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writes:Porn is ruining our relationshipMy problem is lack of sex. I crave sex all the time and so does my partner however he now has a smart phone with access to the internet. Im lucky if I get it once a month. Every morning he goes to the bathroom and takes care of himself and when I question this he tells me, he has a headache, not feeling good or Im being selfish.Also, says I'm the one who has a problem I need therapy that's all I think about.I'm at a loss for words. I miss our passion our romance. When we do have sex he cant come. Not sure what to do any-longer. Any suggestions here?
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reader, Garbo +, writes (19 September 2015):
 Make him choose: porn or you. Give him some reasonable deadline, like 3 weeks or a month, to get off porn and detox from it, or you will leave him. If he does not change, then do leave him (or kick him out) then negotiate from the distance. Porn addiction is a huge problem for some men because its effects on the brain are similar to drugs like cocaine. Get some more ideas on how to help him detox here: http://yourbrainonporn.com
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2015): I think the best thing would be to go to couples therapy. It seems that your approach to getting answers from him is not.working. if he refuses to go to couples therapy and if he doesn't open up on couples therapy then I would leave the relationship. This is just my opinion though.
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