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Archived questions from: September, 2013 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

I'm confused after this kiss with another girl!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3860 days ago

30 September 2013 (F) - Wer do I start I have this mate who I went to college with ! Every now and then we meet up to keep in touch! Through her I met her friend from the first time I saw her I thought she was pretty and felt unnerved by her! Maybe a year later I seen her ...

I like him a lot but have no clue what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3861 days ago

30 September 2013 (F) - So theres this guy I've liked for a year and we're friends. I like him A LOT, but I'm sure he doesn't feel the same. Ifeel crazy though cause he always is the one who makes me smile even if I'm having the worst day. He always finds someway to make ...

Will it cause problems with my fellow lifeguards if I ask him out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3861 days ago

29 September 2013 (F) - I work as a life guard in a indoor pool and I'm very attracted to one guy who started swimming there. He is tall dark and handsome and very sociable. There is one issue though, whenever I talk to him I find myself glancing down at his body and ...

I just want to tell him I have a crush on him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

29 September 2013 (M) - Hey guys, so i've had a crush on this guy at school (im also a guy and i am gay) but the problem is i've never had an actual conversation with him. Im also pretty sure hes straight even though he hasn't had a girlfriend. My problem is that im sure ...

I'm confused as to what he wants from me. I love him so much but why wont he ask me out if he claims to have these feelings for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

29 September 2013 (F) - I'm confused as to what he wants from me. I love him so much but why wont he ask me out if he claims to have these feelings for me. We met a few years ago, we fell in love, he disappeared we moved on. 5 years later we met up again, and feeli...

How can I contact again my ex-friend and crush and should I? I regret losing him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3847 days ago

29 September 2013 (F) - It's a bit long but that's because i'm gonna try to explain things well so that hopefully you can answer accuraletly... if you could give me your opinion on it i'd be VERY grateful ! So here is the story This guy got interested in me right a...

Sex buddies forever or could there be more? I've fallen for him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

29 September 2013 (F) - Okay... So here goes, I am current having sex ( we have done it once) with a guy.... We decided we were going to meet with each other around 14 months ago and thats how it was going to be... Since then we have texted like crazy (flirty messages and ...

She's unhappy about it. Is it wrong to be in a casual relationship with a guy who has an open relationship with his Gf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3863 days ago

28 September 2013 (F) - Is it wrong of me to be continuing a casual relationship with a guy who is in an open relationship with another girl, and the girl is beginning to be unhappy about it? It's nothing serious between us (though it is ongoing, around once or twice a ...

How do I approach and initiate a conversation and talk to my crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3863 days ago

28 September 2013 (?) - Ok, let's just make this short. Well at least attempt to make it short?? I have a crush, I see him at breakfast everyday but I don't talk to him at all. I have no classes with him so what's the point. I find it weird if I were to do that, just go ...

My crush doesn't speak to me at all

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3864 days ago

27 September 2013 (F) - please help i have a deep crush on a guy in college and he doesnt speak to me at all even though we used to when we attended a college program.its been almost a year like this but a few months ago he wished me on my birthday online in ...

In a relationship, but cannot get married co-worker out my head!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3864 days ago

27 September 2013 (F) - My new co-worker (he's newly married, I might add) is adorable, funny, and charming. He is also a HUGE flirt. I find myself flirting back all the time, though I'm careful as to what I say. And even though I do flirt, at the end of the day, I only ...

My married male friend has admitted to being in love with me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3864 days ago

27 September 2013 (F) - Ok, so I am a 21 yr old female, student, and i have this male friend(30), an audiologist, who is married and has a kid.. I always saw him in this friend area...plus he is my best friend. He admitted of being Madly in love with me. It was a ...

Crush on my clinical instructor, think he likes me but acts weird.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3863 days ago

27 September 2013 (F) - Hi Everyone, I am 27 years old and in an accelerated nursing program. I have a crush on my clinical instructor. I thought he liked me too, I think he is not married (no ring) and he is maybe 10 years older than me. The reasons I think he likes me is ...

Afraid of coming across as "too available"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

27 September 2013 (F) - I would like help from everyone, but am searching more for that guy perspective: I've met this awesome guy, and I think we clicked from the moment we introduced ourselves to each other. I really like hanging out with him, but I worry that if I ...

How do I let him know I'm interested without embarrassing either of us?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3861 days ago

26 September 2013 (F) - Hey I'm a 17 year old girl and I really like someone aged 25. I understand that we're at different points in our lives and I may be a bit young for him at the moment but we really connect and get each other really well. I feel he's hinting at ...

Crush admitted that he kissed me only because he was drunk!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

25 September 2013 (F) - Ok I've been in love with this guy for like 2 years but he's never gown that kind of interest in me, we're just close friends - we can talk about whatever- and sometimes we flirt a little but he flirts with everyone really, anyway we got drunk at a ...

