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Archived questions from: January, 2013 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

I married at 20. Now I've fallen for a colleague. He has a Gf. Is my colleague playing mind games with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4088 days ago

31 January 2013 (F) - Hi all. I 30 years old and I am madly in love with my colleague and we are having an affair. When we met it was a moment where I took one look at him and felt electric heart-pounding it felt like I knew him already. We hit it off immediately but ...

Did I over-react? I thought we had a connection. Maybe not? I feel he's messing with my mind!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4099 days ago

30 January 2013 (F) - Hello I just wanted some views on my situation. I met a guy on holiday and we kept in touch. I went back to visit him and we spent lots of time together. I met his family and his friends again. When we were apart we always have arguments ov...

Hate my toxic work place, where cheating is the norm. How can people cheat and not feel guilty?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4103 days ago

29 January 2013 (M) - I am really hating my workplace at the moment I feel that its really poisoness. Everyone seems to be cheating on everyone else and I am the only who seems to think its disgusting. One girl at work was giving me all this relationship advice with my ...

He's 24. I told him I was 18. How can I tell him the truth that I'm 17 and not lose him when I do tell?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4097 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - Hello, I'm 17 years old and iv met a guy and we have been seeing each other for about a month and we really like each other. However, I told him I was 18 as we met in a bar that I got into. He's 24. I want to tell him that I'm actually 17,...

Never violent, nor unfaithful. But we did horrible things to each other. Yet I love her still. How can I get over her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4100 days ago

29 January 2013 (M) - I was with the most amazing woman in the world! The time we spent together was the most amazing time I have spent with anyone. We got each other on every level. Mentally and physically! When things were good they were the best they have ever bee...

Is 22 too young for a man to really settle down? Do we know each other well enough to make this decision?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4103 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - I am 21, I went to school with this guy, that we will call GUY. So..we have texted and talked via facebook/text for a while, off and on, but for these last few weeks we have talked heavily. All day everyday. We can't hang out at this moment ...

Do I tell this girl my real feelings for her? But then there's my friend, and I know he likes her too.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4103 days ago

29 January 2013 (M) - well this girl that I like lets call her girl A I met through being friends with this other girl lets call her girl B and by the way girl A and girl B are really good friends. The problem I have is that I really enjoy being friends with girl B a...

I do have herpes, but not more than that. But was he being flippant, or weird with his response, "that he'd still like me even if I did have AIDS"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4103 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - So I went to high school with this guy a few years ago. I lived in a small town so we all knew each other. I have started "talking" to him and we have grown so close, we have not had sex. Well, this may be TMI but, I have herpes. And I was too sc...

Do you think I have missed my chance with this guy or is it worth being somewhere by "accident"on the chance I will bump into him? Or is that desperate?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4104 days ago

28 January 2013 (F) - I had to wait in a queue for half hour or so yesterday and got randomly chatting to this guy who was also waiting. during the conversation he told me 2 or 3 times he was single,divorced, asked if I was.We kept chatting till it was my turn to be se...

Are my parents right to be worried and should I worry a bit more about my crush on this 49 year old salesman?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - I am a 19 year old apprentice hairdresser, I have fallen for a 49 year old salesman who delivers product to our salon. I have always fancied older men and have had a few affairs and slept with them. My parents are worried that he his using me and...

Should I Risk telling my friend my true feelings for her, or play it safe?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4097 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - So i have this friend I've known all my life. But we've only become really close this last year or so. I'm afraid I'm developing deeper feelings for her. and she isnt making it easy! She says lots of little compliments,like say I'm cute and stu...

What would be good things to talk about to get to know this foreign student while still helping him with his English?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4105 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - Lol _ I just started meeting with this foreign student in my college to help him with his English (part of this “conversation/language partners” program, or something like that). Basically, I meet with him once a week for an hour just to converse in ...

First he hates me, now he's friendly - how should I understand it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4106 days ago

26 January 2013 (M) - I’m a young gay guy and a student. One of my coursemates is a really sexy guy, unfortunately straight. Although even if he would be gay, I would have no chance, because he’s really hot, like a film star. The bad thing is that he’s apparently a ...

What can I do? My husband talks about this woman he works with all the time. Yet he can't take two minutes to speak to me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4104 days ago

26 January 2013 (F) - When my husband is at work he can't take two minutes to talk to me on the phone but I hear from his co-workers that he is in their offices and about all the good times they have. I told him it hurts my feelings that he can't give me the time of ...

I have a crush on a boy, but don't know if he wants a girlfriend. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4107 days ago

25 January 2013 (F) - I've started liking someone since getting over someone else who I think I have overlooked. He's much much nicer than the person I used to like, and I'm certain he's not a "rebound" because he's all I've been able to think about for the last few ...

I really like this girl but it doesn't seem right to ask her out. I'm 4 years older. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4107 days ago

24 January 2013 (M) - Recently a girl joined my college..she is 4 years younger than me..we know each other because her brother was my school buddy. From the first day of her college, I really liked her. Now here comes the problem.. I don't want to tell her that I like h...

