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She rejected me and then months later texts me. Is she regretting her decisions?

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Question - (8 July 2013) 6 Answers - (Newest, 11 July 2013)
A male United States age 26-29, *rBigShot110 writes:

Hi readers. So this girl I haven't talked to in months (Christmas basically) texted me tonight out of nowhere saying hey. I have a feeling she's bored, or she's reconsidering rejecting me. I don't know. I'm making small talk with her now, but I want to know from you guys if I should see where this goes or shrug it off. I can't lie, after years of rejection I'm desperate but I need to know if she's a possibility.

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A male reader, DV1 United States +, writes (11 July 2013):

DV1 agony auntIt's not hard. Just don't answer the phone. If she calls, don't pick up. Don't answer texts. Go out and have a life, and be happy with yourself. You don't NEED anyone but yourself. If you feel like you need someone then you're really just unhappy with yourself, and you really need to spend some time fixing yourself. A relationship isn't going to fix you, it's going to make you not deal with your problems in life. Move on from her, she's trash.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2013):

Thanks for update.

DV1 is right, she is looking for an ego booster.

Ignore her completely. Focus your time on someone who will appreciate you all the time, not only when she has no one else.

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A male reader, MrBigShot110 United States +, writes (11 July 2013):

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Hello guys, so I've talked to her some more, still small talk and its really been boring. I ended our last conversation by telling her that I was going to bed and haven't talked to her since. I'm feeling like she just wanted to see if she could get my attention. I'm still not completely sure if I want to try for her again or leave her, but its teetering towards leave her. If I were to see where things go, what could I say? It's taking me a while to find someone and that's the only thing keeping me from ignoring her. I just don't know... I'm confused. I'm pushing my dignity aside for this girl and I know I shouldn't but something inside won't let me stop myself. I know I should stop now, but I want someone. Please help further. Much appreciation.

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A male reader, DV1 United States +, writes (9 July 2013):

DV1 agony auntThe truth might be hard to read, but here it is:

She needs to feed her ego, and she's not getting her boost from someone else. She decided to see if she could still get a reaction from someone, whether it's negative or positive, because either way, she's still got some control over you, and that just continuosly feeds her ego. It's a big game women play that they'll never admit to. I'd ignore her and keep going on with your life...

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A male reader, Xearo Trinidad and Tobago +, writes (8 July 2013):

Come straight with her and find out what she wants, a relationship or whatever.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2013):

Honestly, I'm thinking she is either bored/lonely or wanting something from you.

I would ignore her.

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