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Archived questions from: April, 2013 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

I want to go out with a guy I've never even met!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4005 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - I know this sounds ridiculously stupid but please hear me out. I'm at uni, the stereotypical "party girl" and used to be really shallow regarding guys. I'd get romantically involved with the most attractive guys who showed the slightest bit of...

Need some help reading the signs from this girl....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4005 days ago

30 April 2013 (M) - I know this girl for like 10 months she's a bit weird to me sometimes she's really nice eye contact and everything and then sometimes she's distant, cold etc.. Sometimes when we're walking together she walks really close to me we're always bumping ...

Should I tell my cousin I love him, or make him fall in love with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - im a teenager, im in love with my cousin but he dosent know that. i want him to be my life partner. their family is so close to me. i tried hard to forget him, but unable to do it. i am unable to avoid him. when i see him my heart beat increases and ...

Should I tell my step-cousin I'm attracted to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4006 days ago

30 April 2013 (M) - I am sexually attracted to my step cousin and idk if I should tell her. She is 31 and I'm 23 we have been hanging out for a few years I started taking her every where because she doesn't have a car. I tell her everything now, she helped get over an ...

Is he interested? I'm not sure what to do next!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3983 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - Hi guys, I am ordinarily a well put together 36 year old woman but find myself in Unchartered territory. I have recently been having a flirtation with a guy (which is an alien concept as I have been on my own for a long time) in person he is ...

I know that I’ll never know this guy’s intentions unless I go for it, but I’m nervous and don’t want to end up hurt. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

29 April 2013 (?) - There’s this shy guy at my work who at first would not say anything to me, but now seems to be making attempts to say hi and stuff to me. He’ll stare at me and if I stare back, he’ll like fumble around. I don’t get it because at first he wouldn’t ...

How do I find out what she feels for this other guy before I tell her how I feel about her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4007 days ago

29 April 2013 (M) - over the last few months this girl has been acting in a way that makes me think that she likes me. always talking to me and looking at me as well as ruffling my hair when i'm around my friends only mine and at a party on saturday I kept looking over ...

How can you tell if a guy actually likes you, or is just attracted to you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4007 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - There's a guy I really like at my work and I am having trouble figuring out if he actually likes me or is just attracted to me. He'll always joke around with me and when I'm telling him something, regardless of how big or small, he'll give me this ...

I'm obsessed with my female English teacher

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3676 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - Ok,i'm in love with my 'best friend'. She's my best friend but i'm pretty sure i'm not hers. I'm obsessed with her. I met her three years ago but we've only been actual friends for a few months. It feel like I've known her forever though. I remember ...

Should I take my nephew's advice and contact this man?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3989 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - 5 weeks ago my car was vandalised and a policeman came to my house to take a statement. This was a Wednesday. We started chatting and realised that we had lots and lots in common. I am 53 and he is 49, I am divorced and he has been separated f...

How should I re-initiate communications with him and build up rapport to make this happen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've lately rekindled attraction for a middle school crush but not contact. We're in our late 20s now and haven't seen each other in 14 years, but we're on each other's Facebook (he added me first years ago, despite havign ignored m...

I liked him. Do you think he liked me or was just trying to recruit me as a volunteer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4009 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - I met this guy in a cafe this morning. He asked me if I was one of the volunteers. I said no, and he introduced himself and shook my hand and started telling me about his work. Then he invited me to sit down with him to have my breakfas...

I am getting mixed signals from my friend, but I really like her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4009 days ago

26 April 2013 (M) - Does my female 19 year old uni friend like me? The things that make me think 'maybe' are: She jokes about going out and that I am the type of guy she would want to marry She always tells me I make her laugh She calls me cute I catch her lo...

Are my insecurities playing a part in this? Or were his comments rude?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

26 April 2013 (F) - I’ve been seeing this guy (exclusively but not boyfriend and girlfriend yet)for just over 2 months (I have known him for 5 months but things started progressing properly 3 months in), I'm 20, he's 21, things are really good between us in general....

Are we friends? more? What does he want?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4006 days ago

26 April 2013 (?) - Ok, so this is not the first emailing we did. We emailed on and off since late 2011, but we needed to stop because of our circumstances. Middle of 2012 he had to leave town, so there was no talking or anything for like a year. Without anything ...

Why does he talk to everyone else but me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4010 days ago

26 April 2013 (F) - Why does he talk to everyone else but me?:(? So there's this cute guy I've likes for months now and he has a lot of female fiends and he's friendly and chatty with them but when it comes to me he's so quiet. I don't understand why doesn't...

Should I believe that I'm a special girl and that he will wait for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3798 days ago

26 April 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, I recently have been hanging out with a guy (i.e./ he skateboards/buses to my campus which is roughly 45 minutes away everyday this past week and we walk around and talk, he taught me how to skateboard, cuddle on couches watch mo...

