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Archived questions from: 19 September, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My husband's family are putting pressure on me and I feel lost. How can I gain some control in this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3140 days ago

19 September 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I am feeling lost. I met my current husband 4 years ago, We dated for 3 years and finally moved in together, December last year... We got engaged in june...but life has been terrible after that. We were happy when he used to come every weekend. But since we moved ... (374 words)

How can I stop feeling so needy, insecure and anxious, when I'm dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3139 days ago

19 September 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear everyone Basically, i feel sad easily if the girl i like doesn't contact me. Since my last girlfriend broke up with me (and cheated on me) i've felt quite insecure. Whenever i feel something for a girl, i get upset and feel sad, unwanted etc if she doesn't want to ... (330 words)

How can I make friends when I have no friends? I suffer from social anxiety.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3138 days ago

19 September 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - I dropped out of university a few years ago, I feel it was the right decision and am going back as a mature student in a few years. I was suffering with social anxiety/depression at the time (have not seen a GP about this) and still have it today. My career is actually doin... (200 words)

Porn is ruining our relationship. When we do have sex he cannot climax. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3142 days ago

19 September 2015 (F)

age - Porn is ruining our relationship My problem is lack of sex. I crave sex all the time and so does my partner however he now has a smart phone with access to the internet. Im lucky if I get it once a month. Every morning he goes to the bathroom and takes care of himself an... (137 words)

He evaded answering my question. Should I confront him or ignore him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3141 days ago

19 September 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Hiya I have been seeing a guy for a few months and all has been going really well, and always tells me how much he likes me and how much fun he has with me. We haven't yet been physical and I want to wait until I am sure of him. We only see each other about once a week.... (333 words)

His past (failed) relationship is making him very cautious about getting into a relationship with me. What should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3141 days ago

19 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy a bit less than a month ago and things have been good between us. But something sparked the conversation about what he wants and he said he likes me, i tick all the right boxes but he needs to know that he is 100% okay because his last relationship has scarred ... (469 words)

Blind-sided. He says he loves me deeply but isn't ''in love'' with me. What are the chances that we could get back together, eventually?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3142 days ago

19 September 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend broke up with me last Friday, whereas the night before he took me to dinner for my birthday, bought me flowers and gifts. We were also intimate. He lives an hour away, but showed up unannounced. I was excited, because he is always spontaneous like that. He ... (522 words)

He wants to break up so is saying I was not a virgin!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3142 days ago

19 September 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - I m 21 year old...i have lost my virginity to one i loved...he was my first but even then he feels that my vagina was bit loose and he could penetrate easily(but i was virgin and had a lot of pain n even he couldnt penetrate so easily)..now he has a doubt that i was not a ... (138 words)

Does this guy like me and if so what way

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3142 days ago

19 September 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - So I started to like this guy on Twitter I'm a bi not out guy and his gay. I instantly liked him and tried to make conversation every time he tweeted. Turns out we have a lot in common. I do really like him but I'm unsure if he likes me we've only been talking for a fe... (171 words)

Trying to figure out how online dating works. And how to manage meeting face to face. Any tips, please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3138 days ago

19 September 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm female and have been trying online dating, again.. tried it last yearr too we went to movie. Second meeting, ( they are meeting quite a few women, Me not as many) nothing happened. We enjoyed the movie, then chatted for a little bit after, about movie and online dat... (191 words)

First date jitters!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3142 days ago

19 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm going bowling with a guy- it's the first time we will be meeting each other (just us and nobody else). I'm really nervous- how do I calm my nerves- do I tell him I'm a bit nervous? Also with paying do I offer to pay? Any advice is appreciated- don't often... (71 words)

Am I wrong for not wanting him to have contact with his ex girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3140 days ago

19 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating a guy for the passed 2 months and he still works with his ex girlfriend. They had only broken up 2 month proir to us dating and they was together for 2 years. I had told him when we first started dating that i think it is a little too soon after a breakup ... (523 words)

He doesn't want me near him, and all I want is to be able to love him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3142 days ago

19 September 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - ok to sum this up my ex recently cheated on me then told me he was done with our relationship. I was devastated but kept my head up. knowing that this is the end of us about a month later he tells me he's sorry and be willing to date me/ be physical with me; but does not want ... (185 words)