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Archived questions from: June, 2013 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

Why do I find "softer" guys much more attractive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3950 days ago

29 June 2013 (F) - I'm a girl, and while I'm stereotypically feminine in a lot of ways (am always wearing dresses or skirts, into fashion and beauty, have a really girly voice), I also have a strong personality and am "masculine" in other ways. I love sports, lif...

Should I ask him out or wait for him to ask me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3952 days ago

29 June 2013 (F) - Okay so I have the biggest crush on this guy ! And I really want to ask him out ! But I'm really nervous ! His best friend is one of my really good friends and he told me he likes me but I don't know ! How do I ask him out without it being really ...

Is she being overtly friendly or does she really like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3953 days ago

29 June 2013 (M) - We have a new person at work, she is very friendly and has mixed in well with our small group. Over the last month we have started to flirt with each other quite a bit. For instance, i've touched her arm and the small of her back in conversation ...

She's interested or just friendly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3953 days ago

29 June 2013 (M) - She's interested or just friendly? I hope someone can give me some advice. I know I sound pretty inept about it, but i been single for over 5 years now. There's a girl who started working where I do recently, our work is such that we only se...

I'm trying to figure out if there are signs or not, because at times it seems like it, other times she seems indifferent.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3953 days ago

29 June 2013 (M) - Hello all, So I'm trying to figure out what is going on with this girl that I'm starting to have a thing for, I can't tell if she likes me at times or not, because there seem like signs for both. About a month ago, she asks me out to dinner w...

Will persistence pay off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

28 June 2013 (M) - There's this girl I've been having "something" with for the past few months. I was the one all throughout the relationship who pushed it forward (we used to be friends before). Like... I had to go in for the first kiss, ask her out on a "date",...

I’m afraid my impatience and my willingness to speak my mind, totally unabridged, will cause more harm than good

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

27 June 2013 (M) - For a 20 year old, I’m not very attached to my phone. Call me old fashioned, but I’d rather talk face to face, enjoy personal contact. And sure, I use email for work and school, and find time to text girlfriends, but as a single guy, I enjoy my ...

We just met and he told me how much he loves me, and that we could be friends with benefits if I'm not ready for a relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

27 June 2013 (F) - Hi. I only met this guy who is of the same age as me, [mod note; age 17] 2days ago. He was very kind, everyone seems to enjoy his company. Yesterday he asked for my phone no. and i gave it to him without any hesitation and anxiety. Later on that day ...

I have a crush on this guy from an online dating site - advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3954 days ago

27 June 2013 (F) - I signed up for an online dating site for people of the same religion as me for a laugh, and I ended up doing a search on guys for fun. There was someone whom I really fancy by looking at his pictures/profile - but he works in a different country ...

Is an awkward first kiss a bad sign?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

27 June 2013 (F) - I just had my first, very first, kiss with my, again, first boy-I-like-and-he-likes-me. And I got to say, it was...awkward. Don't get me wrong, I really like this guy! But we are both going off to different colleges (same state though) this fall and ...

I joke that I'm guy repellant, but it kind of hurts. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

26 June 2013 (F) - There's a guy that I work with that seems like he likes me, but he's hot and cold about it. If we're around people, he'll try and say hi or talk to me. Otherwise if we're alone together he'll tense up and avoid me. I'm shy and quiet, but frien...

Right person, Wrong time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

25 June 2013 (F) - Hey guys I have a question more for all of you. Is there such a thing as meeting the RIGHT person at the WRONG time. I met who I am pretty sure is the love of my life or at least I want him to be, 2 and a half years ago. We were in a long dist...

How to ask her out without seeming clingy or random?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3958 days ago

24 June 2013 (M) - I met this girl a few weeks ago at uni through a friend and she stayed back a couple of hours to study with me alone. I really liked her and we had some good conversation so I got her number, however it was right before exams and she was busy so we ...

Should I give up or approach him about hanging out again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3958 days ago

23 June 2013 (F) - This is such a stupid question.... I've known this guy a very long time. He is 29 now and I am 21. I met him when my brother dated his sister in highschool and that was a long time ago considering my brother is 28 now. Well.... I have always ha...

How can I be this in love with this man? Is he my soulmate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3955 days ago

23 June 2013 (F) - I have a crush so big I stay awake wondering if this is my soulmate. Then one day I'm sure he is my true love, but the situation is so odd that most of friends have begun to pity me, or think I'm a little crazy. I'm open to the idea of dating ...

Crush and I don't know what to do help!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3687 days ago

23 June 2013 (F) - im still young but i have liked this guy for about 4 years we used to be really close like secret close he said he trusted me with his life at one point but now were not as close we dont even talk really but i. just found out hes moving and lately i ...

How do I ask out this shy guy at work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3960 days ago

22 June 2013 (?) - I am very fond of an extremely shy guy at work. He has shown signs that he is interested, but unfortunately I only get to see him on a day to day basis in his department its been impossible to pursue him taking into account his shyness and the fact ...