Do I need to get over him? It wasn't meant to be something serious

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4109 days ago

24 January 2013 (F) - I know this will sound a little pathetic considering my age, but here it goes. Last year I went to a sort of convention, and I met a nice guy. He was kind of cute, but I knew I'd only see him on those two days or so, and I didn't think anything...

What do you think? Does he like me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4098 days ago

24 January 2013 (F) - So I've known him for a few months (mutual friend) and we finally hung out. Here are some things that happened. *he asked me personal questions. *told me a lot about himself and told me he doesn't share this stuff with everyone. Only people...

If she would go behind his back, she would mine too, Correct? Or should I wait for her to choose me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4108 days ago

24 January 2013 (M) - This is a messed up one. I finally found my soulmate. She has a child. We were together for a year. She hated her child's daddy. We have been apart for 4 months now. She has started texting me, wanting me to come see her. Here is the exciting stu...

I've regained all my feelings for him again. How do I tell him this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4108 days ago

24 January 2013 (F) - So , When I Was 15 I Was In A Relationship With This Guy Who Was Also The Same Age As Me . After Three Months Of Being Together , We Broke Up . But After Several Months Of Not Talking He Decided To Text Me . So We Been Texting For About A Year...

What do I wear?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4105 days ago

23 January 2013 (F) - Basically I'm going out for a get together with this boy for what I know it's not a date it's just close friends getting together but I quite like him more than a friend. So I'm over thinking on how to dress and how to do my make up choice? Do I g...

Should my friend tell her husband that she used to have a crush on his brother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

23 January 2013 (F) - my friend used to have a pshychological crush on a person and a few people knew it. and then an arranged marriage landed her with his brother.. she really loves her husband and his brother means nothing to her now... but should she tell this to her ...

How can I tell whether or not this guy likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4110 days ago

22 January 2013 (F) - I find it really hard to read this boy! He shows some signs he likes me such as laughs at my jokes, smiles at me, is different around me, makes fun of me. But when I told him I liked him before he didn't take it too well cus he liked someone else, ...

Do relationships develop from sleeping with someone you have just met?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4108 days ago

21 January 2013 (F) - Do relationships develop from sex? I’ve always been the type of person who hasn't slept around and would never let myself be used by a fella for sex. By doing this I think I have kept men at arm’s length and therefore have never developed any long...

We planned to meet up but it never happened and now I think he has lost interest. I still like him, so how do I save this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

21 January 2013 (F) - Theres this guy at work that I like and at first I thought he liked me back as he asked for my number and we used to phone each other every day. We planned meet up but they just didnt happen due to conflicting schedules and now we dont speak as ...

Does she like me? How do I make sure I don't give her the wrong impression that I like her when I only want to be friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

21 January 2013 (M) - I am currently studying in school and I have no experience in in dealing with the most minor matters in love, especially when rejecting someone. A few months ago, a girl in my similar school started a conversation with me on Facebook. We hav...

I'm of Indian descent. Why do white guys want a relationship with me but ask for it to be a secret? It hurts me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - Why is it that so many of the white guys I know that want a relationship with me wants one in secret? I'm tired of a guy saying I have a thing for Indian woman but no one can know about it. In public they would much rather be seen with someon...

Why does she keep on asking me about my Gf?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

20 January 2013 (M) - This girl I work with continuously asks me about my relationship. She (and I) were a little bit flirty with each other for a while but I know she has a husband so I never persued anything. Any way I started dated another girl about a few months ago ...

Do guys back off if their friends show interest in you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4113 days ago

19 January 2013 (F) - So to make a long story short, a guy from my school was very interested in me, but I have feelings for one of his friends. One day I was talking to the friend, and he basically told me that he finds me attractive but that he felt we couldn't act ...

He can't handle it now that I no longer have a crush on him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4113 days ago

19 January 2013 (F) - I still remember when I first fell in love. Or fell in what I thought was love. It was unrequited and I was very young. I managed to stay in that infatuated state for a good four years. Many things happened during that time. For example, he foun...

Having doubts about my relationship. Is it because I no longer a doormat?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

18 January 2013 (F) - I've posted on here previously but I'm in such a state with myself lately, I really need further advice, I'm so confused and low and at a total cross roads with where my life is going. I've been with my boyfriend 3 years, we're both nearly 20 y...

So what's my next move? The guy at work I'm very very attracted to? Or my Bf of one year?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

18 January 2013 (F) - hello, i work in a medium sized company, 7months ago a new guy joined our team of 6. He is really good looking, attractive, polite ect ect. we do get on really well and i feel attracted to him, he is very much my type to be honest. The thing is ...

Don't I deserve to be treated right? Just brokeup with ex and am pregnant by my ex. But like this other guy.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

18 January 2013 (F) - Not even a week a ago I got out of a long relationship with someone who was using me for everything like money and sex it was a 9 year off and on relationship. He is the father of my seven year old and now my unbornchild. I know I am already over...