I love him. Is he a shy lover or a player? He's sent me mixed messages and is now avoiding me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

26 April 2013 (M) - My best friend isn’t gay but I am. He was sending me mixed messages. He send me a text. We hadn’t hung out in like 6 months. I always liked him and came over to spend the night and I was climbing up my bunk bed and slipped. He caught me. I would’ve...

We both lost our feelings for each other overnight. How does this happen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3982 days ago

26 April 2013 (M) - On January 20th, I met this girl at a club and got her number. The next day, I texted her and since we were both bored, we ended up going meeting at the mall later on. Instant connection... We had the best time. Afterwards, we continued textin...

How long could it take to get over my first love? Is there any hope to be friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

26 April 2013 (M) - how long does it take to get over my first love? i dated this girl since oct 2012. she was the one who went after me. i had the biggest crush on her to scared to say anything. she was just amazing beautiful kind funny and very tall 6 feet. we were ...

What does he mean he 'doesn't want drama'?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

26 April 2013 (F) - Hi , so there is this guy at my work that I like so much but he is m y boss. I knoe he likes me too because of the way he act. But he never tells me that he likes me so last night I told him I like him very much and all he said was he is much ...

Why is he being mean? How can I tell him to be nicer to me, without ruining our friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

26 April 2013 (F) - The guy I like and I recently got into the habit of chatting. We've never spoken in person though, despite attending the same school. I thought it was because he hated girls, but then he was unexpectedly nice to me at prom. Anyway, the th...

Why is he ignoring me? Did he get mad at me for not sleeping with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

26 April 2013 (F) - There is this guy in my class who I had never spoken to until last Friday (I am very quiet in class). Last Friday, I somehow ended up talking to him and we went to eat after school. At night, I ended up at a small party with my friends and he w...

I'm worried that I'm falling out of love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

25 April 2013 (M) - Ok, I have been with this amazing girl close to 2 years now. We were friends for 2-3 years before we started dating and we have a great time, rarely fight and I just love her so much. We live very close and see each other every day. We've talked ...

How can I break up this relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

25 April 2013 (M) - I love a girl truely and so much... but she loves another guy who is not her religion. How can i break up this relationship? Please help me......

How can I get over my crushes on 2 teachers?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - I am sooooo shy, but, out of no where! I am suddenly attracted to older men and 2 of my male teachers!!! I've never thought of them in this way before but now just have sexual thoughts about them. It's really annoying because now I can't talk t...

I start to feel nauseous when there's a possiblity of starting a relationship. Why does this happen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

25 April 2013 (M) - I have been writing like crazy the last couple of days trying to figure out what's happening in my head. I have had this a couple of times, but the last time, it started about two weeks ago. I met a nice girl and we really seem to connect and like...

I like this guy and he knows I do. Are there any subtle ways to confirm if he likes me too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4011 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - Ok, so I really like somebody, and he knows. I want to know if he likes me too but I don't know how to tell. I'm really shy and he knows it. He doesn't have a phone, but he has talked to me during school, but only a little. Sadly, we aren't ...

He's separted from his wife but still legally married . We've been dating but now he wants a break. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4004 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles, this may be long so I apologize in advance. I have found myself in a situation I can't really talk to anyone about, except all of you. For seven months now I have been in a relationship with a gentleman who is separat...

Involved with a married woman. So why is she acting this way? Why is she treating me like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

24 April 2013 (M) - hey guys i need advice. ive been involved with a married woman for about 7 months. i know its wrong but hear what i have to say please. we started off as friends good friends. talking everyday spending a few hours together. and i started falling ...

Any reason as to why he's being like this? Or is it that he's just too busy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - Around 3 months ago, I went to the pub for a few drinks with a few friends. One of them I had previously met before and had tried flirting with me but i wasn't interested. I ended up getting slightly drunk and he walked me home and ended up kissi...

He says such sweet things to me. Could it be that he might have feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - Hey so recently some of the boys in my class have been saying I look pretty I'm nice and things like that. But there's this one boy that says it the same way but has me thinking. Let's call him Ed. Well Ed he is sweet at times and silly but th...

Will a shy guy ever ask a girl out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

24 April 2013 (?) - I really like this shy guy, but with his line of work, i am a 'client' so it makes the situation a lot harder to court him (thou i am not a direct client of his). I have written a question on here before and i get the impression that he does like ...

This cute guy is all I want but I'm too shy to talk to him, it's killing me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - Why can't I get him out my head? This is killing me:(? My ex boyfriend lied cheated and dumped me and i lost all my confidence so I decided to join the gym and I'm in the best shape in my life. Guys all say I'm attractive. But there's ...

