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writes:Hi folks, i'm in trouble. Long story short, i'm married to a man and now i'm in love with another girl. I haven't done anything stupid called cheating yet but i guess you guys might find this mentally cheating. Things just happened that we sometimes cannot control. I know i'm pretty gay but i do love my husband, not as much as he loves me but i do. Now i feel i'm so fucked. Sooner or later i will make three of us get hurt and suffer. Should i better be off and be alone?You might ask what i want or who i want to be with. Right now i can say I want her sexually and mentally but i love my husband dearly that i know i cannot give up on my marriage. But this is so bloody hard.What would you do if you were me?Thanks for reading this. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2014): Who do you love more; your husband or the other woman?If you love the other woman more, does she love you back?If so, then you should tell your husband about your feelings.
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (19 June 2014):
Simple...Do not give up your marriage for lust. Lust and love are two completely different things.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2014): Sorry, you should not have married him in the first place. Be yourself and do not go on deceiving him. It will be difficult to come clean but you owe it to him. Good luck!
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (19 June 2014):
 I suggest you print out a copy of this submittal, have it nearby, and sit down with your hubby and say to him:
"Hunchy-bunchy, I am living in a peculiar struggle at the moment, and I think it's critical that I share it with you.
Please take a look at this note (produce the copy) and let's talk about it....."
Good luck...
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