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Archived questions from: December, 2005 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

I got dumped after a week with my boyfriend. Now he's not sure if that was the right thing!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 434 days ago

31 December 2005 (F) - I started my new school in September. I love it. There's this really fit boy there. I went out with him, then after a week he dumped me. I don't know what I did wrong. I asked him why and he said I don't know why I did it. I still really fancy hi...

Already attracted to a good friend, now I'm also falling for HER best friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1104 days ago

31 December 2005 (M) - I'm a 16 year old bloke and I don't know what to do. I think I might be falling for one of my best friends, but I already have feelings for another friend, and they are best friends together. The one I'm falling for knows that I like her friend but ...

I don't understand why guys my own age just don't seem interested in me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1102 days ago

31 December 2005 (F) - I don't understand why guys appear to not be interested in me! I'm 16 years old and have had 2 bf's, and never even been on a date with an other guys. All my friends at school have all the guys interested in them and at work, all the guys are inte...

I unhooked her bra when we were kissing, but that was going too far! Now what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1104 days ago

31 December 2005 (M) - Hi. I have been with my girlfriend a month now, and it was going great. Until last night. We were kissing and I thought maybe we could move to the next step. So I undid her bra at the back but she immediatly stopped kissing and shook her head. I ...

Dream interpreter needed. Why did I dream about a guy who turned away when I kissed him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1080 days ago

30 December 2005 (F) - I need some help decodeding my dream. It probably sounds dumb but......... In my dream I leaned in to kiss a boy he turned his head. Then I woke-up. It was odd becouse during the whole dream I couldnt see his face clearly. This is realy bothering ...

Afraid my "best" friend is going to try and steal my boyfriend... Again!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1106 days ago

29 December 2005 (F) - I'm afraid my 'best' friend is gonna try n steal my guy....again... When me nd my boyf james* first got togeva she tried everything for it to not happened...telling me and him poisonous stories about one another etc. 6 months down the line and ever...

When we're together, I think he's attracted, but then he says there are other girls who like him too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1106 days ago

29 December 2005 (F) - There's this guy. We use to date but we broke up. Now he lives really close. We started talking and holding hands like couples do; we even kissed. Now he is saying he is confused cuz a lot of gurls like him. I asked him out and he said he would...

Does she like me in the way that I like her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1105 days ago

29 December 2005 (M) - hi, please can you answer my question. I went to a party and i was with a girl nearly all night. all we really did was cuddle alot (and i mean alot),sit next to each other with our arms around each other while she rests her head on my shoulder. and ...

I had unplanned sex with my girlfriend, but I'm not yet 14. She couldn't be pregnant, could she?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1037 days ago

29 December 2005 (M) - Hi People, I am a 13 year old male who is almost 14. Recently (for about 2 months) I have been going out with this 16 year old girl. At first all we did was kiss, make-out and foreplay etc, but last night my parents were both at hen/stag nights ...

Should I tell my best friend I was a webcam-sl*t with the guy she likes? I only did it to get back at her...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1079 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - theres this guy he's my x (lets call him will) i still like him even though it was me who ended it. lately hes been sending really dirty txts to my best mate i act like im not bothered but i rly rly am. i havnt told her. yesterday i got back at her ...

If I get pregnant, can we get married at 16 without our parent's permission?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 62 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - I am 16 years old and I will be 17 in July of 2006. I live at home with my mom and my brother and I am just so tired of being treated like crap. My boyfriend is 16 also and he will turn 17 two days before me. We have been talking about getting ...

Would it be better for me to have sex with another virgin, or with the girl who I'm in love with?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1103 days ago

27 December 2005 (M) - Hi, I am 16 years old and just met this wonderful girl who I am in love with. However she does not seem to feel the same way. I am still a virgin and she rather prefers a sexual relationship. I know she slept with other men before and I w...

I need help to persuade my parents that my boyfriend and I won't have sex while we're alone for a week...

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

26 December 2005 (F) - I'm 16 and my boyfriend's parents are going away for a week. My boyfriend is staying at mine, but I'm on a mattress downstairs and he is in my room. It was a yes to him staying in my room but now they've changed their minds. I don't want to have ...

The rumour is that she broke up with me because I wasn't affectionate enough...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1109 days ago

24 December 2005 (M) - Me and my girlfriend broke p a month ago and since then we haven't really spoken. Her reason for breaking up was because she was working on both weekends we couldn't meet up and she feels it's unfair to me. However I knew there was more to it, as t...

Found out my boyfriend is dating someone else, too. Do I say something or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1109 days ago

24 December 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have a really big problem. I've been dating this guy for a couple of months. Recently I found out he has been going out with another girl. I should have expected that it would happen since we go to different schools. I'm scared to ...

If I ask my female friend out, will it ruin our friendship?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

24 December 2005 (M) - Hello. I'm really not sure about something. Well there's a girl I'm like really friendly with at school and I think I've fallen in love with her (she knows) but I don't know whether she feels the same about me and the one thing I am paranoid...

