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writes: This is porbably a silly question but, is it wrong to wish that you were back at the begining of a relationship?My boyfriend and I have been together just over a year now and well, I'm kind of getting bored. I miss that excitement I used to feel when we first started going out, I miss going on dates and being suprised with little gifts. Also, I miss discovering new things about him, it being really exciting when I stayed the night or feeling really special when he cuddled me on his sofa as we watched tv. Now, I know everything about him. I don't get excited when we meet up as I see him everyday. Don't get me wrong, he's my best friend, I love him, I tell him everything but... Everything is so domestic. We're so comforatble with each other now that we can burp in front of eachother without the other caring. It makes me kinda sad.I'm glad that we're comfortable but is it wrong of me to miss all the excitement of the first few months? I've been a bit down lately because of this, he's noticed. How do I explain to him how I feel without him thinking I've gone off him?
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reader, HappySmiles  +, writes (27 January 2008):
 YEAH WAH deivlish said dont let him make all the moves make your own move to get it more exciting. Just do more exploring. Ask Sum question .. like what if or when i blah blah blah.. =]
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reader, Yos  +, writes (26 January 2008):
 I suggest the two of you watch this video together and then talk about it. It's about exactly what you are describing (which by the way is totally normal and natural)...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x-ewvCNguug
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reader, Devilish Angel +, writes (26 January 2008):
 Why don't you do something to make things a bit more exciting? Dress up sexy and seduce him when he comes home. Do something that you used to do or something new to make things exciting. He'll notice and he'll reciprocate.
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