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Archived questions from: June, 2014 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

Why do people do people act like they are in love so easily ? How do I tell him that he's crazy?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3588 days ago

30 June 2014 (M) - So my friend and I just got done texting and he has known this girl for like four days and is already saying that she is his dream girl. I've been telling him that he is crazy and that he falls in love way to easy. Why do people do that? How do I te...

She invited me to church but doesn't want to go on dates.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3588 days ago

30 June 2014 (M) - So I recently meet up with this girl I dated in high school and she invited me to church with her and we went together sometimes! So anyways at first I thought she lost all feelings for me but the first time I went with her to church I could feel ...

When should you stop thinking about a crush?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3589 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - When should a crush subside and you stop thinking about them? I have barely seen this guy, and it's been like 9 weeks! I keep dreaming about him. We never went but i sensed sexual tension. Should I stop or just wait until i see him again and be ...

I've been friend zoned!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3589 days ago

30 June 2014 (M) - ive had a crush on a girl for a while now and im to shy to make my move so now ive been friend zoned and now im going to highscool so i might even see her anymore and even lose that. she wants me to go to all her games though but i dont think that ...

Is it a coincidence that I see him there on my day off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3590 days ago

29 June 2014 (F) - A question for men or women. I am in my 40s and know of a guy that goes to our local coffee shop every day at the same time in the morning (my friend and myself have noticed when we do school drop off). However there is one day that he goes int...

She's the coolest girl I know, but its been a long time! will it still be worth it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3591 days ago

29 June 2014 (M) - Hello everybody! I have a dying question to ask, and it burns my insides for an answer. Ok, so there's a girl I know, we have been best friends since literally kindergarten, and its 10th grade now, but in 8th grade, she switched schools. I kn...

Does the repair man like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3591 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - Ok I'm going to start of saying am the worst for thinking things over and over. Can't help myself so please put me straight if am over thinking nothing here, I met a man few months ago, he came out to do repairs for me. But seemed to pro-long the ...

Why couldn't we look away from each other?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3590 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - This is just a quick question. What does holding a gaze mean? I don't need an explanation of that but why could i not look away when someone was looking at me and held my gaze for around 8-10 seconds, no words just gazing. I couldn't have lo...

Don't know what to do, why am I still thinking about a guy I haven't seen for 2 years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3589 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - hi. i'm in a little bummer here... ok here goes, i kinda like this guy (since childhood days actually) but we only see each other every 3 years and he's 2 years older than i am and i don't know if he will or does like me, but then i met this other ...

I am primarily attracted to men who don't seem to find me attractive and it hurts. I'm well educated, articulate and curvy. What do I need to consider or do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3588 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, I'd really value your thoughts and advice on my situation. First I'll give a bit of background to give you a better picture. I'm a 24 year old black girl from London and I am primarily (but not exclusively) attracted to white ...

He used to like me. I really like him but he has a Gf. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3592 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - I really like this guy but he has a girlfriend. He used to like me but he hasn't given me any signals or anything! I don't know what to do anymore! I love him and I don't know if he will ever even like me. Have any suggestions?...

He's 18. It feels right but wrong. How should I handle this considering that I live in a very closed community?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3589 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - Hi i really need advice on this,i feel so confused.. I recently met my best friend's cousin and i knew the minute i saw him that i liked him,i feel so attracted to him It's like nothing i have ever experienced.. The problem is he is 18!! A Also i...

I always crush on guy who like guys, not gals!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3592 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - I'm wondering if any straight females out there find themselves constantly being attracted to/falling in love with gay men? Right now I'm hopelessly in love with a friend of mine who happens to be gay and it's just the most hopeless situation! Where ...

He hasn't responded since sex in the stairwell

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3592 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - I recently rekindled with this guy I met once several years ago. I ran into him at a party and there was definite chemistry and the night ended with a sexual encounter in the stairwell. We agreed to meet up later that week. I sent him a text the ...

I like her a lot, but don't know how to ask her out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3591 days ago

27 June 2014 (M) - Ive known this girl For 2 years already, weve been best friends, we talk alot and even Talked about dating but she sometimes gives me signs to show she dont care anymore, I really Like her and want to ask her out, But dont know what to say, any ...

Is he just being friendly? Or flirting? Or am I thinking it's more than it is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3593 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - hi all,ive got a bit of a dilemma and wonder if you can give your honest opinions :) basically ive become friendly with a guy who teaches fitness at my sons school,when I say friendly I mean we chat and txt each other ocassionally,i see him once a ...

How can I find out if he's interested without making it awkward?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3593 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - I’ve known this guy for about 4 months now. We usually see each other just at church every Sunday, but we sometimes hang out with a group and go to dinner and/or a movie. I usually end up walking/sitting beside him and I developed a crush on him ...

