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He feels there is no spark and he just wants to be alone to find himself. How should I act towards him? Has he moved on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 749 days ago

5 October 2015 (F age 26-29 - Hey everyone! I hope you could put some light into my situation. I started dating my coworker at work, in the beginning it was all perfect, i felt pursued he was so charming and really swept me off my feet. We went on many dates together and spent a lot of time together... (702 words

Does he like me? I am not sure. But I really like him. So what can I say to him to advance things further?

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5 October 2015 (F age 22-25 - Hi I am a very shy person. I blush quite easily, I went on a second date with a guy who I really like, however I'm quite a quiet person so I don't think he's very interested in me. He messaged me the day after we met saying 'it was nice to see you, I had a good night, did ... (205 words

Should I continue to date and build a relationship with someone newly divorced?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 750 days ago

5 October 2015 (F age 30-35 - I am dating someone who got out of a divorce about 5 months ago due to the wife cheating (more than once). Before his divorce, we were just friends for about 2 years. I am torn on going any further with this. We are not in any type of commited relationship right now, just ... (389 words

His parents check on him regularly. But is it too much that he will even answer his cell phone in the middle of having sex with me?

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5 October 2015 (F age 41-50 - My significant other was in a bad car accident in his 20's. His parents became super protective. So he always calls them and lets them know where he is going, like on trips and when he arrives back home to appease them and ease their minds. I am fine with that. Also, h... (354 words

Should I pay for a relative's meal on my birthday where my significant other reluctantly paid part of the cost?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 747 days ago

5 October 2015 (F age 41-50 - My fiancé's parents are in there 80's and the dad is able to get around. The mother needs a lot of help walking due to overweight issues. The are still both mentally sharp. I have an aunt in her 90's and she is mentally sharp too and gets around just fine, drives her car... (678 words

I want my widower boyfriend's adult step-children out of my life, they are very unkind to me. Can I ask that he distance himself?

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5 October 2015 (F age 51-59 - I am dating a widower. He was my first love 35 years ago. I was always on his mind. Our parents are friends and he was my first so he claims he has loved me for all these years. His second wife died 11 months ago. They were married 16 years. He has three stepchildren that ... (214 words

Dating a month, was I a rebound?

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5 October 2015 (F age 26-29 - This post is going to be a bit long, apologies for that. My boyfriend and I were good and it's been just a month together. Out of the blue, he texted me this morning that "Don't mean to be hard on you but I am not sure about this relationship. I tried to but don't feel the kind ... (259 words

How do I know I'm reaching the cum stage? I can't feel it reaching that point.

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5 October 2015 (F age 18-21 - Okay when my bf and I are having sex he asks me all the time did you cum, and I tell him that I don't know. And he says how don't you know if you cummed or not, and I say I don't know. He knows that i do cum because he can feel it, but i can never feel that i cum or not. S... (94 words

Question for men: is it really difficult to leave your wife if you've been having an affair? Or am I right - is he just offering me excuses?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 739 days ago

5 October 2015 (F age 30-35 - I have done the unthinkable for the last 8 years of my life. Please don't hammer me. I have been dating married man. No kids. He's much older than me and at first I was just having fun but it turned into love. He's taken me on many trips and showered me with gifts and endl... (228 words

I'm feeling confused about my LDR with my ex-boyfriend who is also a long term friend.What should I do?

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5 October 2015 (F age 51-59 - We both had crushes on each other in middle school, and formed a friendship. We attended different high schools, but always kept track of each other through mutual friends. In our late 20’s we dated and had an intimate relationship. He was not married, but had a child by an ... (591 words

Why do people say a couple is being ''selfish'' if the couple make a conscious decision to have one child only?

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5 October 2015 (F age 30-35 - Why do people consider you selfish for making the choice to only have one child? My boyfriend and I have thought hard about this. We have decided to have only the one child when we marry. It's a thought out decision. We are both self employed and like the variety in our ... (188 words

He stopped texting me. Why? We did break up, recently, but we did keep on texting each other.

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5 October 2015 (F age 18-21 - He hasn't texted me :( So my ex boyfriend and I recently began talking. We talked great and had basic conversations. Before we broke up we would tell each other "i love you" but since we broke up I don't feel comfortable telling him that again. Of course I still love him ... (308 words

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