I felt like my boyfriend went too far. He stopped when I asked, but now what do I say about it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1108 days ago

24 December 2005 (F) - I'm a teen and I've been dating this great guy for a few months. We are so right for each other and I thought we were on the same page but I was at his place watching a movie like I have many times before and he caught me off guard with something. ...

Bitchy girls alway seem to get what they want..do I stop being nice and be like them? Help

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1108 days ago

23 December 2005 (?) - i really need some help lol ive always been a good daughter and gotlike straight A's at school. I've never really been unhappy. And my friends always rely on me to take care of them and cheer them up. I get called "mum" and "happy" at schoo...

My friend copies everything I do...it's getting to me! Help

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 62 days ago

21 December 2005 (F) - I've got a big problem with one of my friends. She copies me with everything! I told her I wanted a dog, so did she. I told her a babysitted for my younger siblings, so did she, even though her younger siblings can take care of themselves. I to...

We weren't that close when he was in high school, but I want him to know how strongly I feel now...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1114 days ago

20 December 2005 (F) - I don't know if you will be able to answer my question, but I thought I needed an outside opinion and nobody else seems to want to try to answer my question. Here's my "story"... I have Loved this Guy for almost three years now. I met him when ...

Should I stay with him or should I break up with him? Help..advice needed.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1097 days ago

20 December 2005 (F) - I need help badly. I just found out that my boyfriend is 13 and I am only 11. Today (12-19-05) he hugged me at school. I do not know what I should do because we just got back together. He really loves me and I really love him. So should I stay with ...

Worried over my exam grades-are my future career prospects in jeopardy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1097 days ago

19 December 2005 (F) - Please help me. I am 13 years old, about to take my SAT's exams, and in a year, my GCSE's. We recently had a maths test in school, a mock SAT's paper, and I did very badly, 25 out of 60, everyone else was getting in the 50's. I am so worried ab...

Help! I've never experienced sex with a man, so what's it really like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1105 days ago

19 December 2005 (F) - hi im 16 going on 17 and i am with this guy. i am very close to him and i think its time for us to get a little more sexual. i have never really expierienced a lads body before and i dont really know my way arround. my main question is wha...

My confidence is gone-I can't seem to talk to boys anymore..help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1095 days ago

19 December 2005 (F) - hi x x i just cant talk to boys anymore and im 14! i used to be a real hit with all the boys in my village, until i had a fight with this other girl for some stupid reason and i lost. i was too embarresed to ever show my face in that area again ...

When my boyfriend and I kiss, he gets so hot he even masturbates in front of me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1115 days ago

19 December 2005 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going out since two years. We have got a little bit of physical but have never done sex. It's on the basis of understanding that we won't have it before marriage. The problem is that when we kiss and all, we really e...

I'm 16 and he's 30, but we really connect. I want him to know it will work!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1073 days ago

19 December 2005 (F) - I've been talking to a guy who I've known since May and it's starting to get more serious. He's great and I like him a lot, but the problem is that he's 14 years older than me. I know it seems like a lot, expecially since I'm 16, but we connect on ...

We lost track of each other, but I'm interested again. What do I do to let him know?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1078 days ago

19 December 2005 (F) - I'm 15, and I used to date this boy last year. Then on this one website I left a blog and I said something naming all the people I could depend on, and I forgot him. So we just stopped dating. It was sort of mutual but now I really like him (aga...

What do I do about the guy who's interested in me, but doesn't get that I'm with someone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1118 days ago

18 December 2005 (F) - Hey, I have a problem. I really need a guy's point of view in this. I'm a 14 year old girl. There's a boy in my Spanish class who really likes me. He doesn't have a lot of money and he spent it on me for a Christmas present. I have told him many...

I'm afraid I'm moving too slowly for my girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1117 days ago

17 December 2005 (M) - Hey, I have a problem with being too shy with girls (it's the reason my last girlfriend dumped me). I can never work up the nerve to kiss the girl no matter how much i dig her or she digs me. I'm not saying I can't kiss them or move to the sequenti...

I want to date her, but we are so different...will it work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1120 days ago

15 December 2005 (M) - i'm 16 and i need help i cant seem to stop thinking of this girl. she is a close friend and she dosent know how i feel. i dont know if a relationship would work because were very different people and i dont know if i can keep it a secret please what ...

Desperately need help after my first girlfriend dumped me, then I found my best mate making out with her! (long)

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

15 December 2005 (M) - Hi there. I am a 17 year old male living in the UK. This summer (start of August 2005 to be exact) i started going out with a girl who is 15. Now i have knew her family (mainly Auntie and Uncle) for a couple of years. And i get on with (and still ...

I'm 13... and I don't think anyone likes me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1110 days ago

12 December 2005 (F) - I am 13 and I don't think that anyone has ever liked me for me. I think that I am nice, non-judjmental and optimistic. If a friend is down I always help them out. I feel that there is a problem. I am overweight and in my opinion pretty but not ...

It could be real love if we got together, but how do I ask him out without embarrassment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1122 days ago

12 December 2005 (F) - I really like this guy at school and he is really nice to me. I don't know whether to ask him out or not in case he says no, because I don't want to embarras me or him. He is so sexy but see as I'm only 13. I think we could give it a try. I know ...