They say I should go for him, but he's head over heels for my friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

22 June 2013 (F) - My friend has a friend who is super cute and really likes her a lot, but she has made it very clear to everyone that she only likes the guy as a friend. And my friend's mother says she knows the guy and says that he reminds her of me and we have a ...

Is she just waiting for me to make a move?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3960 days ago

21 June 2013 (M) - So this is probably going to make me sound pretty pathetic but it's been on my mind all day. I guess I've got a crush on a girl I work with and would be open to the idea of dating her, I just haven't figured out how exactly to bring it up yet ...

Are these signs of interest or am I reading too much into it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3962 days ago

20 June 2013 (M) - Just asking knowledgable people's opinion. There are two girls i have an interest in. Both seem to be interested in me. One works in a shop I frequent and the other at a place of work I do deliveries to. I come to both these places at random...

I don't think I can handle seeing her with her boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3963 days ago

19 June 2013 (M) - Hi, bit of a long question here. So about 2 years ago I told this girl whom I had been friends with for about 2 years (at that time) that I had feelings for her but she told me that she didnt like me in that way and just saw us as friends which took ...

Do I talk to him next time I see him and tell him how I feel?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3962 days ago

19 June 2013 (F) - Hello, So I met this guy back in January. We immediately hit it off, spoke, exchanged numbers and hung out like 1 month later. We talk maybe like twice a week via text. Sometimes not talking can extend to two weeks. When we talk and hangout ther...

How does she really feel about me? I'm so confused

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3963 days ago

19 June 2013 (M) - Am a guy of 22 ,handsome and very jovial with everyone espercially with girls which makes them to be fond of me to an extent that whenever they are doing something they will always want me to be by their side for jokes. There is this particular girl ...

Feel confused. Do I go with my gut feelings or forget him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3963 days ago

18 June 2013 (F) - Hi i've know this guy for some years now. About last year we have been together almost everyday. Throughtout this whole year i have seen this guy open up and want to be around me, and then act like he just wants to be my friend. Everytime it s...

How can I figure out how this boy feels about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3687 days ago

18 June 2013 (F) - There is this guy I like that I have known for 4 years. He is 16 and I am 14 turning 15 this October. Before I began to like him again, we hadn't talked for around a year. At first, it was just a crush bc I thought he looked like a guy from this ...

Do girls have relationships so young? I'm only 14

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3960 days ago

18 June 2013 (F) - HI, my name's Olivia and recently, I went for this competition where I met this boy who I talked to. And afterwards, we talked on facebook for a couple of weeks and we met once after that for a movie with some of our mutual friends. He confessed ...

Does he like me? Should I make a move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3966 days ago

16 June 2013 (F) - OK this is something I never thought I would need to do. But I am so confused right now and need some honest answers. About 3 years ago I started a new job and since my first day I've got on really well with my office manager. We email a lot a...

Can cousins be together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3966 days ago

16 June 2013 (F) - this isnt really a problem.. but you know. i just wanted to ask if.. erm. is it okay for cousins to like each other? i mean not only liking as a cousin but actually something deeper than that. ive been thinking about this situation for nights since ...

Dreaming about "another" guy. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3968 days ago

14 June 2013 (F) - I have been dating my amazing boyfriend for almost 3 years. However, for more then a year I have been dreaming about this "other" guy a lot, and no matter what this "other" guy always happens to be brought up in conversations and seen in places I ...

He left without saying goodbye...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3968 days ago

14 June 2013 (F) - So I met this guy at work. He started working there a couple months I started, I'm 19 he's 23. When I first met/saw him I wasn't automatically infatuated, but I did consider him as good looking. We started to get to know each other more through work ...

I've developed a crush on my boyfriend's childhood friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3969 days ago

13 June 2013 (F) - I'm 24 female, and I have been with my 28 year old partner for 4 years. Just recently he's got back in touch with an old friend from his childhood who has moved back into our village and we often invite him over for drinks, the three of us go on ...

I won't steal a woman from another man, but where do I go from here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

13 June 2013 (M) - About two years ago I met a couple in one of my classes. I got close to the woman because she just seemed on my wavelength and she actually tried talking to me more than the guy did. I stayed friendly with her, never having more than friendly banter ...

Being introduced to crush through a mutual friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3969 days ago

13 June 2013 (F) - A month or so ago I was in a class for work that lasted all of about a week. In that class there was a particular guy I grew the biggest, most ridiculous crush on. He was cute, funny, seemed like a lot of fun to be around. And not one word was...

He said he doesn't feel the same way, but I don't want to let it go

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3970 days ago

11 June 2013 (F) - So I'm 16 and I've liked the same person for over a year now and still can't give in and move on. He's a very close family friend so he's mentioned in my family a lot however I hardly see him now, every 2-3 months. Last year it all hit me hard and I ...

