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Ghost of Bf's sexual past invading current relationship

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 648 days ago

9 October 2015 (F age 36-40 - So I've been with the boyfriend just under a year. Recently found out that one of his friends (a girl) who he has known since he was a teenager (he's approaching 40) he slept with two years ago (after his his birthday party). Very drunk affair- he initiated it but told me he ... (342 words

He's constantly accusing me of cheating

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 650 days ago

9 October 2015 (F age 30-35 - I am absolutley fuming! My boyfriend is always accusing me of cheating, and I mean always! I put up with it because I know it's rubbish and he is just insecure. However, tonight we were supposed to go out and have a nice night out whilst my kids are away. I get the cha... (248 words

His substance abuse is making me think of ending the relationship

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9 October 2015 (F age 22-25 - I'm 21 year old female that's been in an on/off relationship  with my high school sweetheart  for 6 years. He loves me and he is gentle soul that had all the best intentions and I too love him. I have many issues however, with the type of Man he is. Since early on our ... (598 words

Pregnant by my FWB but he doesn't believe it's his

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 648 days ago

9 October 2015 (F age 26-29 - OK so I basically had a friends with benefits kind of relationship with a guy who is my best mates brother in law. It went on over 2 years and it was just once every few months we got together. When we were both single and if we met or whatever, we got together. When he got w... (499 words

I don't want to hurt my new guy but it's just hit me with my ex! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 651 days ago

9 October 2015 (F age 22-25 - I am in a complete mess. Two months back I split up with my partner of five years who I had been with since I was 16. I dumped him despite still loving him because he treated me like rubbish, he never kissed me, always called me fat and lots of other things. I ended up meeting ... (430 words

I hate hearing about how happy they are in the bedroom! What do I do to get over this hurt and jealousy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 647 days ago

9 October 2015 (F age 26-29 - What can I do? I hate hearing about their sex lives and I'm hurt enough! How do I stop thinking about my ex and his new woman? My ex boyfriend was very sexual - sex obsessed I would say. I didn't date him for long as he wanted to move too quick and I wasn't sure abou... (211 words

Is it wrong or illegal to pursue a relationship with a teacher at my child's school?

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9 October 2015 (F age 26-29 - Please can some one help me. I have fallen in love with a teacher who works at the school my children attend,and i was wondering is there a law that States a teacher cannot have a relationship with a parent? He has feelings for me too but he is scared that he will lose his jo... (69 words

What can I do to ensure he doesn't give up on me, when he's facing family pressure?

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9 October 2015 (F age 18-21 - please help.I am 20 and my fiance is 19.he still lives with his mother and she doesnt kno were still engaged.she hates me for no real reason and has been trying to force him to leave me for about 9 months now. she recently found out that I came to see hime and she's taken hi... (123 words

Why do I obsess over particular guys so easily?

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9 October 2015 (F age 22-25 - Hello there!! Well basically I'm a 22 year old girl who only had like 2 very short and non serious relationships in her past, and therefore as one would assume my confidence level and self esteem is way way low. Soo..in order to try and help myself I've decided to regis... (263 words

How can I find out how serious my father's health condition may be?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 641 days ago

9 October 2015 (F age 26-29 - I live with my father and today he sat me down to tell me something. He told me his doctors have found 2 rather large lumps on his brain and they don't know what it is until they do further testing next Monday. Now I'm someone who worries a lot especially about my fathers... (165 words

I'm frustrated and tired of being the one to always initiate sex

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9 October 2015 (F age 22-25 - hi everyone hope you can help. me and my boyfriend have been together a very long time now, we are very much in love and happy.. however! we seem to never ever have sex and when we do it doesnt last very long and its usually rubbish and then we dont do it again for anothe... (111 words

A married man at work is asking too many questions !

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9 October 2015 (F age 22-25 - Hi. There is a married man at a work (he doesn't work there), his child is in a class at the school where I work, I'm an assistant. He's been asking me personal questions like: Are you married? Do you have kids? Do you live close by? Do you live alone? Got any plans this... (194 words

Which job do you take/keep?

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9 October 2015 (F age 30-35 - You have two options...Option 1 or Option 2? Option 1: Low pay most of the time you are happy there and the work environment is comfortable with AC (not hard and out like "in the trenches" kind of work). It's in retail at the local pharmacy It's PART TIME (sorry... (210 words

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