Help!! I'm so vain! I spend hours gazing at myself..what's wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1123 days ago

11 December 2005 (F) - Please help me. I am so vain. Whenever I pass myself in the mirror I look at myself and pose, sometimes even naked. I brush my hair and put makeup on just to look at myself and I can never draw myself away. Sometimes I even talk to my re...

My friends have bf's and I'm a bit jealous. How do I get the confidence to talk to to guys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1124 days ago

11 December 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, I don't really know how to start this. I really want a boyfriend, I guess. There's a guy I really like who's 13, but I hardly know him, I've just seen him around and he's mates with one of my other guy friends. There's also a group o...

Scared by physical intimacy... What if I hyperventilate when I kiss!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1124 days ago

11 December 2005 (F) - hey, I have a problem with the physical side of a relationship. What I mean is, I'm to scared to kiss a guy who might be my bf or go any further. I am 16 years old and have had 2 bfs, the first one only lasted a week and he dumped me because I ...

No confidence with girls because I feel so short!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 489 days ago

11 December 2005 (M) - I'm currently 15, 16 soon and have had 1 tiny growing spurt this year. Everytime I grow, everyone else seems to tower above me. When will I have my growth? I don't want to remain tiny all my life! I have no confidence with anything especially girls ...

never had a bf because I lack confidence...any ideas on what I should do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1120 days ago

9 December 2005 (F) - im a 16 year old girl and i have never been with a guy.i have two problems i am very shy and lack confidence.it gets me down that i have never experienced a relationship because all my friends do be talking about there boyfriends and it makes me ...

Want to meet my online bf... but my family don't support me and they embarrass me by the way they act!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1125 days ago

9 December 2005 (F) - I have a few questions in relation to my situation here. Basically I'm 16 years old and in high school. I have known a guy called Andy for a while, on the net. He's a really good person. Now before anyone even starts to warn me about all the poss...

Is it normal to never having any feelings for another person? I only seem drawn to females for physical reasons...help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1126 days ago

9 December 2005 (M) - Is it normal to never having any feelings for another person? The only things that draw me to women are purely physical. I watch everybody around me being in love and doing certain things I could just never imagine myself doing. I've never felt ...

I love her, she loves me, but can teenage relationships really have fairytale endings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1124 days ago

8 December 2005 (M) - I am a male teenager nearly 16. I have a girlfriend of 3 months, and I know what i feel for her is real love. She is 15. I have been with several girls in my life, but she is the only one which makes me feel the way she makes me feel, which is ...

Is it true I could do 22-years jail-time for making love with my girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1126 days ago

8 December 2005 (M) - I am a 16yr old boy. My girlfriend is 14 and she wants to have sex with me. I said no because loads of my friends told me that its very illegal and I could get put on sex offenders list and get up to 22years in prison is this true and what would ...

How do I move on from my ex-bf?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1085 days ago

8 December 2005 (F) - I have this guy who is my ex boyfriend. im his first girlfriend and we broke up because of me because he given me 3 chances but still i failed and he broke up with me and i cried a lot and he had this new girlfriend and my 1 friend saw the picture ...

She smiles at me, she texts me, she asks me to walk her home...do you think she likes me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1118 days ago

6 December 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, I'm just wondering: There is this girl who goes to my school (im 16 in yr 11 by the way) and whenever she sees me she says hi and smiles a real big smile. N she always texts me asking to me to walk home with her - she offered me a ride ...

I'm 12 and I hardly get to see my gf anymore. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1129 days ago

6 December 2005 (M) - im 12 and i hardly ever get to see her anymore and when i do rarly see her i can hardly talk even though shes my gf what do i do...

She's in a different school and I like her...any ideas on how to get to know her better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1130 days ago

5 December 2005 (M) - There is a girl i met today who I have really taken a fancy to and would like to get to know her better, thing is im in Y11 and shes in Y9 at a different school. How? And wouldnt my friends would take the mick if she went out with me?...

I have this strange lump on my genital area-and I'm embarrassed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1130 days ago

5 December 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, This isn't especially a question about sex, but I'm really worried about my 'body' and could use some reassurance. Well, about two weeks ago, I noticed a lump between my anus and my vagina. I was pretty freaked out so I had a look on th...

Will the hormones in the Pill affect my body development?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1129 days ago

5 December 2005 (F) - Hello everyone! I am new here and this is my first post. I am trying to find out more about estrogen and testosterone a still changing body. I am mature for my age (I am 15 in May) and have the biggest boobs in my year, (I get quite a lot of s...

Our past makes me hesitant to tell him how I feel about him. Should I?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1126 days ago

4 December 2005 (F) - There is a boy that I like at school, he acts differently around me but we have had a complicated past (long story) and I don't know whether to tell him how I feel because of this. He makes me feel safe and happy whenever I am around him. What do i ...

Suddenly I'm attracted to a girl a year below me. I don't know how to start talking to her...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1131 days ago

4 December 2005 (M) - Hi everyone, I have a problem. I'm in year 11 and for some reason I have feelings for this girl in year 10 who I have never spoken to in my life. Why is this happening? How can I start a conversation with her? It's hard to talk to her because she ...