Should I wait until I graduate to reveal my feelings for this administrator?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3595 days ago

24 June 2014 (F) - Hi! I'm 17 years old, and I'm bisexual. I will be starting my senior year in the fall, and I am a high school student. I also have feelings for a 55 year old administrator at my school. Her name is C, and I have been in love with her for about two ...

Can we be more than friends? I think I'm stuck in the friend zone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3595 days ago

24 June 2014 (F) - I have a male friend who I am very fond of, well being truthful I am madly in love with him - but we are just friends. He was dating and has recently broken up, I have been a shoulder for him to cry on and tried to be there for him. The problem ...

Could my ex-teacher want more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3595 days ago

23 June 2014 (F) - so.. here I go again about it...i know that to many of you it will sound stupid...but it's just smth i have to do or I'll always wonder what if.. So..4 yrs ago i met him, he was my teacher for 3 yrs, he was hot charming and inteligent and he knew ...

Who shall I choose? My long term partner? Or the married guy from work whose wife treats him badly?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3587 days ago

23 June 2014 (F) - I've been engaged for 6 months to a man who has doted on me for the last 4 years. He literally would do absolutely anything for me. We have a wonderful life together...we always cuddle, text, call, miss each other and go travelling lots, his hous...

Would you state your feelings in front of this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3597 days ago

22 June 2014 (F) - I have a guy friend, we are also work colleagues. I have been in love with him for over 6 months now. 3 months ago, due to the interest of one older male colleague, we had a fight. There were signs he was interested in dating me, but for several ...

If he's married then obviously it's a disaster waiting to happen

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3597 days ago

22 June 2014 (F) - Ok. Long story short, someone tried to break into my house but did'nt manage to do so. I was'nt home at the time but found my front door broken when I came home. I went to the police station to report what happened. While I was there, I was ...

If he's interested in me, why won't he act on it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3596 days ago

22 June 2014 (F) - Ok my question is for men. What are men really thinking when they stare at you like i mean not only even subtle to make it clear to you they are doing it, then flirt with you and steal looks at your chest. I thought this guy may have liked me but h...

I'm dating her but my gut tells me there is something amiss with her male best friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3598 days ago

21 June 2014 (F) - I have been dating this single mum for about month now. Everything is going alright, obviously haven't let the child or anything crazy like that yet, but I have an issue. She has a male best mate, obviously this girl is bisexual, and this make be...

What are some easy pitfalls to fall into, how can I avoid them and what are some good ways to show I really do care?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3596 days ago

21 June 2014 (M) - The other day I finally got to meet up with a girl I "met" online a few months ago who I've talked with every day, everything went great and I'm gonna see her again soon. I tried to meet up with her a few times before but it never worked out, she ...

I really like the girl who is top of the class and studious!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3598 days ago

21 June 2014 (M) - there's a girl in class whom I really like, but the problem is that she is kind of studious, she was the topper of our class. she doesn't talk much to boys and I don't know that she would like to have a bf. plz tell what i can do to make her ...

Does this older man have a thing for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3596 days ago

19 June 2014 (F) - Does this older man have a thing for me? I know him through work but don't work directly with him, he is always and am not paranoid others have noticed that he always stares at me, when i chat to him i try and be professional and to be fair so does ...

Have I blew it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3599 days ago

19 June 2014 (F) - Hi ok i need some advice on this i was flirting with a guy for a few weeks and he was doing the same, i always noticed him check me out, stare at me and i started crushing back, but i seen him with another girl and she had a wedding band on. So i ...

I'm married and in love with a third person!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3598 days ago

19 June 2014 (F) - Hi folks, i'm in trouble. Long story short, i'm married to a man and now i'm in love with another girl. I haven't done anything stupid called cheating yet but i guess you guys might find this mentally cheating. Things just happened that we sometimes ...

I've been defriended on facebook and don't know what to do about it!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3600 days ago

19 June 2014 (F) - I am not sure what's happened. Between yesterday and today the only thing that's changed is I texted a group text "Hey guys, are you going to the party?" No response. Then today I find myself defriended by a person I had a connection with. Sure...

I'm tired of the tension that comes from my family not liking him, and I've kinda fallen for someone else

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3601 days ago

19 June 2014 (F) - I've been dating this guy for a year and the majority of it has been long distance relationship. I love him so much and his family is awesome and so sweet and they love me. my family however does not like him and feels he doesn't treat me right, he ...

He's choosing his head over his heart but still wants to be friends. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3602 days ago

17 June 2014 (F) - Hello, I recently told a long time friend I had feelings for him, he admitted he also had feelings for me but his best friend was trying to set him up with a girl named carly. He started talking to carly who he then started having feelings for too. ...