Is there any chance a handsome guy could like a fat girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

24 September 2013 (F) - Hello Dear Aunts and Uncles So, this is gonna be a silly question but i hope you could answer anyway... Well, there is this guy i met that i really like. We are in the same group of friends (i am new to the group). The thing is i don't know if...

Don't want to lose my friends but I really like this guy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

23 September 2013 (F) - Basically, I have been friends with this boy for ages now, and I have started to have a massive crush on him. People say he would be good for me, but they never say if he has told anyone he has a crush on me too. I have got a bad reputati...

What's the deal with ALWAYS making dates and then not going through with them?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

23 September 2013 (M) - Okay, so about 2 weeks ago I'm in the grocery store and this girl is checking me out. It occurs to me to hit on her, but I ultimately don't. On my walk home, the same girl pulls up beside me and starts chatting me up. She tells me I'm perfect, cute ...

I like the friend of my ex but am afraid he might think I'm a psycho!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

22 September 2013 (F) - dear cupid i have this crush on a guy had it for a while and thought it would go but now he is invading my dreams i really like him and i know one kiss from him would be a dream but here's the problem: he is friends with my ex who dumped me...

He opened up to me, And now hes avoiding the subject!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

22 September 2013 (F) - Please bare with me. IM so confused and really need advice from everyone and anyone. I have been talking to this guy for about 3 months. We talked a few years ago as well but we lost contact due to an ex trying to sabotage us. Anyway, back to...

Date help needed: how do I ask a guy out via text?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3849 days ago

22 September 2013 (F) - Hi. I really need help. I want to ask a guy out (via text, I am too shy to ask him out properly) and I want something cute to say. How can I ask him?...

Is this a good idea to ask out a girl to homecoming?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

21 September 2013 (M) - Homecoming is just around the corner and I've been trying to figure out how I want to ask my girl. At my school you can simply just ask. It's got to be done is some special way. The girl I want to ask is a really good softball player and practices ...

It's a success story regarding my relationship with a divorced teacher, now my friend wants to do the same.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3870 days ago

21 September 2013 (F) - In 2009, I posted a question on dearcupid regarding my relationship with a married high school teacher of mine. We had an affair, broke it off when I moved east for university from my hometown in the Midwest, and he then filed for divorce and moved ...

Is giving up on my crush the only choice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3871 days ago

20 September 2013 (M) - I am In Love with a girl in about 3 years. I've tried to tell her my feelings but she refused. Few mouths ago, another boys is crushing on her, and it looks like giving up is my only choice, what should I Do?...

Is the guy I like playing hard to get?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3871 days ago

20 September 2013 (F) - Hello! I really like this guy in my school. He recently found out about my depression I had before. This happened because my friends were just causally talking about it. My friend told her best guy friend which is best friends with the guy I like. I ...

I have social anxiety and don't feel good about asking a guy out in person.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

19 September 2013 (F) - I have social anxiety. I really like this guy, and I want to ask him out. I always hear people saying that you should only ask people out in person, but I really struggle to talk to people who aren't my close friends. I've ALMOST asked him before ...

How can I tell whether this girl likes me without directly asking her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

18 September 2013 (M) - I've been talking to this girl for a few weeks now and we are very open with each other and we get along great. But I don't know if she likes me or not and I asked her once but it was when we had just started talking. Is there any way of know that ...

Am I being too cold about males or should I be free and wild?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3873 days ago

18 September 2013 (F) - I am currently 19 years old and i am single. i am very attractive as i often attract all kinds of men. i 'put myself on pause'as a result of hurt from the past. i am afraid to love and to trust my male companions. I still talk to males but wh...

I'm shy but I want to ask him out. How do I get the courage? And it's Two days before this semester finishes. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3872 days ago

18 September 2013 (F) - We have two days left at university, and I'm too shy to ask him out.. I don't know whether we will have a chance to talk, and even limited opportunity to talk one on one.. We're not friends, but we're on friendly terms.. Please give ...

Why am I fantasizing about a man I don't know?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3873 days ago

17 September 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a really great relationship. We met at college and since we grew up in different towns, he goes back home for his summer vacations so we don't get to spend a lot of time together. I have used the free time away from him to ...

What went wrong? She's been distant since I told her I stop flirting with different girls on twitter.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3873 days ago

16 September 2013 (M) - Hello, i am a bit confused and i would like some advice. I have noticed a change in a female i recently met at a party about 8 months ago. because she lives quite a bit from me, we have been communicating more on the phone and on line. Ho...

How do I bring myself to ask him out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3874 days ago

16 September 2013 (F) - I can't get up the courage to ask this guy out somewhere. I guess I'm just scared of rejection. He's a super nice guy and I don't think he would embarrass me or anything, I just can't bring myself to do it. I have social anxiety which I think might ...

I have a crush on my teacher, told my friend who told her family. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3875 days ago

15 September 2013 (F) - I can't tell my friends about anything. I told one of my friends about a crush recently.....she told her entire family. My secrets have gone viral. The trouble is, her family know who I am crushing on....they could tell him ANY MINUTE now! I am so ...

