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I'm not sure if I should log onto the dating site?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 628 days ago

4 October 2015 (M age 51-59 - Hello I have subscribed to a dating site for 1 month, and have agreed , to meet a woman for a date , she has said , we can meet , when she is back from holiday in 2 weeks . Is it ... (234 words

I'm missing my ex although he was never the guy that would make me happy!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 628 days ago

4 October 2015 (F age 22-25 - I feel like my heart is falling apart. I broke up w/my ex a week ago. I was the one who ended it, I am extremely broken. I wanted so bad for the relationship to work. When I started having doubts I approached him in a mature manner and he accused me of trying to mess up the ... (393 words

What do I say in reply to her message?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 628 days ago

4 October 2015 (M age 51-59 - Hello , I,ve asked a woman , on a online dating site , if she would like to meet for a coffee ? she said yes , when she gets back from holiday , in 10 days. I want to meet her , What ... (149 words

A little crush has led to me actually liking him and I don't know how to make a move. Help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 627 days ago

4 October 2015 (F age 18-21 - Ok so last week one of my housemates who I have a small crush on got quite drunk and started to call me to help him from his room. When I got there he was sat on his chair opposite his sink and basically preparing to vomit. He then motioned for me to sit on his lap and keep... (491 words

I need advice! My baby daddy impregnated another woman and I don't know where to go from here

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 621 days ago

4 October 2015 (F age 22-25 - My bby daddy has impregnanted another woman....i hv been away frm him for 9months and the girl is 5 months pregnant....i didnt want to forgive him bt i did even thou the other part of me is still hurt and confused....he took a leave frm work to come and tell me personally and ... (69 words

My boyfriend is being cold and indifferent because of my insecurities and paranoia. Can I salvage my relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 628 days ago

4 October 2015 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I are in our early twenties. My boyfriend is younger than me. For as long as I remember I have had trouble with my self esteem and I am insecure. At first my boyfriend loved and cared for me, when I had moments when I felt I wasn't good enough he would ta... (631 words

Did the culture difference break this up, or is he just not that into me?

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4 October 2015 (F age 22-25 - Firstly, sorry for the length of the question but I just wanted to give as much information as possible! So I met a guy online four months ago. He is 21, I am 22, and we are from quite different backgrounds - he is Turkish but was born in the UK and has lived here all of his ... (1443 words

How do I get him to move into the spare room and take things from there?

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4 October 2015 (F age 30-35 - I am tired of crying sleepless nights over my marriage. It is loveless, no tenderness and we have tried to keep it together but it seems like a battle going around and around. I'm am quieter than my husband. I have asked him to sleep in the spare room until we agree that we are ... (146 words

I blew him off but now I like him! Do I tell him?

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4 October 2015 (F age 26-29 - I just want to be with him but now I'm not sure how he feels:(? So this lady friend of mine introduced me to her husband's nephew and I didn't like him, didn't find him attractive or my type. I ignored him most of the time he tried to contact me or ask me out, but he ne... (280 words

My girlfriend and her ex are really close..I see him checking her out! How do I get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 621 days ago

4 October 2015 (M age 30-35 - I've been dating my girlfriend for 8 months now. From day one she has been extremely open about her relationship with her ex. They have a four year daughter together and they coparent . They both agreed when they split up that they wanted what was best for their daughter and ... (339 words

Boyfriend's anger is making me lose my confidence. How do I sort this out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 629 days ago

4 October 2015 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend if 3 years is really starting to get me down and I feel stuck. He loses his temper easily, gets verbally aggressive when I try to give my opinion and blows things of by saying " I don't want to hear you anymore, I'm not talking to you". There's name calling ... (329 words

Friends and family tell me to date the younger guy who's actively pursuing me, but I can't stop thinking about someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 629 days ago

4 October 2015 (F age 26-29 - Hello, I'm writing this because I need opinions of people that aren't my family/friends. Basically I was in a relationship for around 8 years, from the age of 14 to around 22. It ended because my life got busier and he'd moved away a few years and it was getting harder ... (637 words

Is a man's "first love" really the deepest?

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4 October 2015 (F age 30-35 - This question is mainly for any guys that lost their virginity to someone they were in a committed relationship with and preferably in love? I'm just curious, regardless of how long it's been, or the circumstances of the break-up, do you still think about your ex? I've hear... (104 words

We had an amazing night together, but my friends tell me he's only after sex and a visa! How do I ask him if his interest in me is genuine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 628 days ago

4 October 2015 (F age 22-25 - So I am a holiday rep working in turkey! I met a guy at the begining of season and we have been talking ever since due to me being moves resort i only got to see him twice in four months but now i have been moved back to the same resort and get to spend my last month here with ... (177 words

My partner is a virgin. She keeps stalling about starting our physical relationship. What is there to "think about"?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 591 days ago

4 October 2015 (M age 36-40 - My partner nearly admitted to me that she is a virgin as I think she is as when I approached the subject of us taking our relationship a little further and asked did she want to stay the night with her replying with could she think about. What is there to think about? I... (114 words

I'm catching my boyfriend's lies out. Do I call him out ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 629 days ago

4 October 2015 (F age 36-40 - i think my new boyfriend is lying . the reason im thinking this is because he told me his dad had fallen really badly and had to go to hospital (the day of our date) we havent met each others families yet so its not like i could ask his family myself. when i texted him to see ... (404 words

If I conceive a child could the child be similarly afflicted with the same conditions, as detailed, and already evident amongst family members?

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4 October 2015 (F age 30-35 - Please help. I don't know how to make a very important decision - to have or not to have a child. My partner of many years, who I am very happy with, is happy either way. He, and myself, have done plenty of research and we're very aware of just how much of a commitment pa... (651 words

I want us to return to being just friends. I've apologized. Yet despite that why is she distancing herself from me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 628 days ago

4 October 2015 (M age 22-25 - I have a very close friend (a girl) who I have known for almost 6 years now. During the time that I have known her I watched her grow and mature into the young adult she is now. I find her to be attractive and I am especially attracted to her body. Even so I can never imagin... (380 words

Why will my boyfriend not say anything bad about this one particular ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 628 days ago

4 October 2015 (F age 36-40 - I have recently gained some weight and it's making me feel quite uncomfortable. My boyfriend always compliments me even when I look like a walking dead extra or my hairs a mess. Well he basically compliments me every time I see him. I asked him to be honest with me if my ... (814 words

Does breast lump surgery take this long to heal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 629 days ago

4 October 2015 (F age 22-25 - Hi, I'm so worried. Had a breast lump surgery 3 weeks ago. It's getting to 4 weeks now and it hasn't healed up yet. Still have steri-strips on it. Though I have been getting regular dressing on it. I feel so uncomfortable . I'm not feeling any pains from it. It still bleeds a ... (83 words

I think my boyfriend is bi, should he have told me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 630 days ago

4 October 2015 (F age 41-50 - Somebody told me that they think that my boyfriend is bi and i found from a face book profile saying that he was in to woman and men and now my sister said that he should have told me is she right.... (42 words

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