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Crushes: Help and advice

How can I forget about this girl?!

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31 December 2011 (M) - how do i forget about a girl i had some fealings for? we had been talking for about 2 months flirting and all of that... at one point she asked my brother when i was home from work cos she wanted to talk... she had personal heart to hearts with m...

Should I try to get over my crush because of these possible deal-breakers?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4500 days ago

31 December 2011 (F) - I am just crazy about this guy and he is a genuinely wonderful person. I've thought in the past that he may be interested in me - I don't really know, but I am trying to figure out if he is worth pursuing or not for a couple of reasons. First rea...

What are his intentions towards me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4500 days ago

31 December 2011 (F) - so i went for a holiday back home, and i went to my ex school to visit my ex teachers. my sister, who goes to the same school, was free so she came along with me. as we where going round and knocking on staffroom doors, my sister met this hot ...

To text or not to text? And if I do text her, what should I say to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4500 days ago

31 December 2011 (M) - Hello! I am a 16 year old guy and I've been working at a pizza place (Donatos) since I was 14. I got a girl's number when I was working the other day, she wrote it on the back of a receipt that I gave her to sign (and she tipped me xD). She was real...

I'm a student tutoring younger students and I have a crush on one of them them!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4498 days ago

31 December 2011 (F) - Hey everyone, a new one from me... I'm in my third semester at University and I'm leading a Tutorium (kind of an extra class) for a lecture. Obviously, I'm a student and it's about students of older semesters helping the ones who just started....

I think he's 'the one' - But am I ready for that???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4501 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - I dont really believe in the idea of soulmates or "the one" in the sense that its my destiny or fate, but I do believe that certain people click together more so than others. And I'm pretty sure I've found that. The problem is that neither of us ...

Is my boyfriend being thoughtless by refusing to change his facebook status?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4500 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Hi, I was having some issues with my bf because of his ex and his friendship and working with her. Anyway he swore to me that although he did really like her, they didn't really have a great relationship, that they didn't have a connection l...

My friend made a move on me. I pushed him away. How can I still be friends but still be clear that his move on me was not ok?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4502 days ago

29 December 2011 (M) - My best friend made a move on me a while back and i sort of freaked out at the time and pushed him away. I regret my actions at the time but he did sort of scare me. We have been friends for years but since that incident he avoids me. I still want ...

I'm not sure I am doing the smart thing with this older boy ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Hey. I am a freshman in highschool. This junior and I have been texting on and off for a few months now. He doesn't really talk to me in school. We just smile the casual hey what's up but not a real conversation. I really like him and I know he ...

He ends his messages with "love (his name)"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - When a man you dont know that well writes "love" and then his name at the end of a message, does that mean he is interested ?.We met last week and he bought me drinks and danced with me and he also said in the message that he would like to go out ...

I met this girl but she has a boyfriend. Can we still hang out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

28 December 2011 (M) - Hey guys and girls. Happy holidays :D Hope you people had lots of fun. Alright here's the help I need. I meet this girl at a formal like around 1 week ago for like an Religious Catholic Organization. Alright I meet her, I don't wanna over board...

What can I say to get talking properly again and keep her interested in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4496 days ago

27 December 2011 (M) - so i added this girl on facebook about a month ago... started talking and flirting... she is kinda a friend of friend of a friend we are muttualy connected by friends :P and im not the most confident guy in the world especially with ladies (shy and ...

Should I tell him again that I like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4504 days ago

27 December 2011 (F) - I feel really silly having to ask this kind of question, its not even really a question i just need advice. Also i apologise if its long. I'm 21 and met my guy friend 6 months ago, i've developed strong feelings for him. He's been brought up with ...

Was the whole explosion of feelings just a mind game?...what should I do? Continue to be in his life, just stop, or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4504 days ago

27 December 2011 (F) - So this guy I have had a "crush" on for three years told me on christmas that he cares about me and wants me. But he has a girlfriend who is manipulative (they have had a break in the summer because she cheated). And I told him that I have cared a...

I'm really confused. Do I stay with my BF or go to this other guy? And how will it affects the kids?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4504 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - Need advice please. I have been with the father of my kids for six years now. We have had our up and downs. We have even split up a few times and got back together within days. About 1 1/2 years ago I started my job unknowing at the time that this...

He teases me and can be sarcastic. But could he like me romantically?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4502 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - We've been working together (I know, work is not the best place to get a crush, but I can't help it!) for about a month now, and in that time we've created a pretty friendly relationship. We're very jokey and sarcastic with each other and we tease ...

Advice for responding to this text?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4505 days ago

26 December 2011 (M) - Merry Christmas all! I met a girl on the train the other day and, although incredibly unlike me, I started talking to her and asked for her number and if she wanted to go for a drink. She gave it to me and then immediately started texting me when ...

I love him, but I keep denying it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4505 days ago

26 December 2011 (?) - I'm very young, still. But when I think about my future, I think of it being with one person only. In highschool, I was a diver, school president, had lots of dates, took AP classes. I didn't find a boy I ever really liked. Except one. We became ...

I am in love with a much older guy, but have a boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4505 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - I'm 16 and when I was younger I played a sport to national standard and met a great number of people in the years I was playing, but I had to 'retire' at the age of 12 when a failed operation left me with a bad arm. I met the man in question...

What hope is there that this could become more? His friends tell me he doesn't want a relationship now. But I really like him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4505 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - One year ago I danced with a guy on a beach party in LA but nothing much else happened. We talked for a few weeks and then things just fizzled out. I have seen him a few times since then with mutual friends, and then at a party one month ago we kiss...