My crush has a g/f but says I'm pretty. How do I tell his g/f what he said?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

23 April 2013 (F) - Ok so today I saw my ex near and he kept staring at me I said " what are you staring at me for " and he said " nothing ". I said something funny and stubid but I said " what you wishing you had all this again " and I like pointed to my self and ...

I like this guy, but the thing is, he avoids girls. How do I ask him out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

23 April 2013 (F) - I like this guy, but the thing is, he avoids girls. He doesn't talk to them, he doesn't even look at them. I would have thought he was gay, but I have it on good authority that he's not. He has had a girlfriend before. Anyway, I happen to really...

Does she like me as a friend, or is she curious about more?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

23 April 2013 (M) - I've been seperated for two years. I have two dogs, and about eight months ago I met a lady at the dog park. Our dogs really liked each other, and played constantly. Over the next couple months, I'd encounter her once-twice a week at t...

Why is she treating me this way? Did she ever love me? I can't deal with this!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

23 April 2013 (M) - Hi guys my girlfriend broke up with me 4 weeks ago a 6 month relationship. The thing is she's married and older 10 years she’s 28 I'm 18. Things were great I was moving closer to her she was making it clear it was over with her hubby. To make i...

Am I worrying too much about this since it's been so many years since he was my teacher?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

23 April 2013 (F) - I currently am separated from my husband and we are in the middle of a divorce. It has not been finalized but we have not seen or spoken to each other in over 5 months, my attorney just sucks and is really slow. Anyway, I recently ran into my form...

I'm confused about having a crush on an older man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4013 days ago

23 April 2013 (F) - OK so I'm 14 and I just talked to my Vice principle for the first time Friday. I admired him from afar, but I was forced to talk to him on Friday. So now I'm having these weird feelings for him now. He's looks so young,but i think hes in his late ...

Why is he going from very very hot to cool and will a bit of jealousy make him make his move once and for all?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

22 April 2013 (F) - Does making someone jealous work generally as in they will show their feelings or come forward quicker if they think someone else is interested in you. I wouldnt usually be into games like that but a friend of mine who iv been talking to nearl...

I don't want to hurt someone in the process of finding out who I am!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

22 April 2013 (F) - So I'm a little confused. About my sexuality. I've always considered myself straight until now, now I'm just confused. Basically, I have a crush on a guy. He's brilliant and I like him a lot. I might even go as far as to say I love him. I have al...

How do I ask him to hang out? I'm quite inexperienced and also are there any excuses I could use to touch his hand or something next time we're together, to gauge his interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

22 April 2013 (F) - Just need some quick advice :) So there's this guy, he's lovely, a couple of years older, and we get on quite well. I'm never sure if he's flirting over FB but in person he uses a few excuses to touch my hand, like when it was snowing and he gave ...

'm in love with my best friend and get jealous when she dates other people

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

21 April 2013 (M) - Hey I don't know if anyone can help me, but I'm feeling a lot of stuff and just want to get it out. So, here's the situation. I recently fell in love with my best friend, and don't really know how to handle it. Especially considering the ...

Confession on face book has let people know who my crush is!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

21 April 2013 (F) - I'd posted a very embarrassing personal confession in a confession group on FB, and then shared it on my profile to keep it in view.It was about an incident about a senior at college and how I had developed a crush on him. A classmate saw the shar...

I want this to be more than just "One Night Stand". What should I do guys to make this work?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

21 April 2013 (F) - Dear All So here it goes, I have a colleague at my work place that I truly am attracted to him and wouldn't mind being in a relationship with him. He lately been flirting with me sexually, his been touching my waist when he has the ...

I'm not going to try anything whilst he is still going with her but I was wondering if he might have feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

20 April 2013 (F) - ok so I have this friend, M, who has a girlfriend and I'm not going to try anything whilst he is still going out with her but I was wondering if he might have feeling for me. We were kind of close two years ago but then I thought he didnt like me so ...

Two of my friends revealed to me on the same day that they fancied me, problem is that I don't fancy them. Help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4016 days ago

20 April 2013 (F) - I need help, two of my best friends who are guys revealed to me on the same day that they fancied me and both asked me out and I had no idea what to do and somehow, by me not saying to them that I did fancy them, they've managed to get it in their ...

Not sure whether this will lead to more than a friend? or just a one night stand!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

20 April 2013 (F) - Dear All So here it goes, I have a colleague at my work place that I truly am attracted to him and wouldn't mind being in a relationship with him. He lately been flirting with me sexually, his been touching my waist when he has the opportunit...

How do I not be threathened by her around my crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

20 April 2013 (F) - Hi so I have this girl who's a friend. She's really pretty and all the dudes like her they don't bother to get to know her though. We ride the bus together and she is reply nice she has a boyfriend and everyone tries to hit on her but she says ...