Last chance to make a move and I'm shy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

15 September 2013 (F) - We have two more days of university and I don't know what to do. I'm quite shy, and I can't even guarantee that we'll have a chance to talk to each other. We're both in our mid-20s and have been studying together for the last year and a half. We're ...

I love my best friend, but he causes me pain; is he mysterious or a psychopath?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3876 days ago

14 September 2013 (F) - Hello everyone 3 Things are getting out of control here and I could really appreciate some help! I’m painfully in love with my best friend. He is fun and at the same time he’s conservative, he is sometimes gentle and some other times really cynic...

Would you give him another chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3875 days ago

14 September 2013 (F) - At work this man use to look after me, he was older and use to flirt etc. At first I liked him. But i told him i didn't fancy him because people were talking and i get shy. At that point, this kind helpful man became two-faced and nasty. He trie...

he has a girlfriend who's gorgeous while I'm the ugly loner nerd

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3877 days ago

14 September 2013 (F) - My crush go way back from 3rd grade and I like him I know he likes me back cause he flirts with me and won't let anyone ask out oh yeah he's part of the "cool kids" club and me a loner and nerd so basically he has a girlfriend and he was kind ...

Friend-zoned ... I need help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3877 days ago

14 September 2013 (M) - Hi, I need some help and advice. I have been liking this girl. A week ago, I hint my feelings to her. We texted and heart to heart talk a little. She finds me a good friend and she don't want to be involve in a relationship. She wants to wait un...

I masturbate about my colleague every night and I'm tired of it! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3874 days ago

14 September 2013 (F) - I have a crush on someone, a coworker. He has a girlfriend. I know I have no chance in hell with him. However, no matter how hard I try, I can't get him out of my head. I've felt like this about him for the past year, and the feeling is as strong as ...

Should I text her or should I wait until she gets back from holiday?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3856 days ago

13 September 2013 (M) - Hi I'm just looking for some advice on this girl I pulled in town, Im not the most confident guy in the world so last year I decided to join a gym got in good shape and recently started going in town, even though I get anxious and dread going in, ...

Having a crush and flirting while in a relationship with someone else!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3878 days ago

13 September 2013 (F) - I am in a relationship with my boyfriend who I DO love from the bottom of my heart. Just thinking about him gets my heart fluttering! I'm always wondering what I can do to make our relationship grow. However, and it's difficult to admit this even ...

I'm infatuated with one of my girlfriend's co-workers!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3878 days ago

12 September 2013 (M) - So, I have a crush on one of my girlfriend's co-workers. They are indeed friends as well. When my GF first introduced us, I felt a weird vibe like she was kind of into me. Of course I was playing everything off. Nevertheless, I feel almost consumed...

I've fallen for him now but it seems he is no interested in me or not wanting to be my friend. Please help me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3879 days ago

12 September 2013 (F) - A guy blocked me because he said i wasn't in love with him which was true i called him several times but to no respond, i then sent him an sms he called later saying "lets be real, i was faking, so were u, lets just be friends'. We were friends, i ...

Does he like me or did I misinterpret his actions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3879 days ago

12 September 2013 (F) - We go to the same school but we met in July in a summer camp where we stayed 2 weeks.I'm 17 he's 15.We started talking the first day and before I knew it we became close and he was constantly/a lot of the time around me.A couple of examples(all ...

Last chance and too shy to make a move!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3870 days ago

12 September 2013 (F) - We have two more days of university and I don't know what to do. I'm quite shy, and I can't even guarantee that we'll have a chance to talk to each other. We're both in our mid-20s and have been studying together for the last year and a half. We're ...

Do you think that me having a low self esteem is giving off a bad vibe to guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3879 days ago

11 September 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid I have never had a boyfriend, never had a guy ask me out, and have been rejected by every guy that I end up liking. All of my friends have had boyfriends except me, and I feel left out. To top it all off, the guy I currently like doesn't ...

An unexpected crush on my teacher.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3861 days ago

8 September 2013 (F) - I don't know how to start but this is my problem. I have a crush on my teacher and I know it's really creepy. (I don't want to but it just happened). Our age gap is seven years. And if you categorize me to stereotypes, I belong at Emo kids, (those...

If a crush lasts for several years, does that mean it's actually love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3882 days ago

8 September 2013 (F) - I have heard that a crush would slow down and finally disappear, but I wonder how long it lasts. If a crush lasts for 2.5 years and you see the person on a daily basis, is it still a crush? I have read that crush is infatuation or lust so it can't ...

I'm not sure if this woman I work with is interested in me or if she's even gay. She seemed to be wearing my hairband on her wrist, could there be some hidden meaning?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3882 days ago

8 September 2013 (F) - I work with someone who I'm not sure if she knows I'm interested and if she's gay or not. I've come across a photo a colleague showed me of this woman at work what looked to be wearing my hair band on her wrist..bearing in mind the person I'm ...