My friend and I are both interested in the same girl - what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

18 January 2013 (M) - Ok, so i got kind of typical question, but i haven't been able to find a good answer, as it is kind of different. Ok, so i like this girl who is a junior, she's cute, but i have a friend who also likes her too. Now my question is: would she be...

I really like this guy who works at my campus starbucks. How can I get to know him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

18 January 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, There's this guy that I've always thought to be pretty cute at my campus starbucks. Of course there's no sure way to know if he likes me (i mean he probably sees lots of attractive women every day and probably smiles at all of them an...

Three choices. But which one? Can you help please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4113 days ago

17 January 2013 (F) - Well there's 3 boys I know like me. One of them is a good friend of mine and we have good conversations and he's so lovely and he's good looking but there's not much spark and I don't really like him like that. The second guy I've got history with...

I don't want our last two awkward meetings to be the last memories we have of each other. Advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4115 days ago

17 January 2013 (F) - So my story happens on New Year’s Eve. (back ground info) I am 21 and my friend is 18. We have been neighbours for most of our lives. We were very close as children and I have great memories of being with him. but we grew apart when I was a teenag...

I need advise about a guy I like! He's hard to get! Help please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4116 days ago

16 January 2013 (F) - Hi, I need some advise. I am very confused. There is this guy, which I really like. I moved to London in September and I met so many guys, but this guy I like is the only guy I have liked now in England. He is so different then the other...

How can I tell this girl who I've kissed that I think she's the one? Trouble is it's now a LDR

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

16 January 2013 (M) - Hi im 14 and live in one place in my state but there is this girl who I like but she lives in another place in my state. I don't know how to tell her my feelings, especially that she's the girl for me. But the major problem is that we've kissed b...

I feel good but bad at he same time. I told my FWB that I'd developed feelings for him. Now he wants a break?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4105 days ago

16 January 2013 (F) - Oh gosh, okay, sorry if this is a little long it may just end up viewed as venting. I've been seeing this guy and I've posted about this situation a couple of months ago. Well, we continued seeing each other and it seems now that it was clearly ...

Is he interested? Do I text him or wait?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

15 January 2013 (F) - Ok, well on Hogmanay [mod note: New Year's Eve] I met this guy. He seemed very nice and we kissed. The conversation flowed really well but we were both drunk. He asked for my number and for a whole week he text me constantly. He then stopped texting ...

I like a certain musician and want to message him via his bands Facebook page. What questions should I ask?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

15 January 2013 (F) - I know this isn't much of a problem, but i'd appreciate your help. I like a member of a band. The band that he was in that I am a fan of were famous. He is in another band now that isn't famous (well, they haven't released albums and singles)...

After all these years, why do I still think about my past love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4103 days ago

15 January 2013 (F) - I volounteer at the local youth center, and with the help of my mentors have building up a good network systems. About 4 years ago I met this particular youth worker, at the time I really didn't see how amazing he was till after I got to know hi...

What are we? Friends, BF/GF, frenemies?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

15 January 2013 (?) - This guy is confusing me soo much. I care about him but I don't want him to see me as one of the guys. Well I've known him for three years now, and we've always been kind of friends but with hints of something more. He gets jealous when I bring up...

Should I be with someone who thinks of me as a slut?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4117 days ago

15 January 2013 (F) - So this guy and I were talking for about 4 months, then at a party we had one on one time. He brought me home and walked me into my room. I had drank a bit we than ended up having sex, he asked me to be his GF. I avoided the question, 2 months have ...

Crush central. How do I get to know him better? And he's joining the army soon. And I'm moving far away.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4117 days ago

15 January 2013 (F) - I'm in my last year of high school and i realize ive got it sooo bad for this guy in my grade. We don't have any classes together but when he talks to people I know everything I need to know. He's not like really good-looking, he's not popular...

Should I tell my husband to evict him? And that I've been flirting with the younger cute male student we sub-let a room to?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4117 days ago

14 January 2013 (F) - Times have been hard lately for my husband and I so we got a room mate to help split the rent of our 3 bedroom 3 bathroom home.I'm 27 and my husband is 29 our new room mate is a 20 year old college student, pretty quit and geeky. I'm a stay at home ...

He wants to be faithful to his girlfriend, but I want to tell him how I feel. Is this a good idea?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4117 days ago

14 January 2013 (F) - I met this guy about a year ago and recently, in September, we began to hang out and we became "close" like intimate. I liked him and I still do. The problem is that he has a girlfriend now. For about two months, we fell off because of a conflict ...

My girlfriend admitted she had a crush on another guy. Is this acceptable?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4118 days ago

14 January 2013 (M) - After questioning her, my girlfriend admitted to having a crush on another guy two years ago, which was still ln our relationship. I kind of expected it but still, it hurts. Is this acceptable?...

Should I make the first move on him? ...Again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4118 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - Ok, well I'm a nearly sixteen female and the guy I like is a year and a half older than me. I began to like him about five or six months ago, and now I basically love him. Thing is, he won't talk to me even though we kissed a few weeks back und...