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writes:Me and my girlfriend have just broken up becuase we weren't talking much to each other. I was trying to talk to her but other times she just left before I had the chance to. Her friends says she liked me for a while but it doesn't seem like it because she wont really talk, call me or make plans with me. Why do you think does that? Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (21 January 2008):
 It is possible love flew out the window. Her love is MIA.She will not feel anything about this relationship.
Maybe, you forgot to fill up her love tank or she was a guzzler.
Sorry about your break up.
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reader, emad khan  +, writes (21 January 2008):
 I agree with the other response. There are certain individuals who just don't know what they want. One day they feel one way, the next completely different.
Probably, if you back off from this person, they'll come back to you...of course
they may not... but whats really important is that you find someone who is interested in having a relationship with you, and who has things clear in their mind.
Its difficult, sometimes, to pull away from a relationship when we (most of all, with us guys) are really attracted to the woman, or if the physical aspect was really great. But in the end, if the communication, and overall relationship doesn't work, the whole thing is just a wast of your precious time.
So my advice to you, is to drop this situation for a while. Leave the woman alone, and do your own thing. Either she'll come back (for a while) or she wont and you'll move on and find someone who truly suits you. But take heart, and don't worry about things.
everything should turn out for the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2008): Some people are very fickly and not quite sure what they want out of life and i think this girl is quite like that. You could try and have a chat with her and ask her outright just what is going on, or just move on and decide that she will do your head in in the future and you are better off without her. The decision is yours, but remember, life is too short, so dont waste it by hanging around waiting for someone who may not be the right person for you.
take care
xx
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