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Archived questions from: July, 2013 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

We broke up but when met up again and had sex. I'm confused about what he wants

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3942 days ago

31 July 2013 (F) - I dumped my ex about three weeks ago. Let me tell you why, he started saying he doesn't know how much longer we would be together because he doesn't like being chained down all the time. I took that as him saying he wants to see other people. I ...

What does it mean that he walked past me and blew in my ear?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3943 days ago

31 July 2013 (?) - Is he being friendly? is he playing? does he like me? what the heck is he doing? If you've read my questions before, this is the same guy. If you have not, that's ok. About three days ago I was just standing in the auditorium looking for ...

I need some tips on making my first time more pleasurable so I can relax and seem more like I know what I'm doing

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

31 July 2013 (F) - I'm in a very committed relationship.Im at the point where I want to have sex but I'm nervous because I'm a virgin. I just want some tips on what I can do to make it more pleasurable since they say it hurts your first time. I just need some tips t...

Ex blew his chances. Whats the next step?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3941 days ago

30 July 2013 (F) - Me and my ex broke up 2 months ago, due to him being a serial cheat. We had been together for 5 months, having a one month break up in the middle. We broke up due to him both sleeping with someone else and sending pictures and flirting...

Does my ex have feelings for me, or is he just messing with my head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3944 days ago

30 July 2013 (F) - So this question is about my ex. We dated about 2 years ago for a very short period of time. We went to the same school for 4 years and remained friends after dating. He didn't seem that into me and we were both young. We would still text and flir...

Do I believe the things he tells me when he's sober or when he's drunk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3946 days ago

27 July 2013 (F) - I have been talking to this guy for a while now. We were once best friends but we have decided to take our relationship a little further. (we're not officially together though). He likes to go drinking with his friends but he's not a heavy dri...

Is it ok to have a crush on my 20-year-old karate sensei?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3945 days ago

27 July 2013 (F) - I'm 15 and I go to a karate club in my town 2 days a week with a Sensei who is now,quite literally my best friend. I am the sort of person who doesnt really have friends apart from a few and I trust people a lot once I get to know them. Anyway...

Is it ok for me to send a fan letter to a singer I admire?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3947 days ago

26 July 2013 (F) - Hey guys :) Okay, so for a while I've become a huge fan of Josh Groban (a singer). Now, I've never been very talkative with my family e.t.c. about what I like and stuff, but I really want to write my first fan mail to him by post. He's fr...

How do I resolve my feelings about my sexuality? Should I wait until I have my first crush on a girl?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3947 days ago

26 July 2013 (?) - I think im bi. Not completely positive, but i will see another girl sometimes and be totally turned on. Like girls my age. i KNOW i like boys though. but i dont know how to tell my parents or anything. its so wierd. I dont really know what im asking ...

I've found out my crush has a girlfriend and I need advice on getting over him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3946 days ago

26 July 2013 (F) - So my crush that I've had for awhile, I think he has a girlfriend . I found out a couple days ago over social media . I was heartbroken . I'm still trying to get over it . Now I wanna make sure that I don't like him anymore after this . I don't ...

I feel like I'm too unsociable to ever meet a girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3948 days ago

26 July 2013 (M) - I feel like I'm to unsocial to ever find someone I like(as in to go out with). I never really been that interested in dating but also when I get the opportunity to go out and meet girls my own age I make excuses to not go, for example, it was my ...

Eeny, meeny, miney mo..which boy do I pick?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3949 days ago

25 July 2013 (F) - There are 4 guys that are interested in me and I'm interested in each one, but cannot make a decision between them. Each have a particular quality that makes them unique; there's the affectionate/sweet/emotional one (that's dated some of my frien...

He says he loves me, is it just a joke?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3948 days ago

25 July 2013 (F) - Dear Aunts. I never felt what love is. I have no experience at all. Growing up, people used to make fun of me, say real mean things to me, laughing, taking advantage of my innocent look. I grew up knowing that im ugly, fat, shy and not the best ...

Scared of what goes bump in the night?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3949 days ago

25 July 2013 (F) - A few nights ago I started to have more trouble then usually trying tosleep. I feel as though someone is watching me or I think of demons and ghost and my mine starts to race and I think of ppossession and my heart rate spikes a little. And this ...

How can I learn to open myself up to others and become more social?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3950 days ago

24 July 2013 (F) - Hi Everyone, I'm just curious to know If anyone can help me. I have social issues. I'm a reserved person, not so much shy, but I find it extremely hard to communicate with people even when I really want to ? When I'm interested in a guy and he'...

We're not together but we're jealous of each other. How can I get him to trust me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3951 days ago

24 July 2013 (F) - I'm in a complicated relationship with this guy. We are not together, but we are somewhat talking I guess. We are close friends who have feelings for each other. We made a vow that we would always be open and honest with each other no matter ...

