September 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi So I've been with my boyfriend for 8 years now (since we were 15) and I'm happier than Ive ever been in our relationship not because it was ever bad but it just keeps getting better. I can count our arguments on one hand and we get on like friends we have a really healthy ... (272 words)