I think my crush on an actor is getting out of control

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3964 days ago

10 June 2013 (F) - This is going to sound really, really stupid, but I've recently developed a huge crush on an older Austrian actor... guess who? I don't actually find him that attractive per se, it's more that I like his voice, his films, his one-liners etc. and...

I want to interpret these as positive signals but I have no idea about her sexuality

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3970 days ago

10 June 2013 (F) - So, I'm near to the end of my first year at university (my last exam is on the 11th!). It's been a rollercoaster of a year, but I think things are looking up. Here's the thing. For the last six months I've had this crush on a girl, that I've ...

Do you think he likes me? 99

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3972 days ago

9 June 2013 (F) - So my brother out up some pictures of us hanging out this weekend on Facebook, and one of his friends who I have not seen in ages, wrote beneath on of the pictures of me and my sisters 'wow the (Surname) sisters have grown up beautiful!', he also ...

First time anxiety. How do I overcome it? Still have not consumated the relationship fully yet, but want to.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

8 June 2013 (M) - What's up everyone, totally new to the website and first time poster but hoping to get a lot more active. Just some background on me so you know where I'm coming from. 21 years old, virgin (but hopefully not for long, more on that in a bit) ...

I'm wondering what's up with this guy? I do have feelings for him, but haven't told him yet.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

8 June 2013 (F) - A guy I work with loves to stare at me all the time. He watches who I'm talking to, especially his close friends. When he is not around me then his friends chat to me. Once he's back on the scene one shuts his mouth and the other looks to see if th...

Could dating someone in our group of friends ruin our cohesion ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

8 June 2013 (F) - I have five male friends that I both work with and go to social events with, such as movies, concerts, restaurants, etc. We are all in the same "group". I am normally considered "one of the guys" as I generally do not hang around other females......

I don't want to steal my teacher away from his wife but I do want a kiss from him!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3973 days ago

7 June 2013 (F) - Hello everyone. I am in very difficult situation. When I was in 9 grade I felt something for my science teacher,the problem is that he is more older than me, he is over 50, I was 15 y.o. At first I didn't understand what is happening with me, I ...

In a relationship, but I just fell for my newly discovered second cousin!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

7 June 2013 (F) - Hi, i'm 19 years old and i'm currently in a relationship with an amazing guy. Six months ago i discovered a cousin (technically second cousin) i never knew i had, he's 25 and he has a girlfriend. From the momemt we met we hit it off, we talk nonstop ...

I love flirting with this guy at work? Is it wrong? I am happily married and my husband works at the same place as me.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3972 days ago

7 June 2013 (F) - I am a happily married female. I work in the same department as my husband. However I see him a couple of times throughout the day. He has his own group of friends and I have my group of friends. However I am starting to become very attracte...

Should I finally completely break things off with her or should I just try to man up and get over her myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3975 days ago

6 June 2013 (M) - Dear Agony Aunts, I have known a girl whom i am friends with for a couple of years now. I have asked her out twice and both times she has pretty much said no, there was alot of strange reasons that she gave but clearly she was just trying to b...

Am I wasting my time? She's a bit younger so she might be shy or I'm getting the wrong end of the stick.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3972 days ago

6 June 2013 (M) - Heya if you could please advise.. I met a girl I like who works next door to me, I've liked her for a while but I'm naff at asking girls out, and I like to make sure shes interested.anyway about 2 weeks ago I asked if she wanted to go for a drink ...

She said that I am too emotional, so is she playing hard to get or is she not interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3977 days ago

5 June 2013 (M) - I am asking a girl out,she happens to have had a fling with a friend ones but am inlove with her.I tried late last year and then stopped cause she kept complaining that I was too emotional but its just because am inlove with her.Can you express love ...

Confused here, do I ask her out or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3977 days ago

5 June 2013 (M) - so I really like this girl but its not happening as we both want to stay friends plus she likes someone else, however this girl and I have been texting for over a week or 2 and things have been flirty and i think shes starting to like me as i know ...

How do I ask this girl out at work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3977 days ago

5 June 2013 (M) - How do I ask this girl out at work? I'm a male nurse who works in a hospital, and there's this really cute medical resident who floats around the other units that I've been crushing hard on for like 4 months. She's rarely on my unit however,...

Why did he hone in on me, and keep those feelings even though we haven't talked in a while?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3975 days ago

5 June 2013 (F) - I used to casually date this guy about a year ago, I really didnt take it seriously, because he's one of those guys who is always joking and having fun, and I was also involved with someone else at the time. I learned a few weeks ago from one of ...

I just want to tell him how I feel, I've had a crush on him since I was 12!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3977 days ago

5 June 2013 (F) - I'm 18 and I just graduated high school. I have been "in love" with one of my bosses(47) since I was 12, and I was just thinking about telling him I've had a crush on him since I've met him. He's married with children, and older than my parents, but ...