Should I text her? Or try calling later? I don't want to mess it up!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3601 days ago

17 June 2014 (M) - I met a girl about two months ago at Wondercon and after talking to her for a bit, got her number, and asked her out about a week later. After a couple text exchanges (with very delayed responses from her) for the next few weeks, and a missed pho...

Is it worth trying to ask her out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3601 days ago

17 June 2014 (M) - basically, long story... I've liked this girl at my school for about a year. She found out ages ago and rejected any interaction with me pretty much. After a while though we have become friends in a sense through this group chat, I tried to get her ...

She's in love with me but she's interfering with my studies, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3602 days ago

17 June 2014 (M) - my question is not any complicated I just want to know was I right or wrong...so let me first tell you about my life....I am a student and I am not ready for any kind of relationship and there is a girl whim I met in social networking website who is ...

Should I follow up with him or move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3603 days ago

16 June 2014 (F) - So I visited the place where my crush who runs this place for the fourth time now, without much but casual conversation. The thing is, the fourth time I walked in the busy busy place, he did not even stop to say hello and he was on the phone an...

Should I tell her I've had a crush on her for the past three years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3602 days ago

16 June 2014 (M) - so to begin with I have had a crush on this girl in my class for three years and now I am 15. she was our school topper and she is beautiful. I think she is single and doesn't talk much with boys. we occasionally had conversations like about on...

I don't want my F/B message to her to seem creepy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3604 days ago

16 June 2014 (M) - I just went on a three day trip with all the youth in my church. We were broken up into groups and I was in a group with a girl I thought was cute. Over the three days, we became friends and I fell for her. Hard. I didn't get her number since we ...

I've fallen for a guy twice my age.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3604 days ago

15 June 2014 (F) - Me and a Co worker. Apart from him kissing me on the cheek at a party, a long lasting hug and teaseful poking and podging or hitting thats our physical interaction. A year and a half, he became my friend and i trusted him alot. we fell out as i to...

Should I try consoling her or should I let her get through her grieving alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3605 days ago

14 June 2014 (M) - My friend (ex crush) have been down in the dumps lately. It wasn't until recently that I found out she broke up with her boyfriend. I confessed to her my feelings a few months back but she said that she only saw us as friends. It was difficult at ...

His mixed messages are driving me crazy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3594 days ago

14 June 2014 (F) - This may seem stupid but it really has become an obsession for me… For the whole month I've been crushing on this guy in my class. We were kind of close before the vacation and during the vacation we would facebook message each other. I slowly f...

If he doesn't like me then why act that way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3598 days ago

14 June 2014 (F) - I have known Andy for 3.5 yrs. He asked me if I had a crush on him in 2013 and I said no...he said he was relieved and was like "FRIENDS :D" saying he does have a flirtatious personality, he's trying to work on it and he's just being friendly. ...

I'm worried my girlfriend fancies her personal trainer!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3606 days ago

13 June 2014 (M) - I need your help My girlfriend gos to the gym everyday except weekend and once a week she does a personal trainer session with a lad at first I thought nothing of this now I think she fancy s him she baths every night before seeing him and i...

I have a crush on my music teacher..should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3607 days ago

12 June 2014 (F) - Hi, I am a 14 year old freshman in high school, and I kind of have a crush on my music teacher. It's not just because of looks(although he is extremely hot) but because of his outstanding personality as well. He is kind and caring and sweet an...

It's getting harder and harder to pretend I don't have feelings for her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3608 days ago

11 June 2014 (F) - I have feelings for my best friend and I'm really scared that I'll lose her if she finds out. She's bi, but I'm almost completely sure she doesn't think about me that way, and it's ripping me up inside. It's getting harder and harder to pretend that ...

Should I stay in contact with the guy I have a crush on in case things go wrong with my current partner?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3609 days ago

10 June 2014 (F) - My age is 28 years old. I have a partner; we have been living together for a few years. However we have relationship problems and family tensions; and we have given ourselves a one year deadline to sort out our problem. This has been discussed by ...

Am I wasting my time with this girl?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3609 days ago

10 June 2014 (M) - So there's this girl that I like and I've taken her out a couple of times now and just when things were looking up, she goes camping with her friends and sleeps with another guy when she was drunk. The next day this guy texts her saying he really ...

I'm baffled by her logic!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3609 days ago

9 June 2014 (M) - So there's this girl I've known a couple of years, last year we made out while drunk a couple of times, one of those times I confessed that I had a crush on her, and she seemed to be open to me, we even spent the rest of the night holding hands, of ...

I'm in love with trouble!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3609 days ago

9 June 2014 (M) - I need advice from someone who dosent know me. Since I was a teenager I've tried to stay outgoing and I've always had female friends but I've only been in one serious relationship, I guess I have trouble connecting on that level. I was raised kind ...