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writes:When my boyfriend and I met I was heavy set I have since loss about 10lbs he is constantly trying to get me to workout with him I am not comfortable working out with him. He gets really mean in the gym and it makes me feel unpretty. How or what should I do to make gym time fun for the both of us. Reply to this Question
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (5 November 2013):
 Did you try talking to him about it?
"Dave, I would like to enjoy my time at the gym with you. I do not respond well to your approach of being tough and mean at the gym and it is putting me off going there with you. I'd like to discuss how we can find a way to work out together without it being such a dismal experience for me. Either you lighten up on this or I will have to find another place to work out without you."
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reader, person12345 +, writes (5 November 2013):
 I agree with CMMP that you should just work out separately. What works for him might not work for you and visa versa.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (5 November 2013):
Work out seperately.
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