Everyone is telling me to walk away. Should I wait as he asked, until his health improves?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4506 days ago

25 December 2011 (F) - I am going through a hard time at the moment with my feelings towards someone special and I don't know what to do for the best. I'm so wrapped up in the situation I can't seem to make sense of it all. To start from the beginning, I have only bee...

I'd like to confront him about the false message he gave me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4506 days ago

25 December 2011 (F) - Hello aunts and uncles, I hope you're enjoying the holidays! So, there was this guy that I used to like. Let's call him T. T is somewhat of a ladykiller, he has a ton of friends who are girls, and he's dated a lot of people. Recently, I was leaving ...

Was my disappointed reaction to be expected? He visited a lap dance place after his work Christmas party

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4504 days ago

25 December 2011 (F) - Hi everyone and merry christmas. so i wanted to ask some advice and opinions off of you. so i met this guy online 3 months ago and we have totally hit it off and we have chatted loads and got on really well and plan to meet up in a couple of w...

Did he take advantage of my (now shattered) feelings? And how do I get over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4505 days ago

25 December 2011 (F) - I have this casual friend whom I met after 3 years. He is studying in a good law school. It was a surprise meet and we talked for 3-4 days. Then I felt that I like spending time with him and would like to give this relationship a shot. I told him ...

I'm terrified that he's lost interest in me again. Is that possible? Or am I just being paranoid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4505 days ago

24 December 2011 (F) - Hello everyone. So I need some help. There's this boy I like... We're pretty good friends. But... He's sending me some serious mixed signals. Here's how it all started: (sorry if it's lengthy, but it all has a point.) Well, he and I met at the end...

Seems the kiss meant nothing to him. Forgive or Ignore him? Please help decipher my feelings and find some kind of peace

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24 December 2011 (F) - So I met this guy who I thought had a little crush on me for almost a year. I ignored it because in the beginning I didn't feel that way. But he did little things that eventually caused me to fall for him. Anyway he was distant for a while whic...

I am in a complicated situation with this guy, is he flirty or is he just hurt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4505 days ago

23 December 2011 (F) - I am in an extremely complicated and overly dramatized situation. I will try my best to sum it up and hit the main points. I met this guy, he seemed nice and we hit it off. He was obviously into me. He told me he would go out of his way to do ce...

I'm worried I'm in love with a guy I grew up with. What will I do about my boyfriend, who I don't love now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4508 days ago

23 December 2011 (F) - I grew up on a rough estate, and I hung around with the bad boys. That was 7 years ago, and since then i met a lad through college and we got together in 2009. He cheated and lied constantly, i forgave him, Though I don't know why I did forgive him,...

I have a huge crush on her and want to marry her. How can I encourage our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4507 days ago

23 December 2011 (M) - I met her in one of my classes, she was very introverted. Hardly talked to anyone, but luckily she often talked to me and i have often dropped her off, near her house many times. This was the point at which i start liking her. Prior to our last clas...

Should I wait for him to ask me out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

23 December 2011 (F) - There this guy i like we talk and lught together all the time he tell me that he enjoy time we spent together and always smile we am in a bad mood he always try to make me smile do you think his intereted and should i ask him out or wait for him to ...

My friends are not encouraging. Is she playing me? Do I have a chance with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4508 days ago

23 December 2011 (M) - i met this chick through a friend back in late oct. we were fairly smashed and things were pretty good with us.. flirty and laughing.. we've been msging each other for about a week.. then we organised to meet up for our first date which was average, ...

He's a nice guy and a friend. How can I hint to him that I'm not interested in him in that way?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4504 days ago

22 December 2011 (F) - There is this guy and I think he likes me? We have a been inboxing and talking, but I realised that he would inbox me everyday and if I don't reply in time he would inbox again asking a question. Obviously I answer because it is the nicest thin...

How do I resolve that my ex is on my mind and we talk daily but I also like this guy at work? I think I love both.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4508 days ago

22 December 2011 (F) - I think I am in love with 2 people. S and M. What should I do? S is my ex-partner of nearly 6 years. We split up 2 months ago and it was quite a shock to me. We had a very good relationship and spent alot of time together. S said he was unsure wh...

Why is he giving me mixed messages? One minute he wants to kiss me and make it special and then he distances himself from me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4509 days ago

22 December 2011 (F) - I wouldn't say I fall for people easily or get attached quickly. I always keep my guard up. But I began to fall for someone and he admitted to me too that he was starting to fall in love with me. But now he's cut me out of his life completely, and ...

First crush! How can I hold myself back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4508 days ago

22 December 2011 (F) - Long story short, i am 14 and i think i may have my first crush. Ive never had a boyfriend and well i think i'm ready for one, i do know this isn't the only oppturnity open to me and yes i will still concentrate on schoolrswork and this little ...

If our relationship is strong enough to last this, how can I support him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4509 days ago

22 December 2011 (F) - Please, I'm desperately asking for help! I've been dating my boyfriend since around 10 months now. I am a very emotional person and so is he, so we've had a lot of ups and downs. We kept our relationship a secret for a long time, almost 5 months ...

What does this dream about the boy I like mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4509 days ago

22 December 2011 (F) - Okay i had this dream about a boy i like, i dont really know what that means, i would really like to know and ill tell you about the dream. i went to my family's house and there was an apartment by it so i went over there and i had family there, ...