He doesn't care about me anymore.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3950 days ago

24 July 2013 (F) - I am currently in America, which has a 7 hours of time difference between my country. I will be going back at the end of the summer. I just wanted to give that information, because my problem seems fairly simple. My boyfriend doesn't seem to ...

I need to get unbored of my realtionship please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3951 days ago

23 July 2013 (M) - I feel like I am being bored in my relationship. We have been going out for almost 6 months, and I'm starting to slowly not like her anymore. I used to love her so much, then I went on vacation for 5 days and now I dont like her as much. I dont know ...

I'm modest and reserved but seem to attract guys who only want sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3943 days ago

23 July 2013 (F) - I seem to be attracting the wrong type of men and I have no Idea why ? I wonder if Im doing something wrong ? I have never been the type of woman to expose her body, I dress pretty classy, I wear clothes that accentuate my curbs, and may show a...

She's been acting her age and it's getting on my nerves

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3952 days ago

21 July 2013 (M) - ive been with my girlfriend just over a month now, shes 17 and im 20 shell be 18 in december. we were friends before we got together and everythings been great. shes my first ever girlfriend and its been great but now im having thoughts of leaving ...

Does my unusual prefrence doom me to being alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3951 days ago

21 July 2013 (F) - Hello Aunts and Uncles, I have a pretty vague question but I'll try and go into detail. I'm a 17 year old female and all my life I've only been attracted to middle aged women. I realized I was gay at about 11 years old, so I consciously knew how I ...

We broke up, but he's still the one I talk to - will I ever get over him this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3709 days ago

21 July 2013 (F) - Hello. I'm a 16 year old girl. I was in a relationship with this guy but we kind of 'broke up' when I had to move away last year December. We still kept in touch and all through skyping but then it got lesser until a point when we just messaged ea...

I feel like I'm in love with my teacher and I don't know how to stop feeling this way

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

20 July 2013 (M) - I feel like I'm in love with my maths teacher and I don't know what to do. I'm quite young and I know it's not legal for me to have an intimate relationship with her but I just can stop this feeling. The last thing I would want is for her to lose ...

I want him to be my first kiss, should I move on or wait?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3709 days ago

18 July 2013 (F) - There is this guy in my year at school and we are good friends we flirt a bit but it's really awkward because everyone in our year knows that at some point one of us has fancied the other.I still fancy him but I'm not sure he fancies me. We are at ...

A new potential step parent vs a teenager

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

17 July 2013 (F) - I need constructive advise about a situation that is bothering me. Im widowed 5 years now and have 3 kids (14, 11 and 10), I finally met the most amazing man and he proposed to me recently. A background on the guy, he is the type of guy that is a go ...

I don't think I'm going to be the smartest any more, any tips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3957 days ago

17 July 2013 (?) - Im known as a super smart kid in mt school. next year im going to a charter school for eighth grade.its a brand new school just built. and all the kids there are super geniuses. like sheldon cooper smart.and im scared i wont be one of the smartest ...

If you were me, would you take him back?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3957 days ago

15 July 2013 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of 2 years broke up recently. The relationship was at tipping point and although we loved each other (and still do) very much and had a great connection and friendship, it was time that we either did something about it, or brake ...

I'm shy but I want to tell him how I feel!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3889 days ago

13 July 2013 (F) - i really like my cousin. hes not my blood relative cousin. my friends think its weird anyway i want to tell him how i feel about him but im a shy person and its so hard when i see him i always look my best and try to drop hints that i like him ...

I've Fallen In Love With My Oldest Friend, Help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3961 days ago

13 July 2013 (F) - I think I've fallen in love with a really close friend. His dad and my dad are best friends so we've grown up together but now that I'm 15 and he's 16 and we've grown up from running about the back garden playing football I genuinely think I'm in ...

Is it bad to go to prom alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3959 days ago

13 July 2013 (F) - dear cupid, is it bad to go to prom alone. I feel like im a failure at life; not one boy from school asked me as his date. how do I keep things positive? looking at allmy friends preparations with dresses,andflowers,and most importantly their da...

I need him to love me like he used to! Do I give him more time and space?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3961 days ago

12 July 2013 (F) - So here's the thing, i've broke up with my ex for 2 months and a little, and just a 2 weeks back, he finally agreed to get back with me because he still loves me. We went out and watched a movie, we held hands during the movie, but when i wanted t...

He's too hairy for me! How do I tell him without hurting his feelings?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3952 days ago

11 July 2013 (M) - dear cupid, i had just went on a first date with this guy hes really sweet and really funny we get along great. he says hes very uncomfortable with his body, i told him he has a great body type and he asks me " are you sure?" and i said yes we start ...

I've tried a couple of times to engage with her -- should I give up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3964 days ago

10 July 2013 (M) - Dear aunts and uncles. I hope all of you are having a great and relaxing summer with your loved ones! First of all I just want to warn you guys that I am a horrible writer, so forgive me if the explanation of the situation is difficult to understand ...

Should I worry about his porn use? He said he tried to give it up but lasted only 3 days!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3960 days ago

10 July 2013 (F) - I know this is going to sound stupid to most people because it sounds stupid to me but it annoys me and set of my jealous streak.. (I know I'm going to get some 'hate' probably for what I've done) So me and my boyfriend have exchanged intima...

How do I make her love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3963 days ago

10 July 2013 (M) - i am in class 10th and love a girl who is a year younger than me.. The problem is that she hates me a lot. Once i had proposed her but she said no with a reason that she thinks me as her brother.... I can't take big steps because it's school days so ...

I want us to be together for ever -- am I gearing up for heartache?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

9 July 2013 (F) - Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been together for some time, and even though we are only 15 I know I love him deeply. We have started thinking about a future together, and even though we are young I could see myself with this boy for the rest of ...

Help with a phobia?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3965 days ago

9 July 2013 (F) - I have a phobia which seems to be taking over my life. It sounds like a silly thing to be scared of but I have a phobia of crane flies/daddy long legs. During summer there is an approx. 6 week period when there are loads of them about. At this time, ...

We've been together a week and now he wants to have sex! I don't know what to do!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3964 days ago

9 July 2013 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for a week now, he is asking me for sex ,we are both 14, i dont know what to do can you help me? x ...

How old were you when you kissed someone?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 3957 days ago

9 July 2013 (M) - just asking, how old where you when you kissed somebody or anybody?????...

How do I distinguish the losers from the keepers? And how do I tell a keeper I want to wait before having sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

9 July 2013 (F) - I have relationship problems, how do i trust a guy when i have been hurt by the ones i thought i could trust? Every guy i am suposed to be friends with decide they want in my pants or want to be in a relationship. I dont flirt with guys, I just love ...

Guy acting hot then cold? Does he like me more than just as a friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3963 days ago

9 July 2013 (F) - So, I have a guy friend. I'm 18, he's 21. We've been aware of eachother's existence since we were both 13? But we didn't start becoming friends until I was about 16 nearly 17. We are quite good friends now. Me and him sometimes go do work together...

I'm having regrets after a one-night stand!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3966 days ago

8 July 2013 (F) - Well I'm going to brutally honest. I'm 17 and I gave a guy a blowjob this morning cause we were up all night and I was at his appt. With friends and his friends. Later on we all separated and did our own things mine personally leading to giving him ...

She rejected me and then months later texts me. Is she regretting her decisions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3963 days ago

8 July 2013 (M) - Hi readers. So this girl I haven't talked to in months (Christmas basically) texted me tonight out of nowhere saying hey. I have a feeling she's bored, or she's reconsidering rejecting me. I don't know. I'm making small talk with her now, but I want ...

Never had a relationship -- tips for what guys like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3967 days ago

7 July 2013 (F) - So I'm about to get into a relationship with a guy I've liked for about 9 months now, I've known him for a few years but last Christmas we exchanged numbers and since then we've been hanging out a lot. I've never had a boyfriend and I've never done ...

Does this message mean I'm dumped? Help!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3962 days ago

7 July 2013 (F) - Me and my bf have been arguing ALOT and we had a huge row because he has no time too see me this morning he said 'Right now I am screaming at my phone because I can't put into text what I want to say in retaliation and so it doesn't ruin your day, I ...

Please help me - did I lose my virginity?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3967 days ago

6 July 2013 (F) - Over the summer I had a boyfriend we will always be together well anyways , one day we were at his bedroom and we got sexual he sticked his penus in me and I had pain but my question is if he sticked it in once did he pop my cherry ? when we got up ...

Should I ask my best friend to be my first kiss? How can I do this without sounding odd?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3968 days ago

6 July 2013 (M) - I don't know how to go about this so I'll just ask it straight forward; how can I ask my best friend to be my first kiss without it being weird? Here is some background to help you answer, we are both bi and now out and accept each others sexualli...

My crush talked to me today and I'm so happy - how do I initiate another conversation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3968 days ago

5 July 2013 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles Something really great happened to me today! The guy I've had a crush on for months Talked to me! He talked to me because my friend introduced me to him, what he said was not much but I am so happy! He said my name and looked m...

Does she like me or is she trying to push me away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3969 days ago

4 July 2013 (M) - Hey, okay so here's my problem. One night at a work night out me and a co worker started kissing. We were kissing for quite a while and multiple times. Other girls I work with told me she fancied me but I don't know of this is because she was drun...

How do you ask to have an open relationship

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3969 days ago

4 July 2013 (F) - What is the best way to go about asking your boyfriend to allow the relationship to